Am i the only one that struggles to find real people!!

Am i the only one that struggles to find real people!!

    | Jun 22, 2019
young_guy23
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jenniecruising  

Couple Man 48yrs Woman 47yrs

Probably not
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HappyGoLucky70

No, you're not. I'm sick and tired of striking up conversations with people, arranging to meet and then they ghost or cancel . Latest one this weekend. F*cks me right off. Timewasting twats.
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prem78

Well your profile pic wouldn’t help
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Loki909

Courtesy and respect are great attributes.

Shame some are incapable.

Have a great day
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Seachange   Woman 46yrs

Hi OP

You will struggle to meet people in RHP if you are a single male and have a guest membership.

Like said a hundred of times, single males outnumber single females and couples by a large margin. So competition is stiff among single males to get anyone's attention here. Stand out and be different.

If you are serious to meet people, take a proactive stance and message and contact them with a respectful interesting message if you may be what they are looking for. So read people's profile.

Send a decent message, none of the boring 'how are you' or 'hi'. That's a quick way to make anyone lose interest in you and garner you the 'coveted' block action.😋

Add a couple more pics in your profile and open up your facial pics to your intended. Don't make us ask for it.

Lastly be patient. We don't always get around to read all our messages.

Wishing you all the best.
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Kokoflamingo

I agree with Seachange




"Hi" or "How R U" are non starters. Make your message more than just a one liner and say a little bit about yourself. I am ghosted constantly.....the good guys Ive met make up for the time wasters though.
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HappyGoLucky70

Koko, maybe I need to move to Perth then lol because I haven't met up with any decent single guys.
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Tall_n_Hard   Man 62yrs

No you're not...

But then again, not too many real people here to start off with.

Sure, you'll find heaps of new people coming along on a daily basis, but usually within the first 24hrs, and certainly no more than 48hrs, those profiles have suddenly become "unavailable". You check up in a day or so, and they are still unavailable.
I'll let you come to your own conclusions on that.

Best way to find 'real' people is to check the forums. See who comes along on a regualr basis. If any appeal and are looking for you, then take your chances. Anyone else, particularly profiles that have no photos and no/little descriptions - give them wide berth.

Good luck, with lots of patience, are required.

Tall
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Kokoflamingo

HappyGoLucky70




We are very fortunate here in Perth, there are lots of lovely single men in our RHP social circle. Come over in October when we are having a Meet and Greet Perth Weekender x
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 55yrs

I'm guessing

That real people are avoiding you with a profile pic like that....

Not sure wether you are a version of the blob or an Iranian cross dresser
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EarthQueen   Woman 48yrs

Personally

I find it easier to use other platforms where I can show my face without worrying about stigma from my work and go under the radar to get what I would like sexually. It’s easier for me, and I’ve had some great sex this way. Also good regular vanilla dates. Just look for other people who aren’t looking for anything serious on them.
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boobs_or_busted  

Couple Man 53yrs Woman 44yrs

We just had s weekend away organised by flirt party’s and met 30 ish real people ,was awesome

Mr b
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Kokoflamingo

Annie




OP are you hiding because you are attached? Having Ask me for your status wont help you either. If you are single maybe change that?
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teamaj2  

Couple Man 38yrs Woman 56yrs

There is definitely ‘real ‘ people on RHP. It’s important to be patient. We’ve found the wait is definitely worthwhile .
Goodluck
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sofia112

Hi babe
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SuperFoxxxy  

Woman 48yrs

I'm sorry if you have had unreal expectations.

There are plenty of unreal people on this site. They are out there as I know as I have met them and even written them validations.

Ms Foxy



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XantheaHunter   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 45yrs

Meeting people online is difficult and frustrating. Meeting people in person lets you know they are physically real. They can still lie though. Some of the whoppers we have heard. I think we met the used car salesman from True Lies once.
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Nick10201767   Man 53yrs

There is a built in facade in RHP

By now you should know you are not alone.

Look at HappyGoLucky70 being ghosted - why does that happen? Doesnt make any sense.
HappyGoLucky70 has met a lot of these un-real people so they must be real, just not who they say they are - and that is a byproduct of what EarthQueen has said as well, that she wants to hide her identity so she doesn't get "judged"

Best advice I have is be patient. Build relationships - this isn't tinder - it takes some time.
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Treborandevad  

Couple (MM) Man 60yrs Man 50yrs

Guessing that by posting In a forum you will have generated interest from members who will view your profile and make an opinion on whether it interests them. So that's a start.

Can only agree, that with your photo it is not clearly defined what is being viewed, so it is unlikely to generate an enthusiastic response.
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71Camaro   Couple Man 48yrs Woman 44yrs

Hi OP
Unfortunately there are always “fake” profiles/people on any adult site. Nature of the beast so to say. Mr & I have met some amazing people on here and built friendships ( including sxc plays ) that prove that there are genuine people here. Like others have mentioned, if ur serious about this process, upgrade ur account so ur able to message singles/couples. Also have some decent pics. From what I can on ur profile, ur pics contain a blanket of some sort and a pic of ur crotch 😳none of which are eye catchers. Expand on ur profile with more details also 👍🏻 Good luck.

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