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    | Aug 16, 2019
I_touch_myself2
Omg I just read this comment on a UK student forum. Yeah don't ask, I came across it searching for something else ☺ To put it into perspective, someone asked the question 'Do you like giving blow jobs or only if you were receiving oral back as well?' I was shocked with the negative replies, most saying only if they loved the guy, some just said no (at all)! Wtf I couldn't quite believe what I was reading. Then I read this comment from a guy.....

"I don't see chicks like that as wife material, do you really want the mother of your kids to be sucking you off? Those types of chicks are fun as fwb or short term casual flings but hell no that's not wifey."

What?

Damn lucky I don't want to be a wifey lol This is an actual forum thread, not something I invented. I will read more of the replies later but if you want to look for it, it's called thestudentroom.

Thoughts?

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Jake15

Im a student who wouldn’t a Jb from u
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MaenadandCentaur   Couple Man 41yrs Woman 40yrs

Puritan view of the world

There are people who still hold rather Puritan view of the world, that cannot combine wholesome sexuality with marriage or they see parts of human body as dirty.

It’s his choice, if he wants to have missionary sex for the rest of his life probably with same woman, let him have it.
If other person shares his view, it’s their choice.
Though in this day and age, lack of imagination and a close mind when it comes to sex, tends to hurt lot of relationships.
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Qefenta4   Woman 100yrs

I blame

Religion.This is a misogynistic attitude. Women perceived as being "unclean" ,not "wifey"material if they expressed their sexuality.

Women also buy into this crap.I know women who are happy to be the receiver of cunnilingus but find the idea of sucking cock abhorrent .. "dirty" even.

Interesting topic Touch.

Hugs Q
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Penny01

Wow, I’m sure they will end up single or in a boring marriage where his wife goes elsewhere for excitement.
I like giving head, I like to please, tease and excite my lover and I love having my clit licked m. But I like to play and explore my partner and I like them to do the same this my body. Isn’t that what sex is all about?

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Mask_007   Man 43yrs

Unbelievable....
I don't function without oral sex...
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curiousgirl35   Couple Man 37yrs Woman 37yrs

He was probably reading all the woman saying "no way" and thought "if i say i dont like it. I might get laid" haha who knows
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usebi   Man 60yrs

I spose

A golden shower is out then ?



But being buggered by the sports master is “de rigueur”

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OkeyDoke45   Man 49yrs

It's where the wee comes out...

A friend of mine did not like her husband performing oral on her, or her on him, for this reason.

I must say that men who don't want a woman because they like sucking cock are probably few.

I don't know how many women outright don't like performing oral on a man, but I've certainly never met one.
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Peachy_Peter   Man 40yrs

coming out of a marriage has gotten better before i got married i used to get pleanty of blow jobs and sex and kinky fun, once ur married its down hill and she wasnt interested i had to discretly go out and get blow jobs from guys and gals and id gladly return the favour. once i got out of that marriage life was a breeze can social with other minded people and have fun been in orgies , groups and spit roasted and pleanty of oral so For me marriage is a killer of your sexual life but for others it may be great
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I_touch_myself2

There are women who don't




Quoting 'OkeyDoke45'

A friend of mine did not like her husband performing oral on her, or her on him, for this reason.

I must say that men who don't want a woman because they like sucking cock are probably few.

I don't know how many women outright don't like performing oral on a man, but I've certainly never met one.

But they don't advertise it. Really bad form for a man to talk about another person on here, but was told one woman was so old fashioned and boring 'didn't even like having a cock in her mouth'. I don't necessarily believe him because he was a narcissist, completely self absorbed, but it did leave me wondering
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I_touch_myself2

Yes




Quoting 'Qefenta4'

Religion.This is a misogynistic attitude. Women perceived as being "unclean" ,not "wifey"material if they expressed their sexuality.

Women also buy into this crap.I know women who are happy to be the receiver of cunnilingus but find the idea of sucking cock abhorrent .. "dirty" even.

Interesting topic Touch.

Hugs Q
Sad and troubling I think. Tiny possibility that guy doesn't like giving oral and by letting her off the hook, him too, but I tend to agree religion is to blame. I had such a mixture of emotions when I read his comment, shock, confusion, anger, frustration, disappointment. This is why I respond so harshly to some topics or comments, if there is any suggestion men are controlling women, pressuring women or you might remember me fiercely taking on some men here who suggested I 'asked for it' (re man stalking me) because of what I wore. That's the same thing and very worrying that men still think like that. I thought we'd evolved from that. How will women ever be respected and safe, if men continue with this crap and if women let them. Both are to blame.
There is a place for male dominance sexually of course, but I continue to be troubled by this
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What is bring taught in high school my influence?
Back in my university days I remember a girl who had come from an all girls school who was still yet to discover guys. Initially she wanted to used a condom for head. Not that I am against her personal hygiene choice just I am guessing it is what was taught to her.

Give these ppl time to develop sexually and re survey them in a few years you might get a different answer.

If blow jobs are off the table for wife material what else is? Bare ankles in public?
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Sawadee   Man 56yrs

Depends on the person.

Some women love to suck cock and it shows ? You really can feel the difference between a woman who truly gets off to a woman who goes though the motions . No different to us guys i suspect ?

There was a time when i selfishly enjoyed recieving but was a little slack on giving. One day the penny dropped and I learnt that if i spent more time on her clit what followed was so much more enjoyable. Lazy lovers will always be lazy lovers just as they are in everyday life.. Truth is ' you can't expect to get , if your not willing to give.
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Pickme78   Man 40yrs

I’d have to say I love oral most times more than the main event. Both giving and receiving
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Freaky_Fun   Woman 49yrs

Peachy_Peter
Not sure what that has to do with the OPs forum but anyhoo.
And if you're going to use borrowed pics, I'd take the honest bit out of your profile 🤷‍♀️
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I_touch_myself2

Yes




Quoting 'Pickme78'

I’d have to say I love oral most times more than the main event. Both giving and receiving
Me too, and I agree with Sawadee, you can tell if someone's not into it. I can't even watch a lot of porn clips for that reason. They're more hand jobs than oral and very obvious they're just going through the motions. It's intense for me, more so than it ever had been in my life, not that I'm suggesting age has anything to do with it, more the person
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I_touch_myself2

Haha




Quoting 'Freaky_Fun'

Peachy_Peter

Not sure what that has to do with the OPs forum but anyhoo.

And if you're going to use borrowed pics, I'd take the honest bit out of your profile 🤷‍♀️
I'll have to get you to teach me how to use reverse image search. I've tried a few times but struggle with it. Keep up the great work 👍
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Kokoflamingo  

Woman 56yrs

Strange fellows

Dont want the wife to be anything other than vanilla but crave bjs and kink and get it elsewhere. I tried to get my ex into some kinky stuff and he was horrified. If I meet someone long term all the cards will be on the table right at the start.
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mrnorti69  

Man 50yrs

Blow jobs




hit me up for a steamy bj
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LetsFrolic   Man 42yrs

Oral sex is a must with me and a partner. I give as much as I receive too

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