Finding couples for bi mmf fun???

Finding couples for bi mmf fun???

    | Sep 04, 2015
genuine4couple
Why are bi couples seeking bi males so hard to find? I know a lot of people enjoy the threeway bi mmf pleasures yet they are very difficult to arrange!
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 56yrs

plenty around

But like anything, just because you fill a description doesnt automatically get you a saddlecloth in the fuck everyone stakes. Most need an attraction and some sort of feel right connection.
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Cosmical

OP,

We actively searched for single men when we were still playing and physically you were just what we were looking for. Unfortunately the way you communicated let you down.


It's all about respect. Don't give up, just improve.

x T&S



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genuine4couple

tryst and shout fair enough. i have improved on past performance and can appreciate where you are conung from. i hope you are

Having lots of fun

- Posted from rhpmobile
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WheresWally

Well

As one half of a bi duo with a fwb on another site, I can say that it was extremely hard for us to find a compatible single bi male. As Tryst_ has said, the physical is there, but then the messages just lost our interest as we found the focus leant heavily towards the female half, and the " yeah Im really bi" suddenly changed to " I will fuck your lady for hrs, I love pussy", if I wanted a mfm, I would look for straight guys. So I dont know if you might be doing the same thing as we had found, but its just what we experienced quite a lot.
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cwhereitgoes   Man 53yrs

Don't stress it OP

Experience is what you get, after you need it!!
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Highpriority

Dear OP

Congrats for taking that on the chin, well played. I seem to remember various quotes along the line of "I don't agree with personal messages being made public" A comment could have been made without torching you... And should have. Hp xo Because you're worth it...
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Crossing_Swords   Couple (MM) Man 48yrs Man 55yrs

It's not only about sex

Hey genuine4couple. I was keen just to experience this as a first timer and found myself considering couples who were interested but not so well matched at first. I put a lot of effort into my profile writing exactly about what I was after, but moreso, who I was after, as well as a lot about myself. It paid off in the end with Mr&Mrs C_S being able to identify that I was exactly the type of person they were looking for as well, we messaged a bit to feel it out, then met, & the rest is history. Why not try giving a bit more of yourself in your profile and see if your chances improve? Best of luck.
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Highpriority

Dear OP

Congrats for taking that on the chin, well played. I seem to remember various quotes along the line of "I don't agree with personal messages being made public" A comment could have been made without torching you... And should have. Single guys in particular cop a steep learning curve in here, i hope that you are judged in future by how you ARE. I wish you every success 👍🏼 Hp xo Because you're worth it...
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QLDtwo4fun   Couple Man 59yrs Woman 48yrs

It's not socially acceptable

Bi girls are accepted and wanted, bi guys are not. Guys have to be more discrete about being bi, even as part of a couple it puts off some other couples. And, it's also about definitions, what does bi actually mean. Do you mean you could be happy with either a male of female life partner, or just that your comfortable with MM contact in a group setting.
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dananddre   Couple Man 37yrs Woman 34yrs

Friendly advice ;)

hey op!

we are currently focussing on trying to hunt down at least one bi guy for ongoing mmf meets, and I can tell you that if you were in W.A. we would skip straight over your profile simply because your 'about me' section is so short...

we do understand lots of different people have different boxes that must be ticked for you to stay on the short list, and whilst vague and broad profiles may get a bit more initial attention, you may also find that the initial interest tends to progress at a much slower rate... what I'm trying to say is that by being descriptive and specific about yourself and what you are after may yield fewer cases of contact being made, but the rate at which those initial contacts turns into initial meets should go up ;)

good luck!
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danny_brown86   Couple Man 33yrs Woman 32yrs

Ever though of a transsexual?

why not get a TS to join you?

- Posted from rhpmobile
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chase_us

Genuine couple wanting mmf

We too are looking for genuine bi couple or bi male to join us for some fun but are finding it difficult we seem to get a few interests then try to organize a play date only to be let down
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Mattann

Bi couples

We are searching for a full bi couple we find attractive, think it's more guys are scared they may enjoy it.. So hard to find

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Dimeshreds   Man 36yrs

I have found the opposite

Most of my threesome experiences have been two guys and a girl, two out of the five have not had MM contact but I had the feeling one of them wanted to but we couldn't pluck up the courage on the first meet. Out of the other three I had regular contact with two of them and it got hotter every time.

It has only been oral so far with all the bi MMF couples but the Mrs of a couple wants to buy a strap on and I am her guinea pig as her Mr is straight so I could be in for one heck of a night!!! #lubeitup

This was only from last summer so I can't wait for this one coming.
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johnbi_elsa   Couple Man 55yrs Woman 62yrs

Bi

What do you consider a let down? Couples looking for a bi guy tend to be difficult to organise because of time constraints. Normally bi guys are not single, and couples have to be descreet , so timing is an issue. There there is comfort thing. It is hard for a single guy to cross over a couple territory and equally concerning is a couple not landing a freak.
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genuine4couple

if only in sydney

Quoting 'chase_us'
We too are looking for genuine bi couple or bi male to join us for some fun but are finding it difficult we seem to get a few interests then try to organize a play date only to be let down
id be keen!
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BiPlay69   Man 51yrs

patience and respect.

Usually couples are looking to be discreet as well as organise it around their personal life constraints, such as family, work, etc.
And yes, it helps to take the time to fill out your profile, especially in regard to who you are and what you seek.
Agree that many of the guys who portray themselves on here as bi are stretching the truth, whilst in my experience, very many of the straight men in couples are not adverse to some guy on guy fun.
Just take time to compose a decent message, be respectful and deal with rejection gracefully.
It is worth the patience as when you find those great couples, it is fantastic.
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bifun1234

Ive gone the other way!

I've gone the other way by just making my profile about exploring bi as i've has some fantastic experiences.
As people have said the first time meeting etc can be daunting to find a compatible bi male.. with every meeting after that the fun heightens as the trust does.

Critiquing your profile - I would remove "you know who you are" and change up and take a different approach with the "I am looking for section"


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Vaginatarian82

Difficult not impossible

I had a fwb that loved bi MMF threesomes, unsure how she did it but she seemed to find every bi guy there was on different sites in our area. There was a lot of fun to be had those few months. However on my own it has taken a few failed attempts and a few no shows and a couple of email ping pongs and even me losing interest a few times too, but there have been some enjoyable evenings had with couples.
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up4hottimes

Yep its Hard

I have found it very hard found one great couple but lost contact with them as i went on a big holiday. Alot say they want bi MMF fun but when it comes down to it they chicken out. So Pete and Di if u are out there please contact me as i miss are fun night.

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