Forming long lasting friendships in swinging - love to hear your stories!

Forming long lasting friendships in swinging - love to hear your stories!

    | Jul 06, 2020
starlet1  

Couple Man 40yrs Woman 37yrs
We have been swingers for 5 years and have loved it. We've been intrigued by the idea of forming ongoing friendships and bonds with couples we've played with. We love playing with new couples but also feel like we're missing the bonds we have with our longer term vanilla friends (while still playing).

We would love to hear your stories about how you've formed long.lasting play friendships, have swinging best friends, how long you've been friends, how you hang out etc! This is nice encouragement for us 😊
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XBonnieClydeX   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 45yrs

We met a couple on RHP that have now become some of our best friends. We've played together many times, as a 4some and at parties with others. But they have now become great friends outside of swinging too and we also go on holidays together etc. Some people you just really click with 🙂
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starlet1  

Couple Man 40yrs Woman 37yrs

Amazing, love that! I wonder who else has stories like these...
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itsjustsex13   Couple Man 42yrs Woman 42yrs

We have been lucky enough to of met some great people and formed some great friendships that in a few cases carry over outside swinging. We have friends we met through rhp that now attend family events, bbqs ect and have gotten to know our vanilla friends who are none the wiser. A little white fib has been needed when its enquired how we met but after that its been great. They come to visit as any friends would and if the timeing is right we play and if not we enjoy each others company as any friends would. We have found we prefer this fwb type thing over haveing 1 night hook ups. Just seems to work really well and playing with fwb seems to get better everytime as well as you obviously have a stronger connection and have gotten to know what buttons to press.
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NSAtsvLad   Man 35yrs

@itsjustsex13 Love this post!!! I've met some amazing people along the way but I have only kept on going contact with a few, but I too also looking to make ongoing friendships with people who share the same interests and similar personalities. Def understand how getting to know one other in a fwb situation would def build a better sexual connection knowing each other's kinks and even personalities.
Plus as you mentioned before, knowing each other's buttons and how to push them means every time you catch up.... it just gets better and better
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NSAtsvLad   Man 35yrs

@XBonnieClydeX Wow! This was def a nice encouragement to read!!Just knowing that theres others around who are also looking to build ongoing fwb relationships gives me some drive to continue looking for similar minded peeps
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Kokoflamingo  

Woman 57yrs

Friendship

I have always liked to form friendships with fwbs. After all, you see them regularly and enjoy being with them. I always have great affection for anyone Ive been seeing. Ive made a lot of lifelong platonic friends off the site. We all catch up regularly, go to each others homes and have social days/nights out. The site has a reputation for being a hook up site but its certainly more than that to me.
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Jackson1811   Couple Man 44yrs Woman 42yrs

Maybe not yet long term but certainly has the potential to be.

We’ve become really close with the very first couple we met with just over a year ago. Just a simple message from myself led to what we describe as our closest friendship, either side of the lifestyle divide.

We mostly spend time together socially, dinner and drinks and maybe a few hands of cards. But play times are so much more fulfilling as a result of our deep connection. All our kids get along too. We even have a now postponed overseas adults only holiday planned for later this year.

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Deep_Love   Couple Man 42yrs Woman 39yrs

Yes, we have

We have a few couples friendships. It's the best part for us. The best of all worlds. We go on holidays with our couples besties. Our kids are the same age which is great. We are planning a nude retreat for just the adults and an island holiday to Vanuatu in 2021 for the adults and kids.

~Mrs_Deep_love
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JohnAnn2227  

Couple Man 45yrs Woman 43yrs

Strong friendships.

We have been incredibly fortunate to make some amazing friends from swinging. We are part of a close group of 6 couples who swing regularly together. We have been a group for over 12 years now and we are like family. Some of us are godparents to the others' children and we all celebrate birthdays etc together. The kids all get on wonderfully and if there is a grand final etc being played by one of the kids we all go to watch and support. Our families and vanilla friends have all met them and get on well (of course not knowing the swinging part). We holiday together both as families and just "adult" getaways. There is real love between us and we feel blessed to have such wonderful friends.
We did have to make a common fib as to how we knew each other and it was mostly along the met at work/gym/through another friend etc lines. We are so close that I was still swinging at 6 months pregnant due to feeling so comfortable and cared for by our friends. When I became too uncomfortable I would often just sit in the spa and get a back massage while others played.
We still like meeting new people to swing with and can't wait to play again when the clubs open but playing with our special friends is always the best.
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dianet   Woman 38yrs

I'm definitely lucky to call some special couples (and singles!) ive met through RHP as great close friends over many years now. Watching their relationships grow and strengthen, circumstances change and adapt, as a third wheel but always just simply good friends! And I'm forever grateful for the immense support I've received when in difficult times. Friends and guardians. Love them! Much much more than sex.
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starlet1  

Couple Man 40yrs Woman 37yrs

@JohnAnn2227 This is simply amazing, thank you so much for sharing. That sounds beautiful and something I hope we can find ourselves.
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ElectricDreamers   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 45yrs

It may not happen overnight but it does happen...

We entered the scene thinking these connections would be more commonplace than they actually are. Our worklife has definitely cockblocked a couple of great possible longer term connections too.
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Funsters  

Couple Man 51yrs Woman 50yrs

We never expected what we have

We entered this sexy world 5 years ago. We are lucky enough to have gathered multiple sets during this time that we do call friends and see regularly. We did not expect to be swinging as we aged, but the big upside of these friendships is that as we get older, they do too! The first couple we met, we still see today, and the depth that this brings to our play time with the understanding we have is crazy.
We do have picnic days, cycle rides, or beach days....and it’s often followed with fun, but it’s not a must, just whatever happens. And we sometimes have overnight stays where we wake up next to our swapped partner. Breakfast is also fun, and often followed by more fun x
Ps we still have lots of vanilla friends too. They just think we are crazy party animals.
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funtimescouple1   Couple Man 51yrs Woman 46yrs

Most encounters we have had involved meeting, having a nice meal and drinks and good chat about swinging and other things. Much later in the night we all suddenly realise it's getting late and it's a case of 'are we going to do it?' and it's over pretty quick. It's on subsequent dates where we like to dress up (as always) and get a bit flirty and touchy feely from the start of the night, then having long, unrushed sessions where we take a break, then get back to it and relax in bed after. We find it far more stimulating and rewarding and much prefer that to wham bams.
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Peninsula67   Couple Man 54yrs Woman 52yrs

Forming long lasting friendships in swinging - love to hear your stories!

This is the type of lifestyle that we are after too. Mixture of vanilla and swing i would believe to be a good mix 😊
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NewVicCpl  

Couple Man 48yrs Woman 47yrs

We have been lucky enough to have meet a lovely couple on rhp who we get along with really well and have formed a great friendship with in our normal lives. It’s such a great thing to be able to go out socially with another couple and be able to talk openly about the kinky things we get up to 🤗
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badboyhere   Man 50yrs

It’s the “Pantene effect” it won’t happen overnight, but it will happen

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