Fuck on first date ? Yes / No..

Fuck on first date ? Yes / No..

    | Jul 11, 2020
Sawadee   Man 57yrs
The most common reply from guys would be yes . No problem ... goes without saying ' just the way we're wired . But due to community expectation etc not so clear cut for you ladies.. So in this modern era ' is this still a issue for you or do you take it as it comes ( no pun intended ) . Im talking dating ' not swinging. I've experienced both over the years ...
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Chriscat   Woman 50yrs

If I get a sense they are a good lover and I’m attracted, then yes.
Mostly it takes me a couple (2-3) dates to have built up enough trust and interest to go there. Looking back at my patterns it’s rarely on the first date. Mostly date two or three.
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Chriscat   Woman 50yrs

I’m not sure what you mean by community expectations? I tend not to see myself limited in my sexuality and needs or bow to social stigma on being slut shamed.
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Sawadee   Man 57yrs

Chriscat

I appreciate what your saying and maybe l should have been a little more specific.. Because of family values etc , there is or was a certain pressure that their ladies not to be jumping in bed with just anyone up front. This could have changed over the years and l stand corrected if so.

Just like you , l have dated girls who do and those who wait til the 2nd or 3rd date.. Somehow' l get the feeling things might have changed .. That's why I posed the question..
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SuperFoxxxy  

Woman 48yrs

It's a yes from me

If the spark is there, why not. I met someone once, what was supposed to be just a night together, ended up being 4+yrs. Oopsy! 🙊

Ms Foxy
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wildcrazyloving   Woman 35yrs

I find I am not sexually attracted to anyone on first dates.. I usually require a few days to consider it as people grow on me. Last time I took someone home on the first date, I recall telling myself "I think I will like this one".
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MsJdays   Woman 46yrs

Do men even date these days? My experience is that they are only after sex & nothing else. I’m very upfront that I do not sleep with guys on a first meet. Interest is soon lost after this which is no loss to me.
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Sawadee   Man 57yrs

Msjdays

Because of the way guys think is why i posed this question to you ladies.. I'm thinking this topic will be divided with who's up for it and who's not. Personally ' l dont see a problem if theres chemistry and it feels right .. My wife put it on me on our first date with obviously no regrets .. Only recently we spoke about this and in her words ' " She thought it was only going to be a 1 off date and didn't want to miss the opportunity ? Very humbling for me of course..
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Just_Mitch   Man 32yrs

I’m a guy and just don’t understand the rush people are in. I’d definitely go in to a first date with a get to know you mentality. But then again I’m not really looking for one night stands so maybe I’m very different from the norm?
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Meetsomeonebette

Sex first date

I don’t why not we’re all animals it’s all fun and safe go for it guys girls
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Meetsomeonebette

Little bit a bout me for the girls

U need a level of trust mostly from the guy but I’m pretty normal and funny and trustworthy my freinds and family know me a s a gentleman
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sweetfrangapani   Woman 54yrs

1st Meet

I think males definitely expected it on the first meet.

I like to meet a few times but I guess because I dont put out on the first date there is usually not a second
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Sawadee   Man 57yrs

sweetfrangapani...

...interesting statement ? Something l never thought of ?
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GCKinkk   Group 30yrs

Well I have, and it landed me in 3 long term relationships but since my divorce I have fucked and fucked and fucked, as I don’t believe in playing games or hard to get, but it’s landed me asshole after add home so now my friends say I should wait 2 months! That’s how long they wait before they sleep with someone!!!
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SurfSeaMan   Man 48yrs

Depends on a million factors, main one being, do you both/all want to?
No shame or guilt either way imho
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SurfSeaMan   Man 48yrs

@Just_Mitch Agreed. Not all guys as some are experiencing. MOST guys that I know couldn't care less about it tbh, including me. Itll happen when it happens, assuming they like each other 🤷‍♂️

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