How Many Messages

How Many Messages

    | Jun 11, 2019
Christopher64   Man 64yrs




I've seen a few posts over the years about why single ladies don't reply to messages. One of the reasons given was that they simply receive too many messages and can't reply to all of them.


To satisfy my curiosity, I would like to ask single ladies, how many messages to you actually receive and how do you deal with the large volume?

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wannaplay

Today alone i have received 46 however, I actually do reply to each and every one
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ce_la_vie

When u first join u get bombarded.
There are so many reasons why reply's aren't sent.

Profiles have no pics.
Profiles aren't completed.
Status is married or attached looking for discreet meets.
Age is no where in your preference
Messages are basic no effort made.

Thing is if u want a reply make an effort.
Be in there prefered age range, seeking similar to yourself. Don't treat women like we are on here as a free service
Have some respect don't be abusive if their not interested.


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Evie666

I have received 1974 messages since re-joining 13 months ago. (was last on 4 years ago)
I tried to respond to all at the beginning but quickly learnt that if I stated on my profile that I would only respond to ones that I was interested in, I received less abuse.
Now I generally receive between 3-6 a day.
I do think maybe guys would have a better strike rate if they actually read the ladies profiles and took note of what they are looking for before sending a message. For example I am clear in my request for non smokers but still have men msg me that smoke.
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megz85g   Woman 34yrs

My profile states I’m not meeting at the moment, however I still receive multiple messages each day asking when can I meet, or do I want to play tonight? They do not get answered, and the repeat offenders get blocked.

At least bother to read people’s profile before messaging and you might have a better strike rate if you are what they are looking for.
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Denied

Message replies

I guess the most frustrating part about not receiving a reply ( and it can be as simple as a polite "No thanks") is that men have to pay to have the ability to message. I find that there a very few women that have paid subscriptions to be able to message. Once a message is received as a "Guest" you can reply for free. If there is no reply from the lady, then to send a follow up message is a further use of allowed messages per day that can be sent depending on what level the guy has paid up for.
So come on ladies play a courteous game please lol.
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 55yrs

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Half line messages get the effort returned. Zero......Unless you are a movie star
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Sawadee   Man 56yrs

While ever..

Every man and his dog has free access theres always going to be multiple men vs available women, and woman will always have that luxury to pick and choose.. in amoung them are those who put up almost impossible criteria effectively leaving most men no where to go ? Its only my opinion, but theres almost as many women posters that waste peoples time as men... i guess that happens when social media is treated as entertainment rather than a opportunity to meet the like minded ... Just the way it is ?
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megz85g   Woman 34yrs

Why should women be forced to reply to messages we did not ask for- just to be courteous?
Nobody owes anyone anything on here, and just because you pay a few dollars does not entitle you to anymore than anybody else.
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Christopher64   Man 64yrs

WOW




In some cases, that is a large number of messages. I don't know how you cope. I do agree with your comments about people not reading profiles. I think it is a common problem with all sites that require the use of a profile.


Unfortunately some people have no manners or respect for others and will be abusive and rude.

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Kokoflamingo

Yes its corteous to reply to genuine messages

I do reply to these. But not ones from married men or smokers as I have on my profile that Im not seeking them. " Wat U up 2" wont be replied to either. Everyone on here has their own criteria, thats what profile descriptions are for.
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SuperFoxxxy  

Woman 48yrs

Agree with Me Silk.

I have, to date over 1423 unread messages in my inbox and received over 10.5K messages since my time here. How do I deal with them? It depends on various things like, how I'm feeling that day, their profile (is it completed fully etc), the opening line and my gut and intuition. I try to reply best I can. Plus I have a life out of here like being a full time shift worker, travel heaps etc etc.

Ms Foxy
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Kokoflamingo

Usually

Around 6 a day at the moment although they decrease each year :)
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countrytouch82  

Man 37yrs

Foxxxy

Stats... I can only find a total sent and received in profile statistics. Where is the amount that tells you how many unread etc?
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 55yrs

Checked my stats

Received 7,847 messages

Sent 7,833 messages.



Maybe there's 14 still waiting for my reply......dont hold your breath
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SuperFoxxxy  

Woman 48yrs

CT

In my in box

Ms Foxy
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SuperFoxxxy  

Woman 48yrs

Wait!

Maybe that's the number of total messages in there not read. I always though that number was unread not read. Well anyways that number has gone up since I last logged on.

Ms Foxy

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SuperFoxxxy  

Woman 48yrs

Confirmed by private message

It is unread. So there you go folks. If you look in your "Mailbox" (heading Tab above) it will tell you.

Ms Foxy

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ce_la_vie

Had to look Foxy

If I average out i have received 1200 messages a year. As a percentage of how many I've gone out and met 0.048.

Gee I need to stop working so hard and get out more often 😆
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Phoenix_Rising   Woman 37yrs

Am I a prostitute?

@Denied, The fact that people have to pay to message others does not mean women’s replies have already been pre purchased, that kind of attitude absolutely STINKS!! Play a courteous game? It’d be courteous to go away and not message again after being rejected in the first place, no reply is a pretty good indication someone’s not interested, don’t harass them again then complain you’ve wasted money/messages on them, that’s just down right rude. I can’t stress this enough, nobody here owes you even so much as acknowledgement, sure it’s nice when you get it but you should never expect it.
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ZakCrow   Man 32yrs

Not paid for attention

You delt with that question really well. And as you said, we have paid for memberships, not for peoples replies. The obvious fact that women get bombarded with msgs, and perhaps a lot of them being trash, shows a woman's resilience and the significance when she does reply.

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