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    | Mar 17, 2015
RapidFyr   Couple Man 47yrs Woman 42yrs
Hi Ladies, anyone interested in a meet without partners?

Xx

- Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36  

Couple Man 49yrs Woman 41yrs

Why?

As a long time, happily married couple, the golden rule of swinging, for us, had to always been to play together. Much safer.

There are plenty psychos out there and also a large number of men, posing as couples & women.

For all we know you could be one of them as your profile is not verified.

The risks far outweigh the rewards

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RapidFyr   Couple Man 47yrs Woman 42yrs

Wow

I did not expect someone to be that harsh... One of these meets was organised previously via the forums, last year sometime by creme caramel and I was simply gauging interest to do it again. It was all in a public place and people made their own arrangements. Verification is something I need to do, I acknowledge that. And I enjoy one on one FF play. I don't judge you for your preferences, don't judge me for mine please.

Mrs RF

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flirty_bi_fem   Woman 42yrs

To Be Fair

I don't think RapidFyr is necessarily proposing to de-flower Mrs Jason_Leslie in the absence of Mr Jason_Leslie. It looks to me as though she is gauging interest in a bisexual female "meet". I assumed she was suggesting a social meet ... Just sayin' ;) Flirty x
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DynamicCouple36  

Couple Man 49yrs Woman 41yrs

Talking from experience

Allow us to elaborate a bit on our post,so as to explain where we are coming from with regards our experiences on here and thus the reason why we commented in the first place.

When we were paid up members, we used to spend an hour or two in the evenings, in the chat rooms. During these chat sessions we would receive dozens of whispers from so called single men, who would blatantly solicit Leslie to meet with them in private, despite the fact that we made it very clear, within our profile wording that we were not interested in single men (or married/attached men posing as single men) nor were we interested in meeting with married men who were playing around without their partners. We also made it clear that we never EVER played alone.

Despite making our wishes very clear, this did not stop the attempts, to try to get Leslie to agree to a meeting on her own.

When it became obvious to the single men that they were not going to get lucky (as single men) , they tried another avenue, and that was to register a new profile, as either a male/female couple and or a single female and to try to lure Leslie out to a private one on one meeting. We were quick to realise that we were dealing with a fake profile .... generally have found that when people on here, want to arrange a one on one meet ie without the other half of this male/female couple, that they are generally not to be trusted on the one hand, and furthermore do not respect us, nor our wishes on the other hand, and are simply trying their luck and showing disrespect by ignoring what we state clearly within our profile.

This scenario happens on other sites too and so its not something that is exclusive to RHP.

When an unverified female profile solicits us, wanting to meet Leslie in private, we are very suspicious. In our experience the majority of the time its been a psycho male, trying all the tricks in the book to lure the female half to a one on one meeting. What do they expect will happen ? They arrange to meet one at a public place - a bar or restaurant - and then what do they do ? Hide in the shadows and watch one as one sits at the bar or table waiting for them to arrive ? Obviously if they were posing as a female, that cant exactly walk up and say hello can they ?

But if they were posing as a couple, the tried and tested excuse always seems to be along the lines that their wife/partner could not make it as she got delayed at work, or is not feeling well, or that one of the kids fell ill and so the Mrs could not make it, but she did give permission for the Mr to go out and have fun without her???? And they think we are stupid ?


So our advice is to ensure that you have spoken to the other party on the phone or seen the other party on a webcam, before agreeing to meet. Only deal with verified profiles and if you have a problem getting the other person/couple to verify their profile then thats a good indication that they are hiding something. If they are not prepared to appear on webcam or to speak on the phone, its also an indication that they are not what they appear to be.

One on one meets are risky and to be honest so much can go wrong. Its better to meet with others and in a public place for the first few times.

For us, swinging is something we do together, as a happily married couple. Its not something that we would do apart or behind one anothers backs. What would the point of that be ?

We know many people and have read many a story about couples who have played apart, and how this caused problems in the relationship - jealousy, mistrust and ultimately caused a split up and or divorce - all because they played alone / separately ....

So no matter how attractive and sexy the female offer was, we would never agree for her to meet just one of us alone - the risks far outweigh the rewards.

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woody_pusscat   Couple Man 58yrs Woman 54yrs

Meetings

Good lord all the poor woman did was ask a question!

Pusscat xxx
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Meeka100

WTF Jason and Leslie

What on earth does any of that that have to do with a group of women getting together for a social evening?

All you have spoken about is one on one meets which are totally irrelevant to this topic.


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Twosxy4u

Tin foil hat...

Unsure whether Jason & Leslie are legit or the funniest troll on RHP......
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Missdee31

why not

I don't see a problem with it, as long as we are up front and honest with our partners
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sunshinekiss

That's funny

If mrs rapidFyr was a man hiding behind a couples profile, I am fairly sure that a public notice on a forum site would not be very secret way( or successful) of luring unsuspecting wives to a meeting place. That made me giggle.
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andyandk

Female only meets

The female half of some of the couples we have played with have actually organized female only group plays and K has been invited to them but although K does enjoy playing with women in a swingers/group play she prefers playing with both the guys and gals at the same time so she has never been but from all reports its a great night!

Good luck finding what your looking for rapid :)

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katiepye7   Woman 33yrs

Any bi girls wanna meet up
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Anastasiya97   Woman 44yrs

Anastasia

Would luv 2 get 2 know u would b great hun
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wayneann   Couple Man 50yrs Woman 51yrs

RapidFyr

My lady loves the idea of a ladies meet please drop us a line
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Cantseeynot   Couple Man 59yrs Woman 53yrs

Ladies together

Would love to catchup with ladies for fun or social and see what where when why.

My partner loves it because when I get home he knows I'm wanting more.

If it feels good do it

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