Messages that are read and no reply...

Messages that are read and no reply...

    | Nov 28, 2019
sapioscorpbris
Morning,

I am not sour or bitter, just rather curious.

Why is it that people read messages and no replies?

I get it that women get swamped in here, but what has happened to some courtesy?

I take the time to read the profile, construct a nice message, and even suggest, that if i am not for you please reply with a quick no thanks. easy.

I know you can create a template reply for a quick and easy reply, so curious to see if this is widespread, or just me.

thanks
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badboyhere   Man 50yrs

Simple ....because they don’t have to.
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SuperFoxxxy  

Woman 48yrs

There have been nervous threads on this exact topic.

People do have courtesy. However it maybe not on the sliding scale as yours is. No, people do not have to reply to any messages after they have read them, especially if they have not met. If someone replied to me or wanted me to do what they wanted/demanded, it would be an instant block. There is no hard or fast rules when it comes to replying, it is a personal individual choice. Nothing curious about that. Move on and don't let it bother you.

Ms Foxy
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SuperFoxxxy  

Woman 48yrs

nervous = numerous

I suspose there have been some pretty intense "nervous' forums over the years too. Lol!

Ms Foxy
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sweetnsensual  

Couple Man 47yrs Woman 46yrs

It happens to everyone
Sometimes if they are a couple they need to show the other half before replying.
Sometimes people don’t know how to reply to a message or if they are not interested it’s sometimes easy to not engage
Hope that’s help
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HotNightsGC   Couple Man 48yrs Woman 47yrs

It’s not really about courtesy. It’s about choices. Interested = reply. Not interested = no reply.
Nobody is obligated to respond to anyone in this kind of environment. The trick is not taking a non-response personally.
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spankthatbum   Couple Man 49yrs Woman 48yrs

Done to death 😂

Look, 👀 our profile clearly states, lookin for a woman! ... yet still get contact from men. 🤣 Having been RHP members for some time now we can see why members just get to a point where ya can't be fucked wif putting in any effort on replies. RHP for us is like lotto, we're in the game.. got to be in it to win it 😆 Yes we have had small wins 😚 but still waiting for that jackpot! "More a meeting of the minds"✌

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ConstantCravings   Woman 33yrs

I try to reply to every message I get, and when asked I occasionally say very nicely, sorry I’m not looking to meet etc.

However a reply often backfires because then I get questioned as to why etc, and it can be frustrating to say no more than once.

Women obviously do get a lot of attention on any dating/sexual media.

Whilst I personally still try to reply to all, I think there would be a lot of women who simply don’t have the time or patience to bother with it.

CC
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FatFunFiesty   Woman 39yrs

No reply is a reply. Its a not interested
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funtimescouple1  

Couple Man 50yrs Woman 46yrs

It happens to everyone. We reply to all messages that warrant a response and it is frustrating when a chat seems to be going well and suddenly no response. We've even had couples that we've played with and continued to chat with suddenly drop off the radar. Circumstances change. We've had nice messages from new couples and we've send a nice message back and no response. Yes there are time wasters and people get cold feet and there are those that decide that they are just not interested in you. There are no guarantees here.
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oralcpl  

Couple Man 51yrs Woman 44yrs

Its polite to reply.
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dorky1   Man 38yrs

When I don’t get a reply? I’d take it as not interested. Just as everyone should. It probably saves time in the long run. Lol
I could imagine that the woman would be inundated with so many messages too.
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 55yrs

Double negative can be a positive

Men get all excited when they get a message, an instant erection even.....

But erection goes down when opened and it's a NO.

So.....by not getting any no messages, when you find a yes message, your erection stays and you have a great wank.

I used to reply but l read "The subtle art of not giving a fuck". So now, l don't give a fuck.

Hope that helps. Maybe get a copy and you won't give a fuck either....
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The_Antichrist   Man 40yrs

Curious but not bitter....Yet the point being made is about emotionally validating the sender of a message....

I think it’s a hard sell on the curiosity...I’m happy to be wrong though...

Personally when I was sending messages, I was sending them and forgetting them....if they replied, then that was a mere bonus...if not, who cares?? I don’t have a need to understand why, it is what it is...I’m sure there have been plenty of things I’ve said or done that others may wonder...but again I don’t really care too much as my actions are mine and mine alone...people will either like me as I am or they won’t....and I wouldn’t be interested in someone conditionally....

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usebi   Man 60yrs

Annie’s right

I don’t give a fuck either.

So I don’t even message.
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honkytonk   Man 45yrs

agrees whole heartedly with anti




well said ole son
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Sawadee   Man 56yrs

Because it's a sex site...

That's why ? OK ' Im sticking my neck out here , but here goes.. As a above average presentable guy who gets thier fair share of attention in the real world , here ''' l pretty well get zilch ? Why ? the only reason I can fathom is the mindset is geared to automatically reject anything and anyone . In other words , play the game , but not really be serious about a genuine meet ? So guys ? dont take it to heart , just the way it is ..
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SuperFoxxxy  

Woman 48yrs

Annie

I love your way with words. 🤣😂

Ms Foxy x
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sweetas_j   Woman 37yrs

Because apart from the abuse after rejection messages I receive in return, a lot of actual messages I receive consist of:

‘Fuck you make me hard, let’s hook up’
‘Do you play for money?’
‘I’d like to fuck that ass’

And so on. These do not warrant a response 🙄

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mature101   Couple Man 61yrs Woman 60yrs

Messages that are read and no reply...

We believe it is better to not reply than to engage in numerous messages and sharing pictures and then they do not reply to messages. They have agreed that they would love to meet and play side by side on the same bed. When it comes time to commit you hear the sounds of silence. Having said that we have had a lot of fun times with our friends on RHP. For those that go quiet, so sad. 😭Stay sexy.
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letsdoit1672   Man 47yrs

What i find strange/odd is the reply ( if your lucky to even get one) "Sorry not looking at the moment" even though that person is active 24/7.

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