Not getting many replies from woman why ??

Not getting many replies from woman why ??

    | Feb 19, 2020
wilddogwog   Man 40yrs
Ladies I would like to know if there is something wrong with my profile I am not getting many real responses from woman and no I don't have photo there but do send a clear one when I send or receive messages so yes they have my pic

? Am I to direct about sex as I thought I could be direct as this is a sex site. And did not think I need to tell them I love them just to have sex as we are all here for the same thing yeh??????



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island_life  

Couple Man 50yrs Woman 46yrs

Of god.. here we go again... yawn.
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Kokoflamingo  

Woman 56yrs

Honesty

A married guy looking for a shag on the side.....honest, yes, but there are many more on here and most of the women I know are looking for single men. RHP is an adult dating site, people use it for dating, fwb, hookups and shock horror.....relationships and even marriage in some cases. You may need to tweak your wording a little.
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SpicyKale   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 40yrs

Have a read through these posts

Probably the number one question on here that gets covered over and over.... have a read of these recent threads

https://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Why-is-a-quotno-thanksquot-so-hard-59850

https://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Messages-that-are-read-and-no-reply-60585


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megz85g  

Woman 35yrs

You say you like honesty? That last paragraph is ridiculous 😂
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non_such   Man 54yrs

are you looking for women or Scottish boys?

maybe check your spelling.
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Dragon_Phoenix   Couple Man 40yrs Woman 38yrs

Women get inundated and also have lives outside of the site that keep them as busy as the next person, once they’ve replied to the ones they want to connect with maybe they don’t have time, or maybe they just don’t want to reply to you as quite often even a “no thanks” can be taken the wrong way.
Being direct is good though, your desires certainly won’t be everybody’s cup of tea but at least they know what you want and can’t complain that they were mislead. When you start pretending you want more and leading people on only to get want you want and leave you invite all sorts of negative attention.
Good luck 😊

Ms Phoenix.
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wilddogwog   Man 40yrs

If it is the number one thread on here then it is clearly saying something yeh.
We are not hearing woman say it actually all woman say they are flooded with replies so much they don't have too reply so the balance is not right then yeh so why would men bother when it is all geared to woman only and pay membership to get no replies yet woman don't have to be members and get flooded ???
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SpicyKale   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 40yrs

Wilddog, it's not geared towards women, it's about the numbers! Do a search on the desktop version of women and couples online, then men. You'll get a bit of an idea of what you're up against. You've also got to understand that not everyone is looking for a weekly hookup, maybe only a few times a year in some cases. The place isn't an escort site!
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JohnyR   Man 44yrs

These stats explain why




These stats will give you an idea what us Single men are up against
Ladies just get spoiled with choice and guys are happy for any communication on here


Women seeking Men
629

Online Now


Women seeking Women
296

Online Now


Women seeking Couples
302

Online Now

Guys


Men seeking Men
374

Online Now


Men seeking Women
4345

Online Now


Men seeking Couples
2754

Online Now

Couples


Couples seeking Men
681

Online Now


Couples seeking Women
2270

Online Now



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SpicyKale   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 40yrs

JohnyR 👍
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Sawadee   Man 56yrs

JohnyR

That just about sums it up ? Numbers dont lie ?
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SpicyKale   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 40yrs

and 2995 couples seeking couples online now

That's where the numbers line up on what is still to a lot a swingers site.
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Getmeplease   Woman 49yrs

Wilddogwog

you're gross yeh.
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EarthQueen   Woman 49yrs

OP

Even if there was 100 women to 10 men I doubt you would have much success with that profile description.
Honestly, it's pretty bad. It reads like looking for a free prostitute.
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SuperFoxxxy  

Woman 48yrs

You are not honest! That is BS right there, so don't state it.

It's OK to say you love sex and all that jizz. Big deal! So does every other Tom, Dick and Harry out there! What I want to know is, what are you going to do, to actually get the woman to the stage of her removing her panties for you and having sex with you?

That only way you're going to get that without having a conversation, is to pay a prostitute. But then again you need to talk to her to negotiate costs. 😂

Ms Foxy
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SuperFoxxxy  

Woman 48yrs

There is women on here in the same situation as you, OP

Maybe that is what you need to aim yourself towards. That way you both get your sexual needs met.

Ms Foxy
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Miss_Falconer   TV/CD 56yrs

Nice stats JohnyR

Surely a coincidence as Johnny has been popular today.....

And interesting handle by the OP

2 ducks in a row....

Back on Topic Annie....



OP. The stats show 7 men for every woman. Of those 7 men trying to get her attention, would she be quick off the mark to be interested in a zero pic profile?

Would she garnish more interest if said no pic profile is a married man? If she even opened the profile that is.

But have no doubt that men are successful in here. It requires a long campaign of getting things right. The right wording, the right pic, the right opening message, the right conversation tact. The right presentation when meeting. There a a lot to get right and an awful lot of small things that can derail the train as you speed down the slope towards the station
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Mischeviouslad   Man 48yrs


I asked the lord “where do i begin with this one”

And the lord said....

Just walk away dude. It would be easier to hammer a nail in with your forehead than to get through to some people.

And so I did, right after posting this


* I didn't really ask the lord, because, I don’t have imaginary friends 🤪
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MrKentia   Man 35yrs

If you want communication from women on RHP, just post on the forum. Lots of women will reply to you to tell you how much your profile is problematic and how they are in high-demand and its all about you being an issue.

It's all about some gender/society issues we have actually. It will not change. Probably, it will only get worse and end up like in Japan.
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FredAndGinger2  

Couple Man 48yrs Woman 45yrs

You can remove from the stats of total interested women those who are here only for female-female attention and those that only meet at parties and events because the barrage of flirts and messages are overwhelming.

As Annie said - being a single guy on here requires everything about your profile and your behaviours to be perfect or else you'll be over looked.

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