Not my first Swing rodeo..but this time...I'm SINGLE!

Not my first Swing rodeo..but this time...I'm SINGLE!

    | Feb 21, 2020
LittleMissSTFU   Woman 28yrs
Hi peeps!

I've been here on and off for several years when I was with someone. Swinging was something we did together for some extra fun :-) but now...I'm happily SINGLE!

What are some things I need to be aware of while dipping my toes into the scene once more as a single woman?

Obviously Safety is something to consider :)

Tips, tricks, stories! Tell me everything!

Thankyou ❤️

T

- Posted from rhpmobile
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neverenoughfun   Couple Man 64yrs Woman 57yrs

that's easy babe




if the message is from a male or someone who you suspect is a male writing it, treat it as total bullshit because it will be.
As an adult woman you should already realise that lol.
As for playing, do only what you want to do and do not ever let yourself be coerced or forced to do something you are not comfortable with. If that happens find yourself another 'friend' because the one your are with is certainly not one.

the expression goes babe 'men are like car parking spaces, all the good ones are taken only the handicapped ones are left".
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teamaj2  

Couple Man 38yrs Woman 57yrs

Little miss
Firstly , Im glad you are happily single . Embrace the freedom , do what your heart and body desires , without having to consider a partner and follow your bliss .
Sooo many words of wisdom to be bestowed upon you ! Most importantly , allow yourself to listen to your gut instinct . As a single woman you will most likely will be overwhelmed with responses. If they seem not quite right , are pushing your boundaries and not what you seek - it’s okay to move on . As a single woman you are spoilt for choice . We think quality over quantity but that’s us .
It’s all very personal . I wouldn’t as a single woman meet at your home . We find a bar or cafe a safe haven . You can always move the party back home . Meet and greets and parties are a fun , safe way to meet like minded people .
We’ve met some great people thru RHP .
Goodluck in all your endeavours . Have the best time .
A x
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usebi   Man 60yrs

Advise

Best thing I can offer is not about the site or the others here it’s about you.

Examine why your here with forensic zeal, just a fuckbuddy ? FWB ? What ?

Until you’ve got that clear thrashing around blindly is pointless.

Once your goal is clear, remove as many boundaries and limits as you can live with.

In life many of the best experiences come out of nowhere, unplanned and un imagined.

Throw the door open.
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EarthQueen   Woman 49yrs

I just like your user name

Ha ha

I've got nothing to offer except ....godspeed.
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Sawadee   Man 56yrs

Man phobia..

Seriously.. reading some of the above advice turned my stomach... Yes , some men are arse's but theres also plenty that are genuinely nice human beings .. The tricky part is separating the chaff from the hay ?

My advise is to always meet in a safe neutral location before anything . Several times if nessasary, then trust your gut. Know what you want and dont settle for seconds..

As you already know ' swinging can be hit and miss at the best of times , so if you dont find what your looking for first up ' dont despair , not every man will suit you and vice versa.. Good luck

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badboyhere   Man 50yrs

You have a great profile. You have been clear in what you want emotionally in your profile. Another wrote that you will get inundated. Most single women complain that happens. Maybe it’s true. If it is, you might not get the time to look at every profile that messages but try to look past the alphas and ignore the image less profiles and you may find what you are looking for.
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LittleMissSTFU   Woman 28yrs

I know exactly what I want sexually! I know my limits and I will Never drop said limits. My limits are quite minimal. So if someone cannot deal with the very few boundaries I have then they can take a walk :)

As for profiles. I never go by just a photo. Im one of those people who read profiles. Always have. I rather take something from their profile and use it to make conversation.
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PerthGang

Loce your profile and a swingle woman is exaxtly what we are looking for so maybe you are exactly what all of us need and maybe all of us are able to give you what you need?
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SuperFoxxxy  

Woman 48yrs

Know your target and exactly what you want

Follow your gut and intuition. Be very firm sticking to your personal bounderies! Now that you have publicly stated you are a "swingle", you will find "some", will try to groom you and manipulate your vunerabilties into being their new "play toy". It is not OK and is inappropriate for anyone to touch you without consent or try to persuade you into doing what they want. No means NO. Unfortunately "some will try their hardest to change that.

Those that respect your bounderies will not try to intice you. Best of luck and be safe.

Ms Foxy
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SuperFoxxxy  

Woman 48yrs

PerthGang

Who is the "all of us" you speak on behalf off?

You have jumped on here assuming what you have to offer is exactly what the OP wants, because it is what you want? She hasn't stayed anything like that at all.

Ms Foxy

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Dragon_Phoenix   Couple Man 40yrs Woman 38yrs

@neverenoughfun, your statement about men isn’t just wrong, it’s straight up fucking ridiculous!!

Ms Phoenix.
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SuperFoxxxy  

Woman 48yrs

Stayed, should be "stated"

👌 😎

Ms Foxy
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LittleMissSTFU   Woman 28yrs

@perthGang

I vagually remember you back from when I was SugarAndSpice (partnered)

You come off as if you think I'll bend to your expectations and be a submissive little puppy who will only be used for your own desires as apposed to catering to mine equally?

So I politely decline any offers from you at this time.

Thankyou.

T
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SuperFoxxxy  

Woman 48yrs

LittleMissSTFU

👏👍

Ms Foxy
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MickinMandurah   Man 53yrs

Take precautions....

Have a phone conversation after chatting online to see if you are both on the same page (saves wasting time), then meet in a public neutral place. Let it be known subtlety that a friend knows you are meeting with the profile name and you just have to message him to let him know you're ok.





Good luck and have safe fun!! :)
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I am recently a single guy in the scene. I used to be part of a couple and like you I am happily single.
I like the advice if trust your gut. If u get a bad vibe listen.....no matter how appealing the situation may seem.
Remember as a single girl you hold ALL the power. Use it to your advantage to get the situations you desire and don't be afraid to walk away if it's not what you want.
At a club if you are in a bad situation.....call for help loudly. I was at a club and all I heard was the girl in the room next to me say loudly "I said stop"
That's all I needed to hear, I stopped what I was doing and went to check on her. The guy said we are ok, leave us. I looked at her and said clearly not.....I thought nk you need to leave.
You will get this when there are numbers.
Lots of safety advice about meeting guys one on one but I'm sure u don't need that, most women are all over that aspect.

I hope you have nothing but positive experiences and good times 😘

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