Photos

Photos

    | Sep 18, 2018
Lionsdoll1
Yes this topic has probably been covered, but I just can’t understand why you wouldn’t have a photo on your profile?
Doesn’t have to be your face or bare chest.
Just something to catch our eyes or give an indication of what you’re about. A scenic photo or even a meme if approved.

I have deliberately mentioned in my profile that if you have no photo I won’t respond.
My date finder has received over 25 interested men.
Almost half have no photos, which makes it easy I guess ❌

So what do you think of profiles with no photos?

If you have no photos, why?

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nightingale8   Woman 34yrs

Blind date?

😆

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island_life   Couple Man 52yrs Woman 49yrs

I know right..

And when it's some guy, who's a guest member, ..and they send you a flirt..!!
Dont get me started lol

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mango69er  

Couple Man 53yrs Woman 63yrs

Dn

Lot of reasons why. Some cause they are cheating on a partner. Some for other reasons. Was thinking of taking our photos off on another site. As spotted someone i know at work on there.

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XantheaHunter

Hmm?

Newbies, lurkers or stalkers. Only the first one can be forgiven.
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Lionsdoll1

In response

@ Nightingale- lol I know right 🤣 but with catfishes it is still kind of a blind date lol

@ Copulator2 - too late, I started lol but yes exactly! Nothing filled in on their profile, no validation or friends, or interests. Then they post whinging about no activity or interest 🙄

@ mango69er - good point, but it’s easy to have a photo without face showing. I only show mine in PA if I’m interested to meet. A nice suit photo or sexy back or something!

@ XH - true that!


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BlankPage

Gaahhhh!

I find it quite annoying. If I have bothered to post a photo — Show something or even allow me to see your Pg first. But maybe he thinks he can catch my eye with his personality... but attraction is key and sadly we judge with our eyes first then personality. I have had some one message me we got along so well ... until he finally decided to show me the photos and unfortunately I wasn’t attracted to him at all. So I had to tell him , I’m sorry ... but I wish I had of known sooner. Otherwise I wouldn’t have wasted your time. Some things can’t be helped I guess.

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Koolgrey

Photos

"..or give an indication of what you’re about. A scenic photo or even a meme if approved."
This is the tack I take here.
I think all mine show me smiling too...because I'll look like a murderer, otherwise. And no-one wants that.
Except my current, which reflected melancholy winter, taken about 2 months ago.

Only once have I seen a profile of someone I recognise from work. Which is a little surprising considering how small Perth is.
But I never said hello, and neither did they. Nor has anyone from work ever mentioned they've seen me here, and I've never hidden my face in 5 years. I guess they don't care if they have.
But, I'm not about to change my main pic to one of my dick either.
It's not my best feature, anyway.









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Mischeviouslad   Man 49yrs

Simply rules to live by

No pic
No words
No effort
= No interest

If someone isn’t even prepared to put a little bit of effort in to ultimately benefit themselves.... then they’re hardly going to put any effort towards anyone else

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Lionsdoll1

Response

@ I_Crave_You - nooo 🤦🏻‍♀️ Ive had that happen too. Yep, get it out of the way early. Such a shame when that happens and then I feel bad

@ Koolgrey - good on you! One of the very rare few. You’ve obviously got nothing to hide, you’re comfortable with yourself and confident.

@ Mischievouslad - nailed it! That’s a very good point.

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damnfineday   Man 36yrs

My two cents




It's interesting. I am fairly new on here and kind of feel a bit like an animal that's been in a cage being released into the wild. I'm taking a few cautious steps and gradually becoming more and more active. I considered not having a picture, as was said above I was worried a colleague might see, but you are absolutely right, no profile picture just screams no effort, so went with the half-way house option of blacking out my face. I can consider faces for private messages. As for others, I totally want to see some kind of picture, or at the very least a 'restricted' picture to know someone is serious. If you have no picture and no profile, what's the point of even being here, except to perv on others? I do enjoy going to nude beaches and you see people (and for people, read men) who are there just for a perv. Generic baseball cap, darksunglasses, wandering aimlessly up down. It's the real life equivalent of no profile picture. No effort and just makes the place seedy for people who genuinely want to enjoy it.
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steveandhisgirl   Couple Man 50yrs Woman 57yrs

If they dont have a photo

I treat them as a fake

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Xenaesque

No photo

Is only better when partnered with a profile that hasn’t been filled out and is full of “ask me’s”



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miss_bennet

Noob

I've been on for two weeks and only had private photos. I already had well over 100 messages with no pic up. Last night I added a pic, and it's now like being a noob again

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More_to_Me   Man 43yrs

Photo and words still hard work

I know others will say that’s the way it is, but I have clear photos and thought out profile and as a guy doesn’t make much of a difference. I think people should go to some effort but you can see why they don’t, it’s going to be hard slog no matter what unless you have a 6 pack.

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usrightnow_Again   Couple Man 102yrs Woman 102yrs

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For those actively looking, no, makes no sense not to have one at least.

We eventually had the full 50 in each of our three galleries, (that's 50in Public, and 50 in each of the Private ones). We regularly rotated them, once having a different main profile pic every day for a month. There were photos of both of us, dressed, undressed, and some fun ones. We had a lot of them stolen (one of the reasons we left 2017) and subsequently watermarked them all, just prior to leaving, worth thinking about.

That's one reason we don't have any now, the other is that we aren't currently looking. And yes, we too are sceptical when profiles have no pics, Ask Me for most questions, and the old anyone 18-99.

If privacy is the excuse, no one will recognise one arse from another, and without one when looking, you probably are one.

Mr. urn. .

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DonnaBrett   Couple Man 58yrs Woman 52yrs

No photos no interest

Photos are a must but just boobs, butts, pussies or dicks mean nothing. Sure those can be fun to see but facial pics are a must before we will meet anyone. A really annoying thing is when people make the initial contact via message or flirt but don't share a facial photo. If you make first contact you should supply face pics.

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