Why is with some people !!??

Why is with some people !!??

    | Jun 08, 2019
island_life   Couple Man 50yrs Woman 46yrs
Weve been chatting with a guy for a couple of weeks, and we arranged for him to come meet us tonight.he was keen as !!
As agreed, I booked a room for us all to play, that we would split the cost of (he actually offered to.pay the whole thing)

Then we dont hear since Thursday..
Weve messaged, phoned, kicked lol..
Nothing..

People are just so effing rude and inconsiderate..
If you want to cancel at least have the decency (balls) to.let the people know!

Rant over lol.
Happy play night everyone

- Posted from rhpmobile
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naughtytintin   Man 53yrs

Rude as f..k

Totally worth ranting about! That is no only incredibly rude but also lame, spineless, and contemptible. As you say at least have the balls to say you can’t make it, even better offer to pay anyway.
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 55yrs

Probably

His wife's girls night out was cancelled?



Has happened to many of us. Sometimes if there is a long lead in period and all parties talk it up, the 'single male' gets a little concerned that he doesn't have the performance to back it up and ghosts you.
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Phoenix_Rising   Woman 37yrs

Think about the image you portray.

I absolutely agree with you but I have to ask; have you considered that maybe they did it because of one of your rants like this one (this is not the first one I’ve noticed)? Not saying that makes it ok, it totally doesn’t but it’s something worth considering...you give a certain impression of yourselves in rants like this and indeed every time you comment on RHP forums and as we all know it stays there for everyone to see. I hope this one doesn’t do your sex life too much more damage.
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Happy_GT   Man 49yrs

Stood up

That is BS, it happens all too often, I've never stood anyone up without an absolute unavoidable issue. Can you out him or is that going a bit too far.


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justforthefun44   Couple Man 54yrs Woman 43yrs

Welcome

This happens far to much. It has happened to use with men women couples. Don't know why they talk the talk but that's as far as it goes. Remember there is some really respectful and nice pepole on here. Just move on.
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countrytouch82  

Man 37yrs

OP

I've been left with no one at mere coffee dates, but my suggestion would be never to meet for the first time involving a special booking like this, I think everyone is best to meet at least for drinks first. Someone can ghost before a meeting and essentially remain anonymous even to you. Some have more than one phone number too etc. Someone that will turn up to a more casual meeting or drinks, makes it much more certain they will turn up to a second, and you also gain more real information about them, which makes it harder for them (and thus more unwilling) to just disappear.



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funtimohyes   Man 59yrs

This does happen a lot. Same as not answering a message sent to you. It’s just good manners and you are more likely to get another invite to meet another time. Don.
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Qefenta4   Woman 100yrs

There are people

Who are just unreliable...always have been,always will be..the way of the world.

The best laid plans of mice and men do often go awry,

Robert Burns 1759-1796

Hugs Q
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SuperFoxxxy  

Woman 48yrs

But wait

They are allowed to change their minds and do not have to tell you. As you stated he offered to pay, but something after that has happened that maybe he got turned off. Which does happen. You do not have control over others, especially when you have not met them. They really have no obligation to you. What is rude, is writting a post wanting people pf the forums to validate your rant and your high expectations for him to do as you wanted. That comes from you, no one else. You choose to place yourselves in that position and paid for the accommodation yourselves. Best thing to do is Thank them for their time and move one. You can not change what happened. Just hope you both had a great night.

Ms Foxy

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funguy4funsex

Ummm...he could of at least told them..pretty rude
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3andmore4   Couple Man 48yrs Woman 47yrs

Fair rant it's very rude. A simple sorry can't make it is easy to do. And this is what this forum is for. do not let trolls tell you otherwise.
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Phoenix_Rising   Woman 37yrs

Not fair at all actually!

Where’s the other person’s point of view? One way rants are the furthest thing from fair in my opinion. Do I give a fuck if you want to label me a troll because of it? Nah not really. Rants like this make people look like self entitled brats, sure it’s annoying to get stood up but don’t come here running people down with your one sided story, it’s a terrible look. Questions are always welcome, rants not so much.
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The_Antichrist   Man 40yrs

Hmmm....

Well...someone’s expectations haven’t been met ....



Maybe it was his also??



I have no idea why on earth people get so invested both emotionally and financially when it comes first meets...



Not only are you deliberately putting yourself in the disappointment zone, but you set bars far too high for future meets....



What would’ve happened had this guy turned up as per the agreement and failed to meet your performance expectations, would we still be reading about it?? In all honestly threads like these are merely a waste of energy and shows just how resilient, casual, good natured people just aren’t despite their profile contents...



I hope your very obvious bruised egos don’t suffer for too long and you get your closure....
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Forus1234  

Couple Man 48yrs Woman 47yrs

He offered to pay for room?? 1st sign

We would never tell people we have booked a room or booking room to play. (We haven’t met before). That sets the expectation that it’s going to happen. We always say meet first & see what happens. Yes we have knocked them back at meet up. Unless we are staying in town for weekend or for business, we never book the room in advance, but play in an area where rooms are available & if we are happy, Mr F slips away & organises the room. It has hasn’t failed us yet. Never had a no show! The guy offered to pay for the room, we’ve never had one offer this, there are clever people on this site, but not clever enough. If their profile isn’t validated or verified we don’t chat to them, most get off on the texting, minimal messaging before meeting, even if they provided you a number on their 2nd phone! Always talk on the phone earlier as well, we can usually tell by conversation on speaker phone both of us listening, get a feel if the gent is genuine. If we invite them to play, we pay for the room & have never asked people to pay half. Also no further pics are given via kik, if they are not happy with pgs bad luck!



Countrytouch82 that’s shitty, people have actually left you there at coffee meets. It doesn’t cost much to text & say I can’t make it.
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AnnieWhichway   TV/CD 55yrs

Rant?

I wouldn't call it a rant, just statement of how a rude person fucked around someone who were prepared to be intimate with a relative stranger.

Offering up ones intimacy in those circumstances surely warrants the other party to act in a decent manner and simply letting them know that they wont be attending.

Perhaps those having a crack at the OP should deserve a serve of similar treatment and see how they feel.

I'm with the OP. No names mentioned and fairly controlled release of their feelings. Can't see why that's a problem.
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usebi   Man 60yrs

Wait a minute.

You booked a room but you haven’t met ?

Rookie error right there.

Slow down, do due diligence then think about where when who pays etc.

Good luck.
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MrMojoRisin  

Man 66yrs

Yeah Nah...*devils advocate*

One time I was sitting in a pub car park for a lunch meet and was just about to go into the pub and the phone rang, it was the wife asking me to go and pick up my son from school because he was sick. I thought it was my date calling to say she'd arrived, I called her as I drove away and she met me another time. In this case the ghosting sucks and is plain bad manners.
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long_male_syd   Man 35yrs

My god! Why would anyone give an opprtunity with a piece of ass like yours!!!
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3andmore4   Couple Man 48yrs Woman 47yrs

Sorry just saying manner is something I also look for.. If he's lost interest or turned off fair enough, but what stops him from saying can't make it.. I like common decency says a lot about a person. I'm guessing the ones saying why invest your time or expect manners are more than likely the same ppl who don't turn up enexplained..
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sydney_tradie  

Man 35yrs

What as absolute fking idiot

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