I had a very brief, but crazy fling with a guy at my work many years ago. I was a legal secretary aged 24, and he was 38. The chemistry between us was palpable, but unfortunately I ended up getting hurt. I left the practice a while after, and some time after still we were having a drink and ended up talking about our affair. He had felt the same was I did - wanted to fuck within days of us working together. He knew it was 'wrong' and felt conflicted. Chemistry is a strange thing. The early days after it ended I became very miserable, but now I'm a bit more 'meh' and honestly wish him well.