1st time swinging???

May 17 2013

I'd be interested to know how people have found the 1st time experience? Seeing your partner/friend being very intimate with another person. Jealousy? excitement? nothing?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    couldn't believe we had done it lol! We were fine at the time and the next day. We didn't know what to expect at our first party but we got into the swing of things no bother :-). Neither of us were jealous and actually really enjoyed the whole experience.It's exciting, fun and spices things up, we can't wait for our next party :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The nerves, the excitement, the seemingly looooooong lead up to more in a bed. It was all worth it for us. The biggest worry we both had was Hmm will he get jealous seeing me with another guy and girl or will I get jealous seeing him with another girl. The only answer we can give you is the one we tried,Before we met or first "playmate/s we talked deeply and seriously about the emotional ramifications of what we would experience. What we discovered about each other during this talk was mindblowingly eye opening. We realised our love for each other was enhanced by firstly, knowing the others desires and secondly realising that we truely had the trust in each other to see past stupid jealousies and deeply enjoy seeing each other satisfied sexually by others.We have not looked back since that day and regularly discuss our past playmates and how they excited us.....I must be said we only play as a couple with couples but this is about my safety only. He has no opinion on whether I choose to be with a girl alone but as yet since I have been with him I have only wanted to include him. Hope this helps