M57
5 Tips To Men To Be Better Lovers
February 11 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
I read your profile. Nice work there. Put some of your tips on here. One tip I have, but it doesnt mean it works on every woman, is the attention to my boobs. Yes, I said boobs, not just nipples. They are sensitive little creatures. Most guys hone in on the nipple, give one a suck for 10 seconds while they twist the other. Quickly swap and lick the other one. Job done!! Lets get down to the pussy as quicly as possible. Why are you rushing guys!! The nipples need more attention than a quick flick and twist. Spend some time on those puppies and You get me climbing the wall. And not just the nipple. Gently run your fingers around the whole boob. Feels amazeballs. Take you time on this area and you will be surprised at how hot it gets. I almost cum just from that. Note: not all women have sensitive nipples. But Im talking from my perspective. 😆
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RHP User
10 years ago
its not about how far you can get your tongue down my throat .... sensual kissing is an art .... the better the kissing the more sensual the sex .... now that's hot. Hard and fast and lustful can be fun .... but long sessions of sensual exploration and pleasure is the best...for me anyways! LG
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RHP User
10 years ago
Cockery.....love it! Umm I cant think of 5 things as the guys Ive met have been extremely satisfying in different ways. Theres only one thing that comes to mind. Dont think you have to perform like a porn star. One guy did this then asked what score Id give for performance.....talk to me about what turns you on and then we go with the flow. I just like when there are no expectations and then anything can happen in the moment. Be yourself....driven with lust and desire, not the Pornstars manual.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Eye contact! Stare at me like you can see inside me - intoxicate my soul with your eyes. Touch every inch of me with real intention like you're reading Braille on my skin. Respond to my moving - like my body is reason you have gravity. Kiss me like It's your last day on earth. Expose my neck - breathe on it, smell it, taste it. Make time stop.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
It's not the cue to hit the shower and go. It's the cue for another drink and a chat. You might just score another fuck
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RHP User
10 years ago
Kiss, boob, boob, pussy. The end.
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RHP User
10 years ago
One can almost write a thesis! LOL!!! But ok... you asked for five, you shall get five! 1) Lean in for the kiss mid-sentence! That's after ascertaining, of course, that the lady IS into you and is not going to push you away! I've had men pull that move to me and it says, "You are so darn irresistable, I can't stop thinking about kissing your soft lips and I know you are talking but all I can think about is kissing you!" Shuts me up all the time and MmmmmMMmmm!!! Make sure you kiss well! I recently had a man kiss me and it felt like a gaping hole cause he kinda left his mouth open all the time and it felt kinda "lost in space", but not in a "seeing stars" kinda good way. 2) Multi-task when you kiss! Kiss... and then run your fingers around the back of her neck, kinda cup it gently... stroke her ears, cup her chin, touch her hair, run your hands up and down the small of her back, pull her closer... all done as you are kissing her. If a man does all this to me, I'm already melting and feeling oh so hot!!! ... and we haven't even removed our clothes yet! LOL!!! 3) Kiss the neck. And simultaneously play with the boobs. Feel the tenderly, squeeze them firmly, alternate again. Trace your fingers along the edges of the bra, drive her crazy with anticipation. Then gently reach your fingers into the bra to stroke the nipples. Attempt to remove the bra. This is one of the best parts because a lot of guys somehow can't seem to undo the bra clasps well and sometimes, it ends up being sorta funny. It's good to share a laugh as it eases the tension and kinda stokes the comaraderie. 4) Please don't do the wham! bam! thank you, ma'am caveman thing. Explore her body with your fingers, with your hot breath. Stimulate the clitoris with your fingers / penis. Savour the wetness. Use your visual, auditory, tactile and taste senses. Tease. Act like you are going to penetrate but nuh-uh... hold back! Kinda just put the tip into the opening, but nuh-uh... hold back! Make us plead! Make us squirm! Make us beg!!! 5) Sometimes, slow and gentle is fun. Other times, hard and rough is good. I suppose knowing when to use which method depends on how well you know each other cause everyone's different. Some folks love to talk dirty. Others just wanna be quiet. Some women like you to give it to 'em like they are your private whore but others are a bit more reserved. Different strokes for different folks and as long as you play respectfully and within each other's boundaries and comfort zones, it will be a smashing time for both! Just my humble opinion. The good lovers are never forgotten; the bad are oft interred with their bones! (Sorry, Shakespeare... I have vulgarly twisted your famous verse from Macbeth!)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' It's not the cue to hit the shower and go. It's the cue for another drink and a chat. You might just score another fuck ___________________________________________________________________________________________ Totally agree with you! Don't just be happy and end up being complacent. If you want to stick around for an Act II and Act III and etc you'll have to lay the groundwork for it!
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RHP User
10 years ago
So true! Maybe my worst should have read kiss, nipple, nipple, pussy the end 😉
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RHP User
10 years ago
We like taking our time and enjoying your body too. So while we are touching, kissing and tasting every part of you, dont shove our heads down on your dick. Whats the rush? Let us enjoy exploring your body. We will get to your dick soon enough. 😝
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RHP User
10 years ago
totally agree ! Quoting 'Whateverway' It's not the cue to hit the shower and go. It's the cue for another drink and a chat. You might just score another fuck a text the next day or after doesn't go astray either even if you aren't planning on playing again . good kissing - take your time with everything. ask her what she likes! take note of her moans / groans / screams . clean up after yourself (condom and condom wrapper disposal) if the sheets need changing offer to help etc - always appreciated.
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RHP User
10 years ago
PurePeony nailed it 😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Mmmm that's the only way I know how. Would love to hear your thoughts on my profile - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Summer, that's perfect. And Willoe, I totally agree - there's one guy in my life who makes love to my breasts - oh my. Every bit of them is caressed, and cherished, and teased. It's just mind blowing. There's certainly far more than just a nipple here, guys! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
The comments here are phenomenal. Where the heck have you lot been? There's a wealth of living well in here. Little things, which are big things. Very generous giving x I hope my competition doesn't pay the slightest goddamn bloody notice of this thread... Leaving it all to me :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Listen and hear 😃 magic words often ignored. I'll go with Annie's business model, but let's go 5 rounds. I get Hornier after each session, all the little electrode thingies just go nuts. Why stop at one? 😊
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RHP User
10 years ago
Just reread my post and it sounded sarcastic, wasn't meant to be, was referring to when you tell a guy what gets you off and they don't 'hear' what you're saying 😯
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Forus1234
10 years ago
1/ don't be afraid to use your voice- love it when a gent tells me how sensual I am, hot or gorgeous & actually means it. 2/ sensual lover- one that likes to caress, passionately kisses me particularly while rolling around on the bed. 3/ love to be massaged & touched all over. 4/ a gent that will stay a long time, half time drinks & not be our the door in an hour! 5/ lucky last- the goodbye kiss- passionate & long, like we may not see each other again, but know, the way the kiss felt, well meet again!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Exactly! When you find a guy like that, you keep 'em!
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RHP User
10 years ago
just don't rush!! Enjoy exploring every inch of each other's bodies. From the smell of her hair , to the softness of her lips, The arch of her back as she moans with pleasure. All the way past her naval.to her inner thighs down to her curled up toes. Just my thoughts 😃 Miss B💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
"Get them to help you change the sheets..." Good luck with that. Be nice but couldn't see it happening. Im just happy if they don't wipe their dick on my curtains
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
Stimulate my brain, make love to my boobs and get to know my vagina. Ms Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
Change the sheets..It's true, it does happen. I know, happens at my place. Even better if they make bed with hospital corners, after being shown just the once. Quick learners. 😉 LoL Ms Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Don't be in that world of .. I must get my cock taken care of ....yes sometimes the hard and fast is a good thing..but the slow sensual journey,the mutual exploration of a bodies that are desired,the slow build,the paying attention to her signals,the quickening of breath.the small trembles ,her gasps,her sighs. Never treat her clit to the rub a dub dub technique as if you are rubbing for Australia with finger or sharp tongue..and NEVER ask......Did you cum yet?.. 😘XxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
This is hard because every experience is different, one might never give oral but make you weak at the knees with their sexual presence, throw you up against a wall or over the bonnet of the car, grab your hair and fuck you good, dominating with words/actions (one or both) mmm where another will kiss tenderly, look into your eyes, lay you down, slowly spread your legs and use a soft flat tongue LEAVING THE CLIT ALONE (and I think Freya said never with a pointy tongue, never ever ever lol for me, what you see on porn is crap, I cringe watching women giving men oral, they're so bad but worse when they go for the clit, journey before destination) until further along but working the other areas, softly licking and kissing the inner thighs and grooves, so many nerve endings, and just below the clit, finger to find gspot, then go for it and make me squirt, watch me arch back and hear me holler. Repeat this process again and again until I'm satisfied, guys who are turned on by my body and the way it responds/I respond sexually, go nuts and unleash all their sexual energy, so hot, just let it go, don't hold back, but listen and watch for her (my lol 😀) signals mmm so horny this morning, love some company 😛😇😀
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RHP User
10 years ago
For porn, I guess I meant men and women giving oral to the opposite sex, badly through my eyes. If you're worried about your skill level guys, don't be, just slow down and listen, feel the person you're with, learn to appreciate a woman's body in all it's glory mmm still horny lol 😎
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sounded like I said the woman was going for the clit, while giving oral to a man? Haha I clearly need coffee 👅🍜🍉🍇🍖🍔 hungry too apparently, looking for picture of bacon and eggs 😁
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RHP User
10 years ago
Spot on! My post made it sound like it's all about me - but theres nothing better than exploring a man's body and watching him react to your touch, tongue etc, arching his body in response. Let me take my time on you too. Drawing things out make the ending so much more explosive ;) I would rather lots of foreplay and quick fuck than you concentrating on beating your personal best. Nothing worse than a guy concentrating so much on NOT cumming that he doesn't acknowledge your existence! Whateverway - LMAO maybe try blinds? I don't have much experience - but I personally like my hair pulled gently to expose my neck and being moved into positions. I feel like I'm with more of a "man" if that makes sense? But different strokes for different folks. And bang on with the listen and hear. But also use your voice - tell me what you like, let me know when I'm pleasing you - nothing worse than a mute!
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RHP User
10 years ago
1) Fore-fore play - entice her, get to know her and make her squirm. 2) Discover your woman. Don't have an idea in your head about what she will enjoy. Ask her about her pleasure - what gets her off; what toys she likes; does she like g-spot stimulation with clit; how does she love to cum; what doesn't she enjoy, etc. 3) Learn how to give oral. Nina Hartley does a perfect how to. unf 4) Learn to control your orgasms. It's much hotter to hear - tell me when you want me to cum. Rather than, Imma a cumming. Edging and PC muscle control is a good starting point 5) Vary your thrusting. Guys seem to get the varying the speed of thrusting, but there is seems to end. Vary the angling and the depth. If in missionary, find her g-spot, pull it out and tease her clit and lips. Tap her cervix. Stroke the wall between her vagina and back-passage. Roll your hips to angle and tap against different areas. Hold the hilt of your cock and stimulate her entrance. Straight thrusting in and out gets rather dull.
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compressor
10 years ago
like what the ladies said. I love to touch and love boobs and nipples. can play with them for along time and love touching a lady all over
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'pleasure_sor' Mmmm that's the only way I know how. Would love to hear your thoughts on my profile - Posted from rhpmobile Wow!!! One word - magic! WA hey? Damn!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' Change the sheets..It's true, it does happen. I know, happens at my place. Even better if they make bed with hospital corners, after being shown just the once. Quick learners. 😉 LoL Ms Foxy yep same i've had guys offer to help / have helped :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well thanks a lot people, my whole sexual repertoire splashed all over the internet for everyone to copy ! Thank fuck most of you can spot the fakes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I need to meet with some of you people
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RHP User
10 years ago
She asked me to sit up and put my back to the bed head , then she mounted me face to face or should I say face to breasts. She then pulled my head to her nipples and asked me to lick and suck her nipples while she rode me. I remember thinking at the time ' this ain't going to work. But it did, and she went off In no time. Got to love a woman who knows what she wants and how to get it.
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blackbig
10 years ago
Let me take a notebook .. Some quick notes ...😝👍 Will be applying one by one of these tips this coming months -:))) 🙏 Great forum. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Noosablondie
10 years ago
How about 5 tips for a woman to be a better lover. Fire away ladies.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Good idea. Everyone likes to learn and understand a bit more when possible. Why dont you post a new thread?
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RHP User
10 years ago
How lucky we are to have so many opportunities to learn and in so many varied ways. 1. Women are often terrible teachers. If you wish to increase your sexual prowess take advantage of the well thought out educational media available to you. I.e. You wish to have more anal sex. Learn more about it. This is a great example as you can do emotional and physical damage without any intention to do so. There's everything right (nothing wrong) with admitting you might not know it all. 2. Hygiene in all matters. This is very important when you are physically intimate with a woman. More than just sexually transmitted diseases can be introduced internally. Clean hands and fingernails, using real specially formulated lubricants and recognizing every ortifice has its own flora. Introducing anal flora to the vagina is a good way to make a woman uncomfortable for more than just that moment. 3. Sex is a mutual exchange. Build a strong communication and trust levels with your sexual partner. If you have an expirience that wasn't satisfying physically or emotionally its both of your responsibilities and an opportunity to become closer (better at it) if you choose to do the work. Blame isn't getting anyone anywhere. 4. Love languages. I didn't read the book. I don't know if you need to. It is useful to figure out what makes your partner tick and to subtly let them know how to make you feel appreciated too. Keep all your gestures small. Save the big ones for special occassions. Less pressure and expectation. 5. Physical touch. Deliberate movements, eye contact, positive body language, full palm contact and close proximity will all help your sex friend to feel close and comfortable with you. Tantra talks about heart to heart, women talk about sex up against the wall with their girlfriends. Missionary is the most popular position worldwide...etc.. There are receptive reasons for this. Holding your partner close will -as a general rule- make you perceived as a better lover. You can hang back and enjoy too just something to keep in mind. No emoting or bitching. Just a bit of layman advice. Nothing precise. Use it to your advantage. Life is for having a bit of fun. ✌️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
Goes a long way. I often get that, I like it. Goes vice versa too. :) Ms Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
There is a few things not mentioned here, yet.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Make her the focus and listen to her.Pay attention to all of her body not just her pussy.Explore her mind and body.I am over 50 and still play with many 20 and overso I must be doing it right.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Why not enlighten us to your knowledge of whats not mentioned yet. Or maybe some of your secret techniques arent high on the womens wish list?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Don't be so predictable, kissing, neck, tits, tummy, pussy. The standard routine of millions of men, and I even threw in neck and tummy. It's very hard when you find something that works to resist the temptation to use it again and again and again, you may get away with it if your seeing lots of women but if you want to be invited back you have to mix it up a bit, choreographed routines are for gymnasts not good lovers. Be in the moment and respond to your partner not just go through the motions. You might even enjoy her more too !
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not into one off quickies myself. Find that most fellas are uncomfortable with getting up close and friendly. Such a shame as they miss out on so much more. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
So much easier to suck cock ...... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think communication is the answer to both people achieving sexual fulfilment.Both men and woman,when together "assume" the other knows what to do and wont express their sometimes wicked kinky desires n needs as they are afraid of what the other mite think of them so..even in long term relationship's..their need never gets fulfilled...a reason men go to brothels ets.I consider myself reasonably experienced but every woman has different needs and hot spots and I won't know unless she lets me know so can only assume Im touching,feeling tonging and fucking to her pleasure..I do get pleasure from giving and fulfilling woman's any need...just communicate as nothing upset's me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I mét a man on another site,the instant we met there was a strong sexual connection.He just instinctively knew where and how to touch me.This had never happened before or since,There was no other connection really,just sex,but we did become friends.Unfortunately life got in the way and we no longer see each other xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'willowtree_2' Why not enlighten us to your knowledge of whats not mentioned yet. Or maybe some of your secret techniques arent high on the womens wish list? Experience is one thing younger women like about older guys, and to that end, lets keep it that way LOLDon't need to give away too much. Fact is nothing is a sure thing with anyone and you have just have to be sensitive to what is "doing it" for them, and what isn't. Do the former more and the later less. There now you know all my secrets. ;-) I guess I can do a few things that worked for some. Lightly stroking finger tips across the top of their breasts while kissing and caressing cheek with back of fingers while kissing. Or doing the same to top of breasts if they are on hands and knees on the bed while kissing and sucking the small of their back, and using the other hand to lightly sweep over each of their buttocks and down the back of their thighs.Then working hands down to nipples and cupping. AndIf a woman is on her knees in front giving me head, slowly bending down on one knee as she does it to get her over on her side and removing her undies and then lifting her leg up and bending down to give her oral while she is still giving me head.Kind of reciprocating the oral they started giving by then doing it to them to shows you appreciate what they are doing and want to do it for them too. Its the best way to start a 69 IMO rather then just hoping on each others face like a pony, not that that's a bad thing once you get to know them. So does that pass ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Like taking a drive.Take the longer route to each destination and enjoy the scenery along the way.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Scale breasts like a mountain, starting at the at base camp around the top of them, and tummy under them and the sides of them starting at the shoulders.Do a full reconThen move the steeper inclines gradually and then make the final assault on the summits of both peaks with lips and tongue.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yeah the boobs were mentioned at the beginning of this thread.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'willowtree_2' Yeah the boobs were mentioned at the beginning of this thread. There are no secrets
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RHP User
10 years ago
What one women may like may cause another to scratch your eyes out.Assuming that any method works in all cases can be dangerous.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Might be more about what you should be careful trying. Like touching a womens hair, for most its fine but some will go nuts.So my advice is if they are not in the habit of touching their own hair then don't tough their hair.Specifically the fringe, touch with extreme caution.Don't say I didn't warn you guys.
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RHP User
10 years ago
What you need to ask permission for . Like, always ask first before you stick your finger in their arse.And other things.Same for pulling hair, see above re hair touching.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' It's not the cue to hit the shower and go. It's the cue for another drink and a chat. You might just score another fuck You are terrible , Muriel...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes communication is an obvious. And as much as talking is good, so is shutting up and listening sometimes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'willowtree_2' Yes communication is an obvious. And as much as talking is good, so is shutting up and listening sometimes. Even that varies.Again its a matter of reading them the best you can.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Just about finished my pop corn on this most informative topic, great question thanks Winefirst for asking and ladies for such a onsite. Just one thing l didn't see mentioned re not rushing is massage oil. If oil to massage surprisingly appeared would that suggest there'll be no rush and all of her is going to be attended to and then with the tips of listening to what her responses are and communicating to check what's ok and wanted. Back to the pop corn. Cheers Adam
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RHP User
10 years ago
What they like one time might not be what they like next time.Moods vary and the kind of sex they want with it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Last night was one of the best nights of my life with a gentleman who is so astoundingly GIB, he has up'd the ante for all my future lovers! So, here's 5 tips from what he did very very right! 1) Great Kisser. As in... LEGENDARY kisser! He happens to be tall too *swoon!!! and it felt so good to melt against his shoulders and in his arms! 2) Boobies. Yes, they weren't ignored! 3) Eye contact, facial expression, non-intrusive communication. The eyes said it all! It said, "Baby, you are sexy! I want you!" and it said, "Right now, the only priority is our playtime!" A few times, I looked up, saw the keen, lusty look on his face, and how much he is enjoying it, and that made me continue with gusto! 4) Considerate, respectful of boundaries, clean and safe. Once I feel safe and assured that the guy is trustworthy, I can play with abandon! Whee! 5) Post-coital Cuddles. MmmMmm... I know he doesn't read the forums at all otherwise, I'd be so embarrassed. Hehehe! I'm sure I'm going to dream of him tonight!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Congrats on your Dream Boat encounter! Sounds like he hit all the right notes And there is nothing better than a great kisser. I can get completely lost in someone who knows how to melt their mouth into mine!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SoftandCurious' Congrats on your Dream Boat encounter! Sounds like he hit all the right notes And there is nothing better than a great kisser. I can get completely lost in someone who knows how to melt their mouth into mine! _____________________________________________________________________________________________ Ta, SoftandCurious! It's great to chance upon a legendary kisser BUT the issue now will be to ensure that my heart doesn't get moved. It is just an FWB afterall and Mr Dream Boat seems to be berthing in other ports too. I don't get how someone can kiss you like you mean the whole world to them, but it actually isn't so. Sometimes, this game can get frustrating.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I know right? I find kissing to be the best but most confusing along with eye contact. If you kiss miss like you're going to lose me, like you've found nirvana etc do you have feelings for me? And some lovers could win an academy award for the most "in awe, in love" eye contact skills ever!
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RHP User
10 years ago
After a recent experience I say again "interaction" Words Are Porn guys! Unless you are mute, some communication is essential to win me over! To me it's a bigger turn on than your tongue. You aren't pumping for oil - read your partner. And don't assume because you know them it's going to be amazing every time. You still need to connect with them. I might be wrong - but no matter how confident a woman is in her skin - a compliment doesn't go astray!!!!! Geez throw one out there you may like the response! I find it weird being so intimate with someone and you get one sentence like "is that good?" Out of a whole play session? And if you look like its work - you will never win (making me cum) Anyway thought I would comment on a recent experience. In case it helps! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'SoftandCurious' After a recent experience I say again "interaction" Words Are Porn guys! Unless you are mute, some communication is essential to win me over! To me it's a bigger turn on than your tongue. - Posted from rhpmobile the occasional play with the gimp gag ball in his mouth and wrists handcuffed to the bed while I ride him made does make a good change once in a while. just to see him moaning in silence and squirming helpless in ecstacy can drive a man wild... relinquishing control...., works for me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
When kissing let her feel your lips not your tongue sorry nothin worse then a mouth full of tongue!! All the time. Miss B 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'MissBrunette69' When kissing let her feel your lips not your tongue sorry nothin worse then a mouth full of tongue!! All the time. Miss B 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile Too right there. some men kiss like constantly darting their tongue in and out of their mouth! WTF. It is like giving CPR to an iguana! Or some just sticking their tongue deep into my mouth and into my throat! Hey, that's what your cock is for! Nice and soft and intense kisses for me. Taste my lips, with your lips and tickle them gently with your tongue. gently tease my lips with your tongue and trace the outlines of my lips with your fingers before plunging into another kiss to seal the deal while in passionate embrace or as our hands feel the curves of our backs and the tightness of our thighs and buns.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilybethyname' Too right there. some men kiss like constantly darting their tongue in and out of their mouth! WTF. It is like giving CPR to an iguana! Or some just sticking their tongue deep into my mouth and into my throat! Hey, that's what your cock is for! Nice and soft and intense kisses for me. Taste my lips, with your lips and tickle them gently with your tongue. gently tease my lips with your tongue and trace the outlines of my lips with your fingers before plunging into another kiss to seal the deal while in passionate embrace or as our hands feel the curves of our backs and the tightness of our thighs and buns. LG
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RHP User
10 years ago
A tonsillectomy is not my idea of passion. Nibbles on the neck, oh yeah !
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'MissBrunette69' When kissing let her feel your lips not your tongue sorry nothin worse then a mouth full of tongue!! All the time. Miss B 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile A kiss should be passionate and sensual unless in the heat of passion but there is also a passionate tongue kiss.However in my opinion that does not cover a good lover but a guy who has read forums and books and used that knowledge to tease and please a woman is a start.Also learning control and to hold off cumin helps heaps.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Haha! Well yes under those circumstances it would be a huge turn on! Now controlling their ability to talk.......must add to my list! 😉
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SoftandCurious' Haha! Well yes under those circumstances it would be a huge turn on! Now controlling their ability to talk.......must add to my list! 😉 Unless he never stops but communication is always a plus.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Really? I would hope that if someone put me in a position of trust like that they would use other methods of communication - eye contact, groaning, hip arching etc 😉
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek' Quoting 'MissBrunette69' When kissing let her feel your lips not your tongue sorry nothin worse then a mouth full of tongue!! All the time. Miss B 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile A kiss should be passionate and sensual unless in the heat of passion but there is also a passionate tongue kiss.However in my opinion that does not cover a good lover but a guy who has read forums and books and used that knowledge to tease and please a woman is a start.Also learning control and to hold off cumin helps heaps. I once got invited to dinner by a nice hot man. He was romantic and eager to please me. He offered to make me a great dinner followed by 'dessert' at his place. I got to his place, he opened the door with a big gorgeous smile. I walked in and he turned around to check the aromatic Indian dinner he has been slaving the whole afternoon. What a sight! no pants under his apron. Oooh la la... The sight was hotter than the vindaloo on the boil!!! 'How's the tummy ache from this morning?' he asked as he stirred the pot and my imagination. 'All good. just a bit on the edgy side tho. Hope you didnt make things too spicy?', I replied. 'Don't worry sweet cheeks. I'll go easy on the spices. i'll hold the cumin.'
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RHP User
10 years ago
We've gone into the "hardware" bits about technique, etc. The "software" components can't be ignored either and that can elevate someone into the status of an unforgettable lover. I think most of us are not here for an elusive love relationship. We're either too busy to sustain one, don't want one, recovering from one, or too cynical / bitter / hurt to ever believe in one again for now. However, it is an intrinsic need to feel loved / respected / appreciated / special for the period of time that we are with our lover. And a good lover knows that if they were to cherish the moment that is spent together, and make each other feel special for that moment, that makes the sex so much better and memorable and guarantees repeat sessions. There are lovers who kinda make you feel like you are disposable and nobody important in their lives, and that kinda makes you feel shitty at the end. I mean, we all know that it's a transient attachment, but just don't make it so obvious and blatant. Sure, some of us will end up with more than one FWB's or whatever you choose to call them, and it's good to discuss it openly but just not tactlessly. Don't make a lover feel bad that she isn't your best FWB or you've found someone sexier and you're going to drop her like a hot potato because she isn't as sexy, etc. I think it's basic respect to exercise tact and consideration because if you burn your bridges, you never know when you might just regret it. So... a good lover makes you feel like a million dollars whilst you are with him. He shows appreciation and is eager to please and make you feel comfortable. He doesn't lie or deceive or even pretend that it's going to be anything more than an FWB arrangement because he's not a cad.
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RHP User
10 years ago
And I guess it comes down to intent. I think many guys have the intent of getting their rocks off and going to sleep, or to watch the footy. They really don't think or care about how their partner feels. They are missing out and so is their partner. Personally I am addicted to the euphoric sensation of sexual arousal and want my partner to feel the same because I don't want it to end. And there is pleasure in giving pleasure. Intimacy can be as subtle as stroking a finger across a dinner table, but it is arousing. Every inch of the body has nerve endings that can be aroused. Take the time to explore every inch. As many have said in this thread, don't target the most sensative bits. Anticipation heights arousal. Tease. And the higher the arousal, the more intense the release. Remember, good sex takes hours...great sex takes days. Take the time to get the most out of it. By way of a training exercise guys...try to not cum. Make your you partners pleasure your only focus...Read the body language... There are times for hard (passion) and there are times for soft (intimacy). Learn how to make one intensify the other. The bottom line is: If you are REALLY into sex, you will already know how to treat your partner well, because you want to. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am on this site pretty much exclusively because woman that are less experienced tend to fall in love and never want to let you go when you treat them with respect and tenderness and pay attention to the tips given in this thread. In fact my first liaison upon becoming single was in tears by the 2nd date, and she was a swinger of some 5 years. She explained "swinging is just sex". Intimacy takes sex to a whole new level. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Totally agree with the last half of your footnote. Have seen it happen from both male and female swinger friends of mine.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Why do women fall in love ,why do they mistake your actions,and don't listen to your words?...do the two things contradict each other.? Perhaps some men are giving women the "boyfriend experience" ..sleepovers,hanging out etc..it's a fine line I think between a FWB and a BF ..and all of us will sometimes project onto the other what we are looking for xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
If you have just had sex with a man who's GIB and who pushes all the right buttons just the way you like it, of course you'd want repeats of that and of course you'd look forward to trying out more stuff in future. BUT... you may or may not see him again because of *insert any of 1,001 reasons*. You think you've got yourself an awesome FWB and you look forward to hooking up "regularly", but you two have different definitions of "regularly" and whilst you think at least once a week, he tells you he's too busy, but then you realise he hadn't been too busy to hook up with a few other women. So, if you choose to continue the FWB relationship, you might get to see him once in 3-4 weeks. Unless he decides to pick just one special FWB to be exclusive with, then you are back to Square One. You meet up with a gorgeous guy and he makes you feel special, respected, treats you nicely, charms the panties off you... And before you enjoy the feel-good hormones way too much, you have to remind yourself that all that is empty and nothing and there's no real love in it. It's just feel-good romance for that moment only, so don't get too caught up in the euphoria. Way too complicated! I prefer a simpler, less complicated, clear-cut life. I hate to have to deal with mirages... Oops... sorry OP for hijacking your thread!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Wine first and pure peony....between the two of you, you have described the perfect sexual encounter.... That said, I think you need to have regular fwb to really appreciate how good a lover can be.... I think the most important point was the " have a laugh" bit..it really does remove all the "porn star" bullshit that some guys truly believe women are after, and I know seeing someone's sense of humour makes me relate better to them and therefore makes me hotter for them.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting '3saparty_round2' Wine first and pure peony....between the two of you, you have described the perfect sexual encounter.... That said, I think you need to have regular fwb to really appreciate how good a lover can be.... I think the most important point was the " have a laugh" bit..it really does remove all the "porn star" bullshit that some guys truly believe women are after, and I know seeing someone's sense of humour makes me relate better to them and therefore makes me hotter for them. So true! Have you watched, "Zack and Miri make a Porno"? It's so clumsy and so contrived that you'll end up ROTFLYourAO! Before becoming comfortable with each other and knowing what works and what doesn't, it's always good to learn in an atmosphere of goodwill and know that if you attempt to replicate a sex act to please your partner and you end up falling over the bed or something, it's ok. LOL! BTW, that's happened to one of my ex bf's before! He was so lost in the moment, his brain had probably shut down and the blood supply went to his 2nd brain and he didn't realise how close to the edge of the bed he was. I saw him slipping down slowly, so slow-motion I thought it was some deliberate acrobatic act. But at the very last minute, just before tilting from the edge, I realised it wasn't a graceful stunt but he was really falling off the bed! LOL!!! Thank God he didn't fracture his neck or back otherwise, the paramedics would be stifling giggles as they carried him out in a stretcher! LOL!!! On the other hand, I've experienced a guy looking at me blankly and kinda expressionless as I played Cowgirl and I remember thinking, "Is his dick so desensitised from masturbation that he feels nothing?" "What is he thinking?" "What am I doing wrong?" "Does he like it? Should I continue?" "Am I too fat? Too Ugly?" "Is my mascara smudging?" etc etc. Hate it when there's no positive or constructive feedback. Moan or groan or talk dirty, or just plaster a Cheshire cat grin on your face or sumthin', y'know!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Faaark does it ever - I love to see how so many women get great benefit from this site - for me it is often a crusher. Am I in the wrong game ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'PurePeony' If you have just had sex with a man who's GIB and who pushes all the right buttons just the way you like it, of course you'd want repeats of that and of course you'd look forward to trying out more stuff in future. BUT... you may or may not see him again because of *insert any of 1,001 reasons*. You think you've got yourself an awesome FWB and you look forward to hooking up "regularly", but you two have different definitions of "regularly" and whilst you think at least once a week, he tells you he's too busy, but then you realise he hadn't been too busy to hook up with a few other women. So, if you choose to continue the FWB relationship, you might get to see him once in 3-4 weeks. Unless he decides to pick just one special FWB to be exclusive with, then you are back to Square One. You meet up with a gorgeous guy and he makes you feel special, respected, treats you nicely, charms the panties off you... And before you enjoy the feel-good hormones way too much, you have to remind yourself that all that is empty and nothing and there's no real love in it. It's just feel-good romance for that moment only, so don't get too caught up in the euphoria. Way too complicated! I prefer a simpler, less complicated, clear-cut life. I hate to have to deal with mirages... Oops... sorry OP for hijacking your thread! That brings out the truth in it, why are we here when the thread seems to point more to monogamy ? Or is it chaos theory proving we are not stable enough to anchor ourselves because of our unconventional selves ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'horneyue' Faaark does it ever - I love to see how so many women get great benefit from this site - for me it is often a crusher. Am I in the wrong game ? That is a brilliant question that quite a few of us would have asked ourselves at some stage! I've given things a fair go, and done things that are out of the ordinary for me just to see how it might feel like and if I might actually end up liking a new lifestyle. I have learnt a lot about myself in the process and am much clearer about what works for me, and what doesn't. Maybe I forgot to join the queue when the ability to separate sex from emotions was being distributed. Haha!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Passionate kissing, gentle first leading up to hard and desperate. Hold my face with both hands or one hand behind my neck while you're teasing me with your tongue. While you're doing this I'm imagining that this is how you will pleasure my pussy. Don't try to have hands everywhere, confusing and sensory overload. All of our senses are used in when having sex. Listen to the sounds I'm making, soft moans of enjoyment, desperate gasps for more. Touch my nipples and clit gently to discover my level of arousal. Look at my face, am I lost in the pleasure with my eyes closed, or, am I enjoying watching you stimulate me with your mouth and tongue. Use positions that allow me to see you entering me with your tongue, fingers, or, cock. Smell and taste my sweat and pussy juices as I become more aroused and desperate for more. Let me suck your fingers after they've been in my pussy, that's massively hot for both of us. Mix it up a bit but don't use all your moves in one session, save something for next time. Communicate what you're feeling, " baby you're sooooo hot" ," I'm sooooo horny right now " etc Let me know when you're cumming so I can enjoy it with your and/or be prepared if you're in my mouth. In regards to anal, take your time preparing me, maybe slipping a finger in whist licking my pussy. Make sure there's plenty of moisture down there, and don't, I repeat, don't just try to shove it in with a single thrust. Try just rubbing the head around first before you gently ease it all of the way in. Be prepared to stop midway if I need you to and continue when I'm ready. Trust me, this will make for a much more enjoyable experience for both of us. Most importantly, don't rush around from one thing to another, allow time for the pleasure to build. Chill out and RELAX, it's supposed to be fun !
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RHP User
10 years ago
What you want, how you want it, and be bold enough to take it......respectfully
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RHP User
10 years ago
You just gave me a beautiful big stiffy !
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RHP User
10 years ago
One woman's bite me now,another's don't touch me there..Bite me,nibble me on my neck.but in particular on my spine,bite me quite sharply,the pleasure pain nerve endings meet in the spine...and then pull my hair 😘xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
If it works on you it will probably work on her too ! (Enjoy)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Women were not born with ESP or have eyes in the back of they're head.If you don't tell them you want them or love them they don't know. The next love making session starts when you finish the current one. Take your time. Ask them what they want and how they want it,They are delicate creatures and will endevour to please you if they feel they are wanted and not used. There is nothing better then your partner going off under/on/in front of you so to please yourself you have to please her.
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