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A Little Piece Of Me

April 08 2013

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Every Intimate experience I have shared with a Woman , whether it be short or long-term , I leave a little piece of me . To open myself up , through Intimacy , I have shared a piece of my Heart with each Woman . I'm not Intimate with a Woman until some connection has been achieved (whether that takes 24 hours , 2 weeks or whatever) . To stick to the path of my current self-professed Journey , I don't want a new Relationship but I Love & Respect every Woman I am Intimate with . I can't just forget someone I've been Intimate with . If they're nothing more , they are my Sister . I care about what happens to them , in their lives . The thing is : how many Women can I give a piece of my Heart to ? How can I remain Ambivalent ? GG♒ - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    what piece of you I want   TR pervert

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Sounds like you're giving it to as many as you can right nowlolAre you concerned you're becoming less...... intimate?!DG

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Totally   And Ive mulled this dilemma over ALOT...and in all honesty I do not have a suitable answer for you except this   Who wants to be ambivalent? - we are who we are .....and we feel what we feel.   I look at others and they may seem to have it all figured out but they dont..scratch the surface..few are really that happy - Im much happier giving some of myself than nothing..Im ok with what I give..............what I receive back is a completely different issue..and another forum topic...   I think all we can do to survive "giving pieces of our heart away" is be much more selective about who we are intimate with to begin with...god knows Ive made some msitakes on this level and you probably have too OP....that those who deserve, not lets say appreciate "pieces of our heart" are questionable...   but Im ok with that too..as these people become our greatest teachers...   So for me.....at this present time...Im on a sabbatical from intimacy...and Im ok with that....when the time is rite...I will embraceit again..my heart/head is currently on a sail boat.....bound for Ithaca and beyond...........Im in a good placeand I have other htings happening in my life that is filling this place in my heart at present....   OP dont sell out on yourself..always as Shakespeare said..be true to yourself.......please dont harden your heart...dont be another cliche ...just be you...:)

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Perhaps there are no rules :) Do what feels right in the moment - give what you can of yourself, and be open to feeling more if more feelings arise. What will be will be xxx

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I understand what you are saying...same goes for me...I question that daily...I can't just be with just anyone nor have had accidental sex, falling onto a penis- sorry just can't do.....Every person I've ever been intimate with is very special in my eyes....Each and everyone has always meant something meaningful to me..I've lernt so much when I reflect back...so when I say I "Like" someone it does not mean I want a full on relationship with them- it simply means "You're a very Special person to me"....Just be you OP- if this is who you are and it makes you happy.-don't change a thing..cause..well, I like it!! FOXY

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Mr.Green,is that love is not a bucket but an ocean.You wont run out no matter how much you give away.I have had totally meaningless relationships that lasted for years,and incredibly meaningful ones that lasted for just a few hours.

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya77' Mr.Green,is that love is not a bucket but an ocean.You wont run out no matter how much you give away.I have had totally meaningless relationships that lasted for years,and incredibly meaningful ones that lasted for just a few hours.   Let alone a meaningful relationship   Another perth guy, just said no to a threesome he had to go to footy training...I think a piece of my brain went with him for getting snared in the cyber flirts....I mean I cant give it away at the moment not even the pink pieces   yes I am shallow , after all the very lovely posts   shame on me   TR on an accidental sexual sabbitcal

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'tuscanred' Quoting 'Freya77' Mr.Green,is that love is not a bucket but an ocean.You wont run out no matter how much you give away.I have had totally meaningless relationships that lasted for years,and incredibly meaningful ones that lasted for just a few hours.   Let alone a meaningful relationship   Another perth guy, just said no to a threesome he had to go to footy training...I think a piece of my brain went with him for getting snared in the cyber flirts....I mean I cant give it away at the moment not even the pink pieces   yes I am shallow , after all the very lovely posts   shame on me   TR on an accidental sexual sabbitcal Quite the giggle TR :)

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I believe the more you give of yourself ...... the more there is to give to another. Its when we have that unconnected unemotional sex that we loose the ability to give others a piece of our hearts

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Mister GreenThe posts above have some good suggestions. You sound like a good person and from what you say, you don't do casual. I do not recommend you to try being the ambivalent guy. For one, it will be difficult as it goes against your nature and for another, you won't like what you will become. It seems like you respect the people you are intimate with. That is always a good thing. So, yes, part of your heart goes with them, but as Freya said. It is an ocean. You give yourself and instead of a hole, you enlarge your capacity to feel and to love (ok, wrong choice of words but it is still some form of love). Will it hurt when it ends, most definitely. The hurt gets swept away by the good memories. Caring for those women is a good thing. However, you have to let go once things end. Be there if they need you but let them be themselves. You can give your heart to as many or as few women as you feel comfortable. You know yourself best so you be the judge.

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I value your opinions . A little piece of my Heart goes out to you all <3 GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I do believe some of these ladies would like a little bit of something ELSE of you..   Whilst the HEART is a very important and GRAND muscle.. And the BRAIN is scintilating addition to the heart.. WHEN these two muscles combine their efforts...   THEY invoke that great love muscle...   You have shown and shared the first two... NOW.. GO FORTH BOY.. and share the third with the girls!!!! And do not forget to leave a little of yourself with them .. An escence for them to savour!!

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    How does that get replaced??? FOXY

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Dam mobile comes up with some ridiculous words...grrrr FOXY

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Some with experiences.Some with thought.For some, just wider.. ~laughs~Umm.. Sorry, but you get my drift. So each day there is new stuff to give away.. You'll never run out.Maybe if you don't give little bits of your self away you get out of balance and become emotionally constipated?

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