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A first timers account of Club Fantasy...

September 20 2010

Hey everyone. Just this weekend we had our first swinging experience & our first club experience all rolled into one. We live in WA so after trolling the forums and the club site, we decided to drive 2 hours to visit Club Fantasy in Rockingham for their 1st bday bash. Our expectations were shaped from reading and talking to people on the forums, looking at club events through the past weeks & a good dose of excited & wet imagination. After discoving the address through another website (its not listed on here...not sure if that is perhaps deliberate?) We arrived around 9.00. We were expecting a shed but must admit that the exterior is a little dissapointing. It looked a little junky from the outside, but once inside it became a apparent that it was excess stuff moved out the way for the evening. Loved the rope light spelling Club Fantasy out side, which was covered in hessian, so that while very obvious at night...completely not there during daylight. Walking through into the reception we were greeted by smiling, informative door girls. They were friendly and helpful and had a very cute pet on a leash. We were told house rules and then ushered through to the lockers. The next room sold an assortment of corsets, outfits & toys for the un prepared. I had meant to go back and explore this treasure trove but got distracted.... There was an assortment of dress standards, though most people were dressed up in sexy club ware. First timersn wear what your comfortable in...I went usual sexy pub wear but the usual taste rules dont apply here. You can go pretty short with your skirts & pretty low with your tops regardless of age! Yay! Off to buy a micro mini for my next excursion! There is the bar and a huge dance floor. Off to the left , kind of fenced off for privacy, you can play pool, sit & chat at cafe style tables or have a sauna. I wont go into more detail other than to say that there were lots of rooms and viewing platforms. You will have to go along & see for yourself! A smokers patio & a bon fire out side. From forums we had expected the place to be pumping, we arrived at 9.00 but i had been advised that most people turn up at opening time. While it was starting to get busy I think alot of these people were regulars and friends who come early to catch up & chat. In fact our first impression was that we had walked into a private BBQ or work party. We both agreed that arrranging to meet someone here would have felt a bit more joined in. We talked and decided that we would stay another couple of hours and see how we went. I had a couple of my drinks and did a bit of dancing. The DJ (which was for the bday celebration) was playing awesome dance music...It was just a little loud. It was hard to strike up casual conversation when you have to shout in their ear to be heard & repeat it 3 times. We had noticed that people seemed to be spending more time else where...it wasnt the rooms either at this stage, though they did get a work out later on. Surely they cant all be smokers?! So onto my 3rd drink and braved against the cold we shuffled outside to find out that about half the crowd was out here to talk & there was a bonfire. Well this is when the night kicked off for us. We were able to chat & flirt without yelling. We met some lovely people and had a fantastic time. The security were a really obvious presence. They did rounds regularly checking all areas to make sure people were safe & following rules. Having been there now with my partner, I would have no qualms going back by myself. I felt very safe. Most patrons being gentlemen. There was the token drunk single man who had been brought by a friend...yes he had a partner but they were having problems so thats why he is here spiel...Im not sure going to a swingers party for therapy would cut it with me if I was his Mrs waiting at home lol. There was the lovely lady who kept dissapearing from the dance floor, only to reappear moments later missing another item of clothing...I think she charmingly, was very nearly naked by the end of the evening. There were shy couples and friendly ones, loud ones & naked ones. But we felt very welcome. So to sum up its not polished and dont go there expecting a night club style venue. Its not. What it is is a safe and secure venue run by some fabulous people. Clean sheets & other swingers made it an awesome night for us! We would certainly consider meeting new friends there or even go just for a night on the town. Definatly worth a look in! Now like any night out...it was the people who can make or break an evening. But we had a fantastic time dancing, drinking and flirting and while we hadnt gone expecting anything to happen. I do think we were both hoping the right situation would present itself. I would say for any newbies...go with the flow. The first time is daunting and we had agreed that we wouldnt do the asking this night...we would deal with that another night if no one approached us...We did meet another couple who were open and honest. We didnt sit down and disscuss rules like a job interveiw but they came up regularly in the conversation so we all knew the limits & expectaions of the others. We had gone to the semi private area to play...kinda liked the idea of watchers. But decided to move it to a room when a single guy sat down & settled himself back to enjoy the show. It was a bit too in our face for a first time. So we moved it to a bedroom and shut the door. Only to look up during one of our breathers and discover that he had let himself inside and was wanking in the corner. Now Ill be honest I found it rude that he had entered a closed door. But we were in the moment so we let him stay to watch. I think if we had asked him to leave then he would have. But since we had now aknowleged him he started to move closer and add imput & want to touch. Which was not what we had agreed too. He was persistant but not threatening. At any time we could have called the security to remove him...but he really did kill the mood, so we called it a night. We then exchanged numbers with our new friends and went our seperate ways. Both Mr H & I agree that so far we LOVE swinging and it has made us closer. We cant wait for our next swinging good time!

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RHP User

15 years ago

That is great to hear guys, it is really wonderful that you guys took the time to write down what your experience was like at a club. If everyone did that , patrons would know more about the lifestyle and what to encounter when they attend a club. Great informative insight and i am sure Club Fantasy appreciate the time it took you to write down what happened and your experience. I thank you on behalf of all club owners for you taking the time to write down good things about a venue. Bryan and Leesa and John Couples International

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RHP User

15 years ago

Thanks for the most informative review of your time out at Club Fantasy , I have not been there yet, but would be interested in going in the future so welcomed your input.

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Innercircle

15 years ago

We recently also visited Club Fantasy for the first time. We really enjoyed ourselves, and the venue was nicer than we imagined. We will attend again for sure.Our only complaint is also the music volume. Hey, we are "Rockercouple", and we LOVE loud music, but it was just a bit too loud. Really hard to talk to people (yes, we could have gone to a quieter section, without the vibe of the main floor) and we kinda just nodded 'yeah yeah' to people because we couldnt hear what they were saying.But, the music was only a TINY TINY problem in a fantastic venue.

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RHP User

15 years ago

lolz.. thanks for the detailed review... It was as if I was there! Where do those dudes come from? You know.. the ones who find their way through closed doors? It always amazes me... some of them are like the butler on Mr Deeds... sneaky, sneaky! haha... you have to laugh. And DJ dudes... they're there to do a job and damn it.. everyone better bloody well pay attention at all the clever stuff they do like queing and song selection, n ... stuff... so I'll just turn it up a bit so that the people outside at the bonfire can hear it. :p Hilarious. Hugs Stalky

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RHP User

15 years ago

The only thing i need to say is. If someone opens a door, as you said the mood was killed anyhow...they must be reported....and evicted. They will do it to others, they should not ever be allowed to come back. Very big breach of rule and one that needed to be addressed and not fogged off.

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RHP User

15 years ago

Mrand Mrs H.. That' my friends was the best description of a what happens iinside a swingers club you could ever ask for. We have read many posts from couples and others who gave a fleeting glimpes of what to expect but never from first timers like yourselves.. This was a valued post because there are so many of us just like yourselves who wonder but never venture because of the unknown.. As for the wanker who invited himself in' Im just glad you continued on and enjoyed yourself... it was your moment' but I understand it would have been better not having to worry about him.. You know what to do next time ...... Mr JJ

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RHP User

15 years ago

Our first time to go to a swinger club was at CI and we had the best time and really enjoyed it Thanks to leesa, Bryan, John and also Louise.. At first was very nervous of going to one has been told alot of story about swinger clubs but after talking to alot of different ppl who's been to one and chating to CI we felt very comfie. We would recommened CI to anyone anytime and looking forward to going again..

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RHP User

15 years ago

thanks for the story on your 1st club :) alot of that sounds familiar...sadly the loud music spoils lots of gatherings...being shy i just give up and dont talk . And the monkey spanker in the corner we have had too...lol we always ask, do you want some help, is it ok for us to watch etc.. again most single guys are great, polite,friendly and have the social skills NOT to just sit 2" away from you and stare...zzzzz Neo

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RHP User

15 years ago

Hey Im so glad everyone found this valuable...was worried you would think I was an egotistical sprouter...lol. But when we were new we wanted more details...so this is what i tried to share without ruining the suprise of a new experience. Brought a denim micro mini today....will have to post photos in a few week ..and cant wait to go there again! Im going to keep track of this post, so if anyone else has reveiws to share or first timers experience...please do! Im interested if no one else is! LUST to all! Mrs H xxx

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RHP User

15 years ago

does club fantasy have an outdoor pool and is it open during the day for nudist or topless bathing and sunbaking?

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RHP User

15 years ago

I dont think so...I think a place called Delta might tho???

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RHP User

15 years ago

Glad you met a nice easy going couple!

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RHP User

15 years ago

Yes we were very lucky! Cant wait to see them both again!

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RHP User

15 years ago

It's the specific details like what to wear that are the hardest to find out. The 'what happens when you first walk in' and what will is REALLY be like vibes that are so intimidating the first time.

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RHP User

15 years ago

Because of your review I think I would love to go here... How can I find the address & register my interest

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RHP User

15 years ago

hi as the owners of CLUB FANTASY we would like to thank you mrandmrsH for you kind words i am sorry that you couldnt find the address on here it is usually on the events i really wished you had of come and talk to us about your visitor into your room :) if it ever happens again please dont hesitate and im glad you had a great night and we hope to see you again soon JAYEMPERTH - no sorry we are not open during the day due to council regulations we are only allowed to open fri sat and sun nights but we have not ventured into the sunday sessions as yet we would love to have a spa or pool but due to wa health regulations we are still working on that one i would love to see everyone come down atleast once and check out the place and then they can make up there own minds about the place as to whether it is their scene or notas for the music sorry we cant please everyone we had ppl asking for it to be turned up and turned down usually the music is not that loud and you can hear yourself speak :) so from the management of CLUB FANTASY we hope to see more ppl down here to support our club :)

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RHP User

15 years ago

Hey Wozza_n_biatch We had an awesome time! The last part of my post was more in the way of sharing our experience with other newbies...NOT a reproach...it wasnt your fault we had a monkey spanker (lol Neo&Trinity Mr H has been using that saying all week...took a liking to it...lol) Femalebicurious if you go to the Events tab at the top & look under perth swingers events...club fantasy will turn up...either they or TTNP will host a party every few weeks. :D Mrs H xx

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RHP User

15 years ago

So The Club is not open all weekends only for special events is that correct... As I would love to visit

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Innercircle

15 years ago

Quoting 'wozza_n_biatch' as for the music sorry we cant please everyone we had ppl asking for it to be turned up and turned down usually the music is not that loud and you can hear yourself speak :) Just you wait... next time if we visit and it's more our type of music (rock and roll, baby!), and the volume hasn't changed, we'll be complaining it aint LOUD enough!! :)

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RHP User

15 years ago

club is open every friday and saturday night hun from 8pm till late

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