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A lot of work
January 24 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
When we ventured into the S world, we were a little naive and slightly blinded, as we thought it would be a walk in the park meeting up with couples at the clubs and parties and enjoying a fun night out where all four had an attraction to play. Weren't we totally wrong! We're happy enough to take our time to find quality over quantity and form long term friendships with people we enjoy meeting up with and playing with when we get together. It is a lot of persistence really, but as they say, persistence pays in the end. Enjoy your journey guys!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
There are a few of us but with such a plethora of single males maybe we aren't all that interested in a couple, or the male half of a couple. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You guys a hot young in great shape sexy couple :) have you set your sights 2 high ? I feel it's sorta like real life some people work hard and seem to get not far while others appear to land on the feet every time ? I can only say is don't have any expectations what so ever don't over hunt as you will find what you are looking for before you realise it ;),, If you think it's hard being a hot couple you should try from a middle age single males side :/
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Port Macquarie is a grey place for a travelling away from Sydney for a dirty weekend, so far as Sydney people are concerned. I think you're well placed, so don't be discouraged. Finding the right couples is fickle at the best of times, even in Sydney, so give it time. People tend to be fairly secretive about their activities, so there is likely to be a swinging set in Port itself that you have never met, and for that matter, might not wish to ever again, if you do. I mean, Parties and so on are likely to already occur there, perhaps through other resources. As for your unicorn, I know there's one there in Port. There has to be, but discretion is a wicked bitch. Again, I think you're better off, with Port being a small country town and all, better off searching further afield... you know... Coffs, Newcastle etc. and giving it time. HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Warning69', If you think it's hard being a hot couple you should try from a middle age single males side :/ Hmm Im starting to think that myself
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rupamohan
12 years ago
Your location does play important role. Keep fine tunning your profile but keeping it very short and using advance filtering may save some efforts. How do you define lot? It is subjective? based on your estimate of how many matching people will be around? Update your estimate. Re-check you data source. We do lots of advance search to generate statistics. We have very good estimate of how many REAL and most importantly currently ACTIVE people who match us are in our area. Rupa(f) I like people who can quote statistics...we have extensive statistics regarding diversity among RHP members. Let me give you a simple hint..140 messages without bothering to read your profile...and then there are members who have time and interest to read forums. Do you think these two lots belong to same category? Another hint if you plan to post very serious topics..read any serious thread where replies go above 50...check the pattern of replies you will see the quality of reply change after the earily bird regulars have settled and beyond 50 it generally degenrates to fun and all sort of deviations..read the profiles of some users who have replied to you...see if they match enough with you to understand you.. Just post 2 to 3 serious topics and that will be enough for you to see sub categories even forum users... Once you have better idea where to find what you are looking for at forums / outside forums/ clubs or everywhere...you may be able to fine tune your efforts and meet quantity + quality objectives. The two terms have never been mutually exclusive for us. Enjoy!!! A long weekend and that is all time I have for forum..back to play...bye bye
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'rupamohan' Your location does play important role. Keep fine tunning your profile but keeping it very short and using advance filtering may save some efforts. How do you define lot? It is subjective? based on your estimate of how many matching people will be around? Update your estimate. Re-check you data source. We do lots of advance search to generate statistics. We have very good estimate of how many REAL and most importantly currently ACTIVE people who match us are in our area. Rupa(f) I like people who can quote statistics...we have extensive statistics regarding diversity among RHP members. Let me give you a simple hint..140 messages without bothering to read your profile...and then there are members who have time and interest to read forums. Do you think these two lots belong to same category? Another hint if you plan to post very serious topics..read any serious thread where replies go above 50...check the pattern of replies you will see the quality of reply change after the earily bird regulars have settled and beyond 50 it generally degenrates to fun and all sort of deviations..read the profiles of some users who have replied to you...see if they match enough with you to understand you.. Just post 2 to 3 serious topics and that will be enough for you to see sub categories even forum users... Once you have better idea where to find what you are looking for at forums / outside forums/ clubs or everywhere...you may be able to fine tune your efforts and meet quantity + quality objectives. The two terms have never been mutually exclusive for us. Enjoy!!! A long weekend and that is all time I have for forum..back to play...bye bye I need a Bex and I lie down ....
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RHP User
12 years ago
along with a cold towel to sooth her throbbing temples. You'll be better soon muh dear. And they claim the cold war is over, talk about covert operations,,, lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Living regionally does have issues with potential playmates. They are literally few and far between. People contact us from hundreds of Kms away with the idea of meeting for coffee to see if we click. As if that's going to happen with the price of fuel. You'll have the same issues with "small town thinking" where everyone knows everyone (or thinks they do). Online is the same odds as winning Tatts and you need to expand your view outside the net to be successful. Try Meet & Greets, try well known parties and have a view to contact people outside the internet. You'll find real people you meet are also on the internet, but as you now know, few and far between. Be prepared to travel to a party or gathering in the early times, as it will not come to you and fall in your lap. Cheers
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Traum246' Living regionally does have issues with potential playmates. They are literally few and far between. People contact us from hundreds of Kms away with the idea of meeting for coffee to see if we click. As if that's going to happen with the price of fuel. You'll have the same issues with "small town thinking" where everyone knows everyone (or thinks they do). Online is the same odds as winning Tatts and you need to expand your view outside the net to be successful. Try Meet & Greets, try well known parties and have a view to contact people outside the internet. You'll find real people you meet are also on the internet, but as you now know, few and far between. Be prepared to travel to a party or gathering in the early times, as it will not come to you and fall in your lap. Cheers Thanks for the great advice. Now I'm wondering where to find the local meet and greats but thats almost another forum topic haha! :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'twentyfourteen' snip "where to find the local meet and greats but thats almost another forum topic haha! :-) " Set up your own meet and greet, if nobody shows at least you get out for a coffee or a drink. Cheers
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thank you rupamahon lol..... Seriously no wonder I was shot down so often :{
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madotara69
12 years ago
Same early birds, settle down feasting with them. Same early birds get up to some naughty shit, we know that. Statistically speaking, we can send ourselves flirts. It's a lifestyle guy's, early days. The forums put you right in the thick of things. Or you could take the gamble and waste all that time to statistics. There is real people all with the same interests from all over the place posting here. Active? So that is the excuse. Must remember "sorry we are not activated today good luck" Rupa, please excuse the ignorance, though not once have we seen you post something to people being anything other than numbers, even then they need to be in peak physical condition, you have no time for the forums, but to express your figures and mock the real people. Are you the real thing or a figment to our imagination. Only see a computer graph, hard to see a person? Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
You gave me an over whelming flash back to "dexter" the robot from perfect match who also had a love of doling out b percentages as well. I bet most people had a friend way back then that actually went on that show. ..I had two bwah ha ha..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Saturn65'Snip "You gave me an over whelming flash back to "dexter" the robot from perfect match" We have Greg Evans local here (he's always on the tele doing ads) ,,,, wonder if Dexter is in his back orfice. Always anal with numbers was the lad, but stats hardly worked on that show
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RHP User
12 years ago
Keep your standards and stay patient - it pays off :)
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