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A question for our Couples Looking for Another MMF experience?

September 22 2017

I am a very curious girl who likes to understand people and how they think so forgive me if I may upset anyone here which is not what I want to do.. We want to understand other couples by asking you why you want another Male in the Bedroom?Is there something missing in your own relationship or is it that you both want to explore your own sexual individual kinks? My husband and I are also looking but, I wonder why we do this? Our chemistry with each other is wild so why do we even are thinking the same thing? Is it because we or "yourselves" are thirsty for discovering something a little more sexual or is it stimulating conversation and experiences that we are all yearning for? There is something we are aware of within ourselves and that is.. sexual empowerment of understanding our own individual kinks, desires, lustful thoughts of what we can get up to together as a couple, perhaps it's more about meeting another with the same similar personality like us? We have these sexual moments when we get down and dirty where it blows our minds and we just want to explore more with each other because it's no fun singularly to be perfectly honest don't ya think? Perhaps we both are dreamers. I really don't know but, we definitely are not boring lol So, what do you as a couple get out of exploring your sexual deviant experiences with each other?Is it like above what I have stated or do you both think differently to us? Love to understand other couples thoughts and desires and lustful naughtiness that you both may have deep inside your deviate minds :)

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DynamicCouple36

8 years ago

We have had several MFM 3 somes over the past 4 years . Several with the same guy in 2013, a few in 2014 & 2015, and three in 2017. But then we have also had several MFMF 4 somes and MFM / FFM . So what do we like about a MFM ? Firstly it is quite a turn on and very arousing/pleasurable, for Mr D to see Mrs D being given pleasure from another person (male or female). This aspect of pleasure is called "Compersion". Being on the receiving end of 2 sets/pairs of hands, 2 tongues and 2 penises (during a MFM) can obviously deliver a lot more pleasure, and variations of pleasure, than one person alone. There are just so many more positions & zones that one can stimulate and explore. It's also a huge turn on for Mrs D to tease and flirt with 2 guys at the same time - and to see how aroused she can make them. All part of a fantasy. In a FMF , Mrs D gets pleasure (and becomes aroused) by watching Mr D being pleasured by another woman / given pleasure to another woman. The same in a MFMF. We don't do this because we feel there is something missing in our relationship. After 21 years together, of which 20 have been married, we are very stable in our relationship and know what we want . we don't feel that we are missing anything or that anything is missing. Swinging and or swapping partners and or inviting a 3rd into a bed with us, is visually very appealing - and erotic - much as the scenes in some well directed, couples friendly porn. So for us this is just something that arouses and excites us. Another aspect, of all of this, that excites us, is that it's taboo. It's naughty. It's almost like the forbidden fruit. Our little secret !!

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RHP User

8 years ago

Quoting 'DynamicCouple36' Thank you for your input that was very interesting side of how couples see things... very taboo I get that wow, excellent response :) We have had several MFM 3 somes over the past 4 years . Several with the same guy in 2013, a few in 2014 & 2015, and three in 2017. But then we have also had several MFMF 4 somes and MFM / FFM . So what do we like about a MFM ? Firstly it is quite a turn on and very arousing/pleasurable, for Mr D to see Mrs D being given pleasure from another person (male or female). This aspect of pleasure is called "Compersion". Being on the receiving end of 2 sets/pairs of hands, 2 tongues and 2 penises (during a MFM) can obviously deliver a lot more pleasure, and variations of pleasure, than one person alone. There are just so many more positions & zones that one can stimulate and explore. It's also a huge turn on for Mrs D to tease and flirt with 2 guys at the same time - and to see how aroused she can make them. All part of a fantasy. In a FMF , Mrs D gets pleasure (and becomes aroused) by watching Mr D being pleasured by another woman / given pleasure to another woman. The same in a MFMF. We don't do this because we feel there is something missing in our relationship. After 21 years together, of which 20 have been married, we are very stable in our relationship and know what we want . we don't feel that we are missing anything or that anything is missing. Swinging and or swapping partners and or inviting a 3rd into a bed with us, is visually very appealing - and erotic - much as the scenes in some well directed, couples friendly porn. So for us this is just something that arouses and excites us. Another aspect, of all of this, that excites us, is that it's taboo. It's naughty. It's almost like the forbidden fruit. Our little secret !!

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XBonnieClydeX

8 years ago

Compersion, this simply means that a person gains pleasure from watching and helping their partner experience a raunchy and hopefully fun moment, not many people can understand how that can be satisfying but I know from experience how memorable it can be 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile

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DynamicCouple36

8 years ago

Yep . Compersion - Posted from rhpmobile

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FeistyFatty

8 years ago

If you both mutually want to; shouldn't that be enough? Overanalysis leads to paralysis. Just enjoy the journey together x - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

All this talk of ''compersion'', I had seen that word used on other forums before and thought people were mis-spelling ''compassion''! What a dickhead!

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DynamicCouple36

8 years ago

But perhaps our initial post gave the wrong impression, that we are available & promiscuous. Just to clarify. Since embarking on our swinging adventure in early 2013, the MFM 3somes that we have had (between 2013 and to date) have been with four (4) eligible single men. We have had several with the one (in 2013/14) and one or two with the rest since then. As far as MFMF 4 somes go, we have done full couple swap with 4 couples, and same room sex / foreplay , girl/girl fun with another 2 or 3 couples over the same 4-5 year period. We don't consider ourselves to be promiscuous nor major hard core weekly "players". If the right couple, single male or single female comes along, that has the attributes that we find attractive, we might consider "playing" with them. Generally after we have got to know them a little better. So gents, read through our profile wording carefully, to establish if you possess the attributes & characteristics that we enjoy. Do this BEFORE you contact t us. That way we will start communication on the right foot as it were. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

I noticed or it could be the long weekend and other couples are not responding - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

Dynamic Couple you are both very eloquent in the way you convey requirements beautifully communicated to ensure key requirements are stage-gated before moving towards the next steps. We have found that unless potential males that we look for cannot ascertain their deliverables, we cannot gauge their personality traits that outline key drivers around debauchery, that is a key element in our kink. Good Luck in your search

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DynamicCouple36

8 years ago

Doubletrble :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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