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A question for toy boys
August 27 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
What would I look for in a much older Woman ? A pulse ;) GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am a guy so I speak for all the "MAN"kind and the answer is .. its mainly and usually the looks and the body. However, this only holds true for short-term relationships. For any long-term relationship, however, most men would actually not go after a single thing. It has to be the combination of everything (personality, looks, body, youthful spirit and most important of all how well the two people involved get along physically and mentally). I know a few couples who have more than 10-15 years of age gap in between them but they are together because they got that MADE FOR EACH OTHER feeling when they met.
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RHP User
11 years ago
In my 30's I had a wonderful relationship with an older woman by about 15 years. She was wonderful, even tempered, reliable, undemanding, patient, knowledgeable and sexy as hell ! I think she quite enjoyed customising an almost blank canvas ! I will forever be grateful to her for the life lessons I learned being with her.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am interested in reading the replies here.. might give more onsite in to the multiple messages we ladies receive from many toy boys. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
10-15 years older would make a woman 53-58. In anticipation of the swords and daggers to follow...... women that age just don't do it for me. It is what it is.
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RHP User
11 years ago
There was really no need for you to comment, now was there :) The post doesn't suggest that all men like older women, or that they should. It just asks, of those who do, what would it take to get serious about one. But you knew that already ... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I just make it in DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Your profile says your a Virgo ? So looks like your up for another one 😞
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RHP User
11 years ago
To have a relationship I'd have to look at all the things you mention, but that would be the same for a woman of any age really. If we were just meeting for sex, then the physical side would play a much bigger role in my decision.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yesterday
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well many years ago when i was younger my sister ,she was at the age of 49 yo met a young 23 yo PE teacher they got together and we all thought that was kind of insane union , becouse of the age gap , but today 20 years later they are still together and very married and pretty much together everywhere they go , my sister werent rich , but she was kind, generous with youthful spirit , beautiful ,strong and someone you can trust written all over her face , i guessed thats what he was looking for and found it in her , and 26 years gap means nothing to him...now i saw him getting older himself and my sister still looking good and the age gap not so obvious anymore as before , i always thought my sister were so lucky to have met him after having 6 children and living in unhappy marriage with someone who were super selfish that was her greatest reward , i guess at the end my sister was one very lucky woman, to me if you are connected with someone and happy with each other i dont see why you cant have monogamous serious relationship , why not ?..i mean if you feel good in bed - out of bed when you are together thats all whats matters , not so much the age gap thing it is more about the feeling good factor when together ,compitable with each other , thats my 2 cents .
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Burning_Love' There was really no need for you to comment, now was there :) The post doesn't suggest that all men like older women, or that they should. It just asks, of those who do, what would it take to get serious about one. But you knew that already ... - Posted from rhpmobile The post doesn't requests a response from "fellas".... and yep.... I definitely qualify there. Plus.... Im too big to fit in a box. The comment stands. On with the show.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Take 2 The post requests a response from "fellas".... and yep.... I definitely qualify there. Plus.... Im too big to fit in a box. The comment stands. On with the show.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Best to stick with our own age in case the young stud is sticking his finger down his throat when your back is turned. Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sex yes, relationship not likely. I doubt we would have much in common. same reason I wouldn't want a relationship with an 18 year old. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm 29 and have always been attracted to older women. It's not so much about looks and all that but they are more mature than younger girls. They are a major turn on! Women 39-50 do it for me - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Connection When you have connection with someone, both mentally and physically, and you're both on the same wave length, then age has no bearing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'kalifornia69' Well many years ago when i was younger my sister ,she was at the age of 49 yo met a young 23 yo PE teacher they got together and we all thought that was kind of insane union , becouse of the age gap , but today 20 years later they are still together and very married and pretty much together everywhere they go , my sister werent rich , but she was kind, generous with youthful spirit , beautiful ,strong and someone you can trust written all over her face , i guessed thats what he was looking for and found it in her , and 26 years gap means nothing to him...now i saw him getting older himself and my sister still looking good and the age gap not so obvious anymore as before , i always thought my sister were so lucky to have met him after having 6 children and living in unhappy marriage with someone who were super selfish that was her greatest reward , i guess at the end my sister was one very lucky woman, to me if you are connected with someone and happy with each other i dont see why you cant have monogamous serious relationship , why not ?..i mean if you feel good in bed - out of bed when you are together thats all whats matters , not so much the age gap thing it is more about the feeling good factor when together ,compitable with each other , thats my 2 cents . thanks for sharing such a beautiful story.
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Seachange73
11 years ago
as I have a couple of men I am seeing 5-15 years younger than me. I started my journey in RHP not looking for toy boys (what should be the age difference? one is 37yo) and not wanting to be a cougar. but I was surprised. As one said, it it all about the connection... Just can never tell. But love to hear more from the men. Great post OP.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love the older women, cougars, and love being a toy boy.. It's pretty much what all three gents have said and the reason as Baxman states is they are more mature, this is the reason WHY they are, quoting 50zcool "wonderful, even tempered, reliable, undemanding, patient, knowledgeable.." is because of their maturity. There still obviously has to be physical and mental connection but as Born_ Insomniac stated, its a combination of everything that makes the long term relationships work when there is the age gap. A lot of men go on about wanting the younger girls, 18-24 or so age bracket but honestly.. they might think that they are or would be good to play around with but its not even worth the immaturity that you have to deal with that comes out of there mouths.. please spare me!! For me, youthful spirit obviously comes into it as well (they need to be able to keep up.. ) but I have found that exists in many older woman, I have or find better connections with the mature ladies because of all of these reasons.. and definitely personality! Generally with the older woman, you don't have to put up with the Bulls**t that young immature girls crap on about.. It just does your head in and I'm not willing to put up with their crap.. lol. For me, they need to be able to hold conversation as well.. It comes down to their life experiences which is maturity and makes them so much wiser. Financial security doesn't play into it for me however it is nice having a "suga mamma" who spoils you but it is really more about looks and body, maturity with youthful spirit (and this is definitely possible), physical and mental connections which make each other happy, they have to click like all relationships And Mischeviouslad.. if older women do not do it for you.. then burning_love is right in the sense that, you needn't reply as this does not pertain to you.. only the men who DO like the older woman.. the post requests from fellas that like older woman.. not just fellas in general..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just as 50zcool also stated.. the younger male can also learn a lot from the older woman which is a major point for me too, personally speaking.. I like it when they "show me the ropes" and that's one of my big attractions for the cougars.. Again.. its their experiences.. hehe
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RHP User
11 years ago
I (mrs) don't seem to have the same attraction/appreciation for younger men by the looks. I would prefer a man 34-45 years old and have no desire to play with young men whatsoever. Have respectfully declined many 20 something's because they just don't have the same swagger and confidence as an older man...... To me and only in my opinion lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Id hope that she has got a body that would make younger woman die for.I want to date older woman because the know what they want.
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Cheekyarses
11 years ago
I dont think it is really an age thing - more a connection... Although there are the toy boys out there that love an older woman as they know what they want and are not afraid to ask for it... We have had an influx of younger guys contacting us recently... but seem to think we must have a private jet or ample time to meet and play... Mrs Cheeky would love a few toy boys to help Mr cheeky forfil a fantasy for her
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
I'm an old girl, I'm aging fairly well (like a good bottle of wine really). I haven't dated a man the same age or older than me since I left my ex 16 years ago. I love a younger man (in their 30s), my last long term partner was 8 years younger......Now I think I'm just looking for someone to have that mind, body and soul attraction/connection with, so if I could find that, then age wouldn't be a problem to me. As long as we were happy, we wanted and needed the same things..... Really nothing is guaranteed in life "except from death and taxes, so just enjoy it while you can....💋
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RHP User
11 years ago
A few years ago i was a toy boy to a lady 11 years older she was 34 at the time. She was my friends boss and even though she was a single mum of 2 kids she was very fun loving and liked to go out and what not. I was attracted to her physically and mentally. She had all her ducks in a row so to speak. things progressed and after about 9 months and hypothetical conversations (initiated by her) about if we were going to get serious and have a relationship and later on have kids she had a tight time window. Unfortunately she got cold feet and pulled the plug cause i want to get serious and she wasnt ready. We still talk all the time and we go to dinner every now and again and one thing leads to another but i don't trust her enough to put myself back in that position of vulnerability to get hurt again.
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RHP User
11 years ago
i must say, age for me has never been an issue with who i speak with, hang out with, or venture into the bedroom with while there obviously does need to be a certain level of physical attraction (as that stimulates various areas of the mind naturally), there still has to be the intellectual component someone who seeks adventures, who is connected to the world around them, with a curious hunger i think thats a good start :)
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DOT007
11 years ago
Well i like mature women who have excepted who they are, happy with what they have to offer , Content with there past and have learnt that it has helped shape them into the amazing individual that they are today. So forget about the age thing . Some people just take a bit longer to find themselves . PS good luck everyone finding yourself an someone to share your life with .. Pete
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RHP User
11 years ago
sweetie,I hate to break this news,but a two year age difference does not an older woman make... Now fifty years.. woo hop...now we is talk in':-) xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'bigheart4u'A question for the boys Q, he said mature, not older. I think I'm mature and I'm liking it. Bigheart, what's the question though?
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RHP User
11 years ago
mature...that's different...I will never be mature:-) ...xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting burning_love "Then DG There was really no need for you to comment, now was there :) The post doesn't suggest that all men like older women, or that they should. It just asks, of those who do, what would it take to get serious about one. But you knew that already ..." Just wondering if you'd also level that comment at the women commenting too??? Seems to me you got sucked in by a clearly baited comment :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am mature, I just don't act like it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
D.G,that the sentiment is reciprocated Q
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' Quoting burning_love "Then DG There was really no need for you to comment, now was there :) The post doesn't suggest that all men like older women, or that they should. It just asks, of those who do, what would it take to get serious about one. But you knew that already ..." Just wondering if you'd also level that comment at the women commenting too??? Seems to me you got sucked in by a clearly baited comment :) - Posted from rhpmobile I can count on a couple of fingers the times I've fallen for baiting comments on these forums. And this wasn't one of those times. If I get irritated about anything (which I generally don't), it's usually when people post comments that have nothing to do with the topic at hand. Most of the time I can't be bothered saying anything but occasionally I do - as I did here, as I did on a recent thread where a number of women went nuts and off-topic at a male poster, and as I will again whenever I feel inclined.
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