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A tribute to a Wonderful Man

June 21 2007

Hi everyone I deliberated for a while about whether or not to write this here but figured it was the right thing to do. Some of you may know a Perth man called "TheWiz" I am sad to say that a few days ago he passed away. He was sick for some time but in the end the chemo was too strong. He was a very close friend of mine and we had a strong intimate relationship for a while. I met him on Red Hot Pie so thought it only fitting to use this forum as a tribute to him and how wonderful he was. Wiz was a true gentleman. Many of you have encountered his witty banter and poetry in the chatroom. He was one of those rare beings- a true mix of humour, intellect and magic. I will absolutely treasure the time we had together- it was one of those relationships where you are sure you must have met on another plane somewhere, somehow. I know there are many in here who knew him; Mosch, Insatiable, IrishRebel Whaa, Ana, DodgyLee, etc etc. I am sure that those people will agree he was always ready to lend an ear or offer a joke. Our relationship was quite controversial so was played out alone and in our fantasies. It was in these encounters that time stood still. I apologise for being self indulgent here but I feel he deserves these words and I also feel some people deserve to be told and of course it is also cathartic for me. To those people out there that think this is just a swinging site for hollow empty sex- it can certainly be that but every now and then you just might meet someone truly amazing. RHP people- if possible can u please remove his profile or tell me how to. And finally to Wiz, I will never ever forget you. I did truly love you. Fuck we had a ball! So my wizard, I hope you are out there somewhere smoking a joint in your pointy hat and smiling. One day Racka and Rolla will be reunited. Thankyou for everything. Lots of love, Your faery xxx

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RHP User

19 years ago

My love you have me in tears. I did not know your friend, but I feel so deeply for you. There are no words to say to ease your heart, only know that he rests. ....And in the soft light of evening my love I touched you one final time.... My spirit mourns the loss of yours. I feel the space at my side where once you dwelt. Go gently my heart, into the mists, I will find you. Deepest Sympathy, Viking

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19 years ago

Goldy I don’t know you and I didn’t know your friend, but grief is universal so I stand with you in your sadness...even in cyber space we have good reason to be human. Take care, Poss xxx

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19 years ago

Hi Goldy, I just heard the news and rang you. I am a bit numb at the moment and a little lost for words, how can you put into words a mans heart, the qualities so few of us posses but so many yearn for. while we can no longer have wizza in out physical presence he lives in our hearts for eternity. His snicker of a laugh, his love of the word "cUnt" and "fuck" and his amazing generosity. Wizza was a true soilder of Humanity and will be sorely missed. His light will forever shine in my heart. all my love Whaa xxooo

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RHP User

19 years ago

Hi Goldy, it seems like there is a huge sense of loos and I am just going to pass on any condolences that people cannot send due to membership restrictions. cr8tive sends his love to wizza’s family was just passed on to me. xxooo Whaa

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RHP User

19 years ago

Wiz.. WOW!! There are so many words to describe such a generuous, loving funny and sweet man, and nothing I write here will even come close to an accurate description. You helped me when I was broken inside, held out your hand and lifted me back up to a higher, safer place to be. Made me laugh so hard some days I would cry from joy and made me cranky when it was "time" to look inside of who I was as well. Yet we never did get to meet face to face. Im not sure we were ever supposed too......but THANKYOU for everything. Be free, wherever you are matie.. know that you were, are and always will be The One.. The Only The Wiz!! Hugz and loves... Starsie. (Sara...now in Victoria)

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19 years ago

Wizzer... I’m really lost for words...yet words can’t really describe what an amazing, wonderful man you were in many ppl’s eyes. I will never forget all our chats, which were always full of laughter..no matter what was happening in your life, you always had time for your friends. You my dear wizard had one of the biggest hearts i knew any man to have. One of my biggest memories are the little lymerics you used to write to all those you cared about...i think one of these would be the best way to describe you yourself...the great wiz.. Here is an effort put in by myself and Whaa_pisstttt /Irish_Rebel There was a great man called the wiz who was in the photograpy biz he cursed and he swore cunt, fuck and more.. he is someone we will all dearly mizz We did our best wizzer...lol...it took 2 minds to get close to one of your many great efforts. Rest in peace dear wiz...you’ll be in my heart forever Love Nymphy xxxxxxxx

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RHP User

19 years ago

Thanks for the posting Goldy. I never met the man, but by the messsages here he has touched the hearts of many with his love, charm and personallity.. Goes to show this site is not only about the sex it is also about the freindship and love for others we get , by meeting people we may have never met if not for RHP. DodgeLee was unaware of his passing, I have informed her and she passes on her love and best wishes to all who knew him and she too only had great words of love and praise for the Man. RIP Pete...

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RHP User

19 years ago

to the wiz, Having never met, but share the same disease, may you rest in peace. regards. Leigh

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19 years ago

Hi Goldy.. I dont want to detract from the obvious sorrow you feel by "whoring" your thread so in advance I sincerely apologise... I just wanted to say thank you.. You have been another person to prove that this site doesnt HAVE to be just about the quick one nighter f*ck that alot of people see it as.. I met my b/f from RHP and while I have only known him since New Years if I lost him I would be devestated.. Soulmates dont need time to KNOW each other..only to FIND each other... From the sounds of him I would have loved to have seen him in chat but I unfortunately dont remember coming across him and from what everyone has said I would remember... So lots of love to you and when ever you feel down.. Remember how lucky you were to have met such a wonderful soul... Hugs bundy and sidelz

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RHP User

19 years ago

Hi everyone, Thankyou so much for all the kind words and support. Its interesting that you can feel such kindness from strangers. Goes to show once again that we are all connected by some universal thread. While I am still in shock about the death of The Wiz, I feel truly privileged and honoured to have been a part of his life. The more I see and hear of him the more convinced I am that he was one of those very special beings. I have recently learnt that he was protecting me from knowing how sick he really was as he didnt want to "bring me down". This is yet another example of his selflessness and zest for life and happiness and always searching for the fun side of things. As his best friend told me the other day, "The world has lost one of natures true gentlemen." Wiz, Love you madly.... Goldy xxx

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19 years ago

Wiz.... I am so sad at ur passing , you have no idea ! As I sit here and I write this... tears stream from my face. All I know is that I am at a loss with ur sudden and sad departure ... we became so close , so quickly and u have given me so many funny memories, of which a few spring to mind .... especially the day I flicked on ur cam ( which I always did cause u used to make me laugh so bloody hard ) and u were bloody upside down ... you looked like a bat, I wondered ’what the fuck is he up to now’....lmao ..the hats you wore ( and as u know I tried a few on when I stayed with you at your home in Perth) and the day I accidently called u nate instead of mate and it stuck !!! So , Wiz became Nate, and I became Nosch and Goldy became Noldy ...I knew you loved your kids Ben and Luke and you adored Goldy .... All I can say is that I WAS BLESSED to meet you and know you ... You are and always will be remembered as the most humble , generous and caring man ........ I love u Nate (Wiz) .........from your old friend Nosch ( Mosch) May the angels in Heaven take care of you mate ..bye for now

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