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A womans rights over an ex

August 09 2010

Hey all How is everyone?I have a question for the ladies. A friend of mine came over the other day in a bit of a huffy and so me being me asked what was wrong?She said that her ex, a guy she had seen for only a little while is now seeing someone and so I said as I do what is the problem as she has someone herself? So I didn't get much of an answer but I have sort of put 2 and 2 together and it seems my friend was pissed off and jealous because her ex is now seeing someone and from what I can gather she is pissed off with her ex's new squeeze.So I told her if she broke up with him or they just went their seperate ways as people do then she has no right to be pissed off at either him or his new squeeze ans they have now ended and thats just life. The thing that shit me is my friend now has someone new in my life.So I want peoples opinions on does anyone ever have a right over their ex or is there just a piss off factor on their behalf that the ex may now be happy and can't stand seeing them be happy?PK !!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    farking well said PK !!! I too have been in that situation.... we are all supposed to be adults.... grow up and get on with ya life, if your ex happens to make someone else happy, good on em, especially if they have already moved on also!!no one should give up on a chance of happiness because of someones past, and a good friend would never ask them too!! or else they wouldn't be a good friend

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    If my ex found someone stupid enough to put up with him...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I guess we all react abit different..... i was excited when my ex got a girlfriend ..... Cos to me it signaled that he finallly understood that we were done ... and there was no going back ... (he has someone else to focus on :) ) but i think for somepeople it is an ... "i dont want you , but i dont want anyone else to have you either' ...thing

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You're applying logic to a situation like that when it is a completely illogical emotional response :). (I agree, once it's off all bets are off and both parties are free agents)

  • Bubbaj

    Bubbaj

    15 years ago

    ill probably stuff this up....wat was it....something about having something and cake too?you want everything and anything together :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Or perhaps If I dont want them no-onelse can have them either?? I think it makes people wonder what someone else can see in an ex that they couldn't..or maybe they missed??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Thank God for my ex wifes partner ... If it wasnt for Him she might still be my wife.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    If she still has an interest in his love aspirations... then has she handled the break-up wrong? We've all heard the controversy about No! meaning Yes!!!! The ultimate miscalculation is playing hard to get and then being forgotten. What other perverse reasoning is there? Particularly if his new squeeze says Yes! and means Yes!!!! Why can't some women make up their mind?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'mikle'We none of us own any other person, that they choose to allow us into being part of their lives is the ultimate compliment. Mikle Well said Mikle !! no-one owns anyone, there is commitment to only see each other and no-one else, but it is ultimately each persons choice!Bec

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The thing here is that each and everyone of us is SOMEONES ex, so wtf Life goes on . We are all entitled to be as happy in this life as we possibly can be. Life is hard enough without silly bickering over EX's when you know you cant have them , move on and let them move on also . Love only works if it's a two way thing , that's why some relationships work and some just don't. Good luck to anyone in this situation , I hope the rest of your life is a ball .