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AGE - why is it such an issue for some

June 28 2010

So, you will at some stage click on our profile before, during or after reading this. You will see that there is a mere 19yrs age difference between hubby and I. 'So' is what I hope most of you are asking, and for the last ten years we have said the same and hope to long into the future. Trust me girls, if you are still chasing the young boys that are reading instruction manuals or undoing the wrapping you my friend are missing out. My question however is this............ Why is it that when in chat (with out me) my partner who is one hell of a sexy guy and one of the few non pushy,non sexiest, non judgemental guys in chat, get blocked or abusused based on his age? Yes I agree not all feel it necassary to partake in this treatment or behaviour. But the few that do are driving us away from the chat room, and honestly starting to effect the appeal of chat. I understand that some ppl (females in particular) don't like to be randomly viewed by others, and that is fine, but hey turn your cam off, your in a public forum. It is like walking down the beach in just your panties and expecting no one to look......Please ..........There is no need because you are shy or embarresed at being viewed with your puppies out to start being offensive to others. I think that he has as much right to enjoy the chat room with out me by his side as I do with out him. I would really like to know how other ppl feel about this? Are we over reacting to being called to old for the chat room or are others finding simliar issues???....... I know we are not the only over 25 couple to experience this. At the end of the day, age, size, eye colour, excessive or lack of hair really don't determine who you are or how god damn good you are in bed................ In saying all that I am sure he is going to punish me (woohoo) for posting this, so best you respond and show that this is a topic worth discussion. Mrs2 xxx

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RHP User

15 years ago

but cam chat has absolutely nothing to do with who's good in bed! It's perving on other people who may or may not do what you ask them to do while you get your jollies.I think you're taking it a bit seriously - just block the people who are being twats.

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15 years ago

Boring ....for the kids Get onto the real stuff and meet people and leave the kids to it

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15 years ago

The chat room is used by people as varying forms of social and sexy interactions.All of which most of us know of so wont go into them... I guess the chat room can be seen/taken as a "cold call" to certain people, or as an unwanted message you may recieve from unsuitable peoples coming across your profile.In this case you have time to ignore there message and delete as you see fit, but in chat your only option it seems to some is ignore/block the person.Sometimes as well people dont want to be confronted with a guy wanking on the other end of a cam whilst hes chatting to you. Not saying this is your partner OP.Just a reason as to why there are wary females/cples out there. All i can really say is your partner should not give up in joining the chat room. If he is as you say not confronting and just trying to have a conversation whatever with people, to just keep plugging away at it. He will eventually find a group of like minded souls in there.I doubt its the age thing, Its more then likely just the fact hes a man...

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15 years ago

18 yrs diff between my paients and they have fun and love eachother. i dont c age as an issue. if your being nice to me then i will talk to u. i am 28 and i get abused in chat rooms when i am on cam too. or mean things are said about me. its really pisses me off. if you cant say anything nice dont say anything at allMrs B

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RHP User

15 years ago

We both think you guys are hot and we'd do you both in a heartbeat :) Age is just a number. I read somewhere that a bloke just retired at 95. If the body is willing then what is age?

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15 years ago

voyuerism and exhibitionism are my things :) I also met the love of my life in there, so I'm pretty damned grateful about that! Chat these days is not like it was a year or more ago, I think like anything it goes in cycles, but the personalities are just not as fun at the moment, IMHO. Nevertheless, here are my basic rules of chat: 1) understand that the people in there owe you absolutely nothing - if you don't like how they behave, leave or block them 2) be respectful and decent at all times, regardless of whether other people are or not 3) establish yourself, give people time to know who you are and what you're there for. I have to be honest, people who block others in there for just watching them are being incredibly childish!!! I don't care whether a straight man is blocking other men for watching him, or a woman is blocking men because they don't say hi (or whatever trivial reason a woman might have) - it's ridiculous - they're not in your bedroom ffs people, you have voluntarily gone on cam in a public forum and you take offence when people decide to watch you (*rolls eyes, madness I say!) For the record, I almost never block people in there, but if I do it's typically because they are disgustingly rude (IMO) or just talkiing endless mindless drivel - I block them because I want some peace 4) if someone pisses you off, don't be afraid to say so ie take a stand, but don't go on and on about it. 5) remember it's not real - the relationships you have with people in there are basically meaningless - if they move to msn, the phone, face to face, then you find out if it's a real friendship/relationship, but otherwise it's just a sand pit and everyone's playing around 6) have fun, always have fun 7) don't take things personally EVER - you can leave and never come back - it's not worth getting stressed over 8) if you're in there for an ego boost, it's a bit like gambling - you might get it, but you might also get your feelings hurt, to tread with caution just my thoughts lilmiss xxx

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15 years ago

hi guys yes iwe r the same my hubby is 61 n im 40 almost 41 in 4 weeks n i must say we get the same thing u guys get they want me but not hubby coz of his age n i think its wrong we get blocked also....hubby has the shits up coz im playing n he not the girls on here make me sick its not what u look like its wahats inside that counts n believe me my hubby is a nice guy gr8 lover in the bedroom so i say to those ppl out there age shouldnt matter.....he can keep up with me.... i want him 2 play with another girl...they dont know what they r missing the older the better i say ... n share share alike....we have b looking to have fun with a couple...but no luck coz they dont want hubby so what if he is 61 he has a gr8 size cock... rednwetpussy.....

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RHP User

15 years ago

I know what you mean rednwetpussy, there are some women on here totally fixated on age limits. They won't even talk outside a narrow age limit.

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15 years ago

OH thanks guys lilmissfussy, you are spot on in all 8 points.......... couldn't agree more. rednwetpussy, I say the same as you, they don't know what they are missing aliti68, you know when he is home next you are on our 'to-do' list. polar, spouse, saturn and ballin, thank you for your honest feed back.............. feel heaps better now. cheers Mrs2

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RHP User

15 years ago

YAY!!!!!!!!!! I made it on a to-do list. You are both at the top of our To-Do list ;)

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