M39
About the good old rubber.
September 20 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have to admit, I never ejaculate with one on. Never. And do you think I can unwrap the stupid things? Not a chance. My hands always dripping wet with pussy juice and lube and wotever... so I have to try and bight the wrapper open.. there I am spitting bits of foil all over the place... trying not to lose my erection.. hehe... fingers slipping all over... then you get the mongrel johnny out, finally.... after much swearing ... slip it on the big fella... and feel nothing. What find of hell sex is that! hehe. I don't use one with my regular partner. I always use one with everybody else.... (well nearly always, I mean sometimes I fuck up). I never use one for oral sex. Ive had a vasectomy. The only reason I use them is to prevent the potential spread of STD's through penetrative inrtercourse. I'm with you on this one mate... if you invent an alternative, let me know. Cheers Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Picture Man. Have you seen a brand named MANIX? The condoms some in disk shaped containers that have a peel back seal on them, they are a lot easier & quicker to undo than the bite me, tear me ones. I have only see & purchased 2 different types in the range King size & Intense both come in a pack of 10 at around $8.20. You might find them at Ritchies or Foodworks supermarkets. Worth a try for convenience & easy use but I don't think they offer the "a la natural feel" nothing beats bare back, flesh on flesh! Ooh Cheers, Shell
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RHP User
16 years ago
Unfortunately, in the world we live in today, condoms are a neccessity, not a choice! For the safety of our partners and our own! Men sort of need to step up to the plate here I think....and hey...girls don't love them either... we're losing out on a lot of fantastic sensations too lol The girls have discussed this topic in our own little corner of the forums, recently in fact, about how many guys don't want to wear them. Here is just one reply...to give you an idea: "As they say, "it's the guys with the dirty dicks who don't want to wear condoms..." And remember girls, you're much more likely to catch something than he is. Unfair I know, but the receptive partner is the one most likely to catch the disease... " See, this is why, if I was a guy, I'd also really worry about a girl that doesn't mind you not using one. If she doesn't care about her safety, then is she going to care about yours?? *I'm not talking about regular partners here. In that case, it's up to you both to decide what the risk is.
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Almost_Ready
16 years ago
As a relative new cummer to this sight & about to embark on my first encounter I have given this subject a lot of thought & I totally agree with Sophie 74, why would anybody risk being exposed to std's.. Reminds me of that ad "your not just sleeping with one person but all of the partners that that person has had" sounds like fun if it wasnt so serious.. On a different subject, LOVE reading your posts guys (Gazza, Sophie & gang) No warm hugz just a warm handshake ( ouuw sticky)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yep agreed they are not the most fun and Mr Pup won't often orgasm with one on either. Between Pups we don't use them and when playing I'm very much ok with focusing on other things than penetration of the other girl, although we both do enjoy the voyeuristic part of watching and being watched. Hints - we all know the super thin ones which are ok, I've also found that using jumbo ones gives a better feeling...I'm in no means a jumbo man but they fit well without being loose but do give a bit more freedom or something and the feeling is so much better.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Q. What do you call 365 condoms rolled into 1?A. A Good Year
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeah I totally sympathise with the ladies on this one - you are way more susceptible to the nastiness that biology has invented. In this case there is a massive line between pleasure and pain, clearly the benefits of safe sex sometimes necessitate the sacrifice. Guess I can't ignore the statistics and obvious responsibilities. To add, have ladies had problems with men using them in the past? I guess my greatest fear with an encounter on here is that by using a condom I'd go flaccid and feel like shit, more importantly, make her feel bad too..I appreciate the tips and advice and love reading the points of view, keepem coming PHOTOman
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RHP User
16 years ago
It is purely co-incidental that I recently moved to the region in which the following article appeared....... AN EXPLOSIVE rise in the number of cases of sexually transmitted diseases across southern Sydney has prompted health authorities to issue warnings about the dangers facing an increasingly complacent public. According to NSW Health's Communicable Diseases Branch, gonorrhoea notifications among heterosexual women aged 16 to 25 in the South Eastern Sydney Illawarra region have increased by 25.5 per cent since 2000, and chlamydia notifications have increased fourfold from 338 cases in 2000 to 1370 in 2008. These increases are due in part to more testing, however they also indicate increased numbers of infections, authorities say. Dr Josephine Lusk from the Short Street Clinic at St George Hospital attributed the rise to a ``degree of relaxation'' in sexual practices in the past few years, particularly in the heterosexual community. "It's often people who don't identify with higher-risk groups who could be in danger,'' Dr Lusk said. "They might generally be monogamous, but when they separate and change partners there's no thought about getting tested.'' Dr Lusk said while young people tend to be quite aware of the dangers of unsafe sex, people in their 30s or 40s who have come out of long term relationships are increasingly appearing in the higher infection rates. "You don't have to be promiscuous to be at risk,'' Dr Lusk said. "Plus, you don't necessarily have to have to have the symptoms of chlamydia to be a carrier.'' Dr Lusk said sexually transmitted diseases also increased the risk of HIV infection and could affect fertility. She said safe sex and regular testing would help reduce infection rates.
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RHP User
16 years ago
that at least is what we were told by our kids when we used the term 'rubber' when they were still attending school Some days...HugsMrs PPS hehehe: hate 'em but gotta use 'em... the ideal situation would have to be finding playpals for ongoing, exclusive play where everyone has been tested clean
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeah I hate them like every other guy. It can be a mood killer and it can make it awkward. When I was young I thought it would never happen to me and I tried to talk the girls into not wearing one, sad thing is it worked. About a year into my first long term relationship the girl had a pap smear and it came back that she had chlamydia. Her previous boyfriend had cheated on her, but I'd only had blood tests done previously so I couldn't be sure it wasn't me. It led to trust issues and helped end the relationship. I've "tarped up" for casual encounters ever since. Tested in August and I'm clean, so it's working for me.I know of a girl that has HPV (genital warts) and doesn't require the guy to wear a condom,they had an open relationship but she infected her husband - how happy do you think he was? Is the night with her worth the lifetime of coping with genital warts? I say no.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'photograph_you'To add, have ladies had problems with men using them in the past? I guess my greatest fear with an encounter on here is that by using a condom I'd go flaccid and feel like shit, more importantly, make her feel bad too..Nope, this has never been a problem for me... I don't care if over the course of a sex session the guy is not constantly rock hard... I like to watch him masturbate to get hard again, especially if I'm otherwise engaged in sexy times with his girlfriend hehe ;-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
That does perk me up some - I just hope the women on here are as understanding or imaginative to see the positive side of the situation
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RHP User
16 years ago
I always use them - always! And If the person I am with doesn't want to then I reconsider having sex with them. And I must admit I find them a bit of a turn on. Ans i'm with you photograph - I too go soft sometimes and its a fucking pain in the ass!!!!! But I would rather have that than have my cock drop off and never be able to have sex again because of a one off encounter.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Maybe you need to try using the ultra thin rubbers.......
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RHP User
16 years ago
Try the nude condoms....and ive heard that a dab of lube on the INSIDE of the condom before you put it on can help the guy feel a bit more.....and why not get her to put it on?? Make a game of it...have a supply and see if she can put it on with her mouth?? I dont care if a guy goes soft....like Sophie...getting him hard again is just part of the fun!!!I also dont really care if there isnt penetrative intercourse....fingers and mouths and tongues can be just as good (dare i say...sometimes better!!!)Just my opinion...BJxxx
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scrumbo
16 years ago
I would be as like NOT to use a condom as I would to drink bleach! Yeah the notion of not havig to bother is fine but in reality it can cost you your life, and if not youre life, a very embarassing visit to your doctor. Not worth it in my book. I agree with Rover - if its not on its not on!
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