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  playfulminx

  5 years ago

  A few reasons (I dug this up from when I last replied to something like this!) I think there are a few reasons why singles are preferred. Attached guys (regardless of open or closed marriage) just don't have the same freedom really. They essentially do belong to someone else and those added considerations aren't sexy. Say you have a date night with your partner, but if that's the only night I've got free to play, you're simply not going to bail on your wife/partner right? I certainly wouldn't, so I'd understand why a guy would seek out a single FWB over me. Other couples/singles may want a more ongoing and flexible arrangement that might include even going away together which I just don't see attached guys being able to do. I don't know how 'open' your relationship is but I draw the line at my spouse taking off to Bali for a fun sex drenched holiday while I have to hold the fort. On the plus side, your relationship status is stable so you don't get that inevitable text message from a single guy saying they can't play anymore, so for those seeking a more long term arrangement, attached guys could be good. So in short, you're not exactly a hot prospect for most people (sorry!), but you might be someone's perfect cup of tea. It's just gonna be a long game finding them but I know enough attached guys here having fun (just not with me LOL).

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