RHP

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Advice wanted from other single females on this site

July 28 2018

I'm very new to this. Single female, mid-40s, and trying to put myself out there. But I think I'm fairly plain and I'm certainly not going to put lingerie shots of myself up. There seems to be a lot of fairly racy profile photos - do you need to do that? Advice needed on how to proceed. I'm worried that my age and averageness means I'm just making a fool of myself signing up to be on here.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Any photo will do. Put what your compfey with. Just a head shot . You dont have to do anything you dont want to do on here. And being a woman, you are going to get alot of atention - Posted from rhpmobile

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    7 years ago

    Welcome. The best advice I can give is stay true to yourself and stay within your personal boundaries, with everything, not just profile pics. Having said that I would also make time to have fun with it. Maybe dress in something you love , that makes you feel good, get a selfie stick and just play around with photos, angles etc. Take some time to explore you and get pictures that make you feel good and reflect who you are. TBH putting yourself on here will open your world up to all kinds of interactions. Some good, some not. Don’t judge yourself on what others say and make sure you feel emotionally ready to jump in. All the best xx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • curiousgirl35

    curiousgirl35

    7 years ago

    Its always daunting putting yourself out there for fear of rejection etc but you will be so far up someones ally that theyll pinch themselves when they finally see some pics. You have to put yourself out there to get what you want in return though. Good luck! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    And don't be concerned, there are plenty of guys on here who'd love to meet up for a coffee and chat.. Things move on from there. Stay you, and stay in your comfort zone and you will find plenty of interesting people show you attention. Some you'll probably run from and block.... Lol, but then you'll also find some that you just want to spend more and more time with.. And it may be when you arnt even really looking that you find someone truly special. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    While you dont have to post sexy pics of yourself it does help. And like earthqueen said, ensure youre emotionally ready for the roller coaster. Be confident in yourself and you'll feel sexy in yourself.... that's all that matters. Good luck - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Just crop out your face & edit out any tattoos. You don't need to be putting it all on show, but putting a few tastful pictures to your profile words helps people see a potential connection. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MissRedFox

    MissRedFox

    7 years ago

    To attract what I'm looking for If some people look at it and think "too hard" then I've done it right In terms of pics I'm here to meet people so I put as much as I need to help someone determine attraction I often use pics I've taken while dressed up for a night out. I have one face pic without make up and one full body shot I don't have private galleries to weed out the pic collectors - if someone asks me is there's more pics within first few messages the conversation ends there Good luck in your journey you'll have ups and downs and learn along the way my best advice is to always aim to havd a full busy life - have sex because you Want to not because you're trying to fill a void XX - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Be comfortable with what you have to offer. As your journey continues your confidence will grow and with this growth your interactions with others will change as will the type of pics you have. If you look and feel sexy in a pic - clothed or unclothed - then this will transfer over to whomever is viewing it. Don’t compromise your integrity or comfort zone because you look at others pics and feel that’s the norm. You do your norm your way and your sexiness will shine through every single time! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    You’ll do just fine in here Has your joystick found you yet? 🤣 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    If joystick messages you you need to add about 20 years to what he says his age is lol