M64
Am I a grumpy old man?
April 25 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
Do you think it was her intention to tell you she was a hot commodity when she was single? If yes, so what? I talk to people all the time, and I'm sure would feel I'm flirting with them. I'm not sure what that has to do with her boyfriend or why you would think he's not so lucky to have her.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Dunno Steve, I keep coming back to where you approached her, Its not like you were on an arranged meet.Maybe she was trying to deflect you without being to harsh.I think your over egging the whole encounter. Cheers N
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RHP User
12 years ago
It sounds like she could have been bragging a little. Maybe because she had a captive audience and wanted the ego boost, who knows. She'd already let you down gently and there was probably no need to rub salt in with a brag, but people like to talk themselves up. It happens in the forums, in casual chats in coffee shops, pretty much everywhere. You sound a bit miffed but it's probably not worth giving any energy to :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissBishere
12 years ago
probably just to have a coffee at her favourite coffee shop....maybe she was just being friendly having a chat, you know how women do that thing where they talk all the time about everything and anything maybe in some subtle way she was encouraging you to try speed dating...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Your speedy approach,brought back fond memories for her:-) :-) xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
She wasn't available, or wasn't attracted...... something you could probably have learned much earlier in the chat. .... beyond that, why care? You had an enjoyable conversation and paid double for your cup of coffee.I call that living an experience. Theres no more to it than that. DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oops no. I don't do speed dating but maybe I should stop talking to every one and any one when we're all having coffee every morning at the same coffee shop. Steve sometimes coffee is just coffee.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Like I said,no skin off my nose, I enjoyed the chat... Quite entertaining really..Just started wondering what was going on when she told me the dating thing.... Saying yes to everyone just so she can say no? Standing up 10 guys just to make her feel good? Anyways....grump old man signing out !!
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RHP User
12 years ago
...didn't u say u approached her in the coffee shop...so she wasn't "seeking" the ego boost u kinda walked head first into it
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RHP User
12 years ago
Forgot to say thanks to everyone for the up front answers... I'm certainly a person who enjoys meeting new people and hearing their story...I love learning about people,met a guy in the same lace who had the most inspiring story,I was fascinated! I'm not sure why it rang alarm bells with her,maybe I felt sorry for the guys she met and stood up...she was saying how one guy was soooo nervous he was sweating and his voice was quivering....poor bugger,who knows,it's just me I guess....it's a tough world...anyways, maybe I should try this speed dating thing!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't think you are grumpy BTW,just mslightly miffed xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't think you are grumpy BTW,just mslightly miffed xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
You know what? I'd happily chat again if I ever saw her.... Unless there was a very cool 99 year old lady there,then she would be dumped faster than her speed dates!
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RHP User
12 years ago
What was the problem here ?? Did i miss something !!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Poor Ol milfed steve............she played you well! She got a FREE COFFEE. Is FREE, a speedy number?? Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Milfed! Yes please....she was more the "soccer mum" look actually.
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RHP User
12 years ago
As has been mentioned elsewhere.... you've recanted this story a few times now..... she got under your skin... that can happen... but its time to say NEXT
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RHP User
12 years ago
A long black with milk on the side,thanks:-) :-) xx Q
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Seachange73
12 years ago
OP, not sure about the point re. the speed dating but to confirm to her insecure fragile ego that she is still desirable and attractive to the opposite sex. And your move to spontaneous approach her and buy coffee has boosted her ego again. Well take it as it is and move on. Whatever floats her boat. No harm done to you. It was just a coffee and enjoyable hour of conversation. Nothing more. Good luck to you. To happier times!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree. The BF might not of been so lucky if she was just playing with men for her own ego.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Realising you were single she made conversation around that subject......I dont know how speed dating works but she was just probably trying to explain to you how yes you have to ask for if you dont ask you never know..........just as you hd asked her.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I understand where you are coming from, you were engaged in and interesting conversation, no harm in trying to catch up, you were gracious in your defeat. There was no need for her to elaborate, the comment was unnecessary. I tend to agree with you, she was just boosting her ego and in a way she was seeing if she still had it. Some people like playing mind games, some people need to boost their ego it is an insecurity even if she is attractive that makes the need even more as they get older. No need to feel sorry for the others, when they realise what sort of person she is they are better off.
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