M54
Am i invisible.....
March 23 2019
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RHP User
7 years ago
I would say 90% of the messages I receive are timewasters or not real... I think patience and not taking it too seriously... There are some genuine people out there, I promise 😊
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
My suggestion would be get rid of the APP all together, (if you're not happy with it) and log in via web site (like chrome/firefox). There are some amazing people and ladies in Perth. They are there! I know as I have met them. They do have regular social catchups/events. Be patient grasshopper! You do not have to sell yourself to get into the hen house. Just be yourself! IMO your profile does need a little more work in the "in my own words section". What you have written in your original topic would be ok. Just tweak it a bit (but not over the top). Best of luck. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
I see your problem You think in terms of chickens
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RHP User
7 years ago
I truely believe theres only a small percentage of serious poultry on here. The rest of the chickens and roosters are just time wasters and fakes But when it does happen its definitely worth the trouble
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Seachange73
7 years ago
You're terrible, Muriel...😏😄
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
I believe that only 20% of profiles are timewasters/fake . Mind you, of the remaining 80%, only 20% are worth meeting. But I'm talking men. Bunch of flakes/ fuckers . Women......l think maybe only 50% are worth your time. Take away those that are really in it for a LTR, only 10% of female profiles are relevant for an adult lifestyle relationship of openers aka Fwb style.. Good luck
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Openers.....Lol. Take that wherever way you want... But l meant open relationship
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Seachange73
7 years ago
Keep an eye on the Perth meet and greets. In the events or forum announcements. They have a a very active social scene of all states. The best way to meet real people in the lifestyle. Note that the meet and greet events are not play parties. Strictly social and networking opportunities. I've been to a few on my business trips to Perth. They are a great bunch of people and the events are well attended by singles and couples of all persuasions.
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FredAndGinger2
7 years ago
Hi Paul. I'm Fred. I chat to many people and I vet many profiles with our FlirtParties social meetups here in Melbourne. I have a few suggestions for you: You're profile words are great. Clear and simple. Perhaps you could tell us a little more about you. Your bum pic is cheeky, fun and classy. Your face pics could be clearer. Perhaps add a few extra pics dressed up nice like you were on a date. First impressions do matter. Also, your best bet to meet people is the social meet and greet events. All the best
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MnauMnau
7 years ago
Welcome to the club ;) That's the part of the fun. But don't take it personally if you don get a reply. It's the way it is and you can't do nothing about it.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Is fairly common..you are in the pen with all the other roosters.:) Good advice from Foxy and Seachange.Attend Perth meet and greets? great opportunities to meet socialise and network But your profile does need some work.And why not have a profile pic with a smile. Hugs Q
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
Paul The problem that you, and other countless guys on here face, is as follows ... Because of the way that some idiot male profiles message and treat couples / single women on here, so many couples / single women are now very weary and defensive when they receive unsolicited messages from single males. They expect the worst. Males outnumber females on here 100 to one. Due to our experiences, we expect every single male to become disrespectful and aggressive when he does not get his way in here. Sadly so many have an attitude of entitlement. They demand to get some action for the money they have paid to be members on here. It’s not all guys, but it is many. And so we tar them all with the same brush. Often it is safer not to reply to their messages at all, and face a barrage of insults, cock shots and disrespectful behaviour. So perhaps that is why you are having no success in here . The few rotten apples have spoilt it for the good, respectful guys.
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RHP User
7 years ago
If your messages aren’t piquing the interest of the reader you’ll not get their attention.... But I don’t read the messages you send.... Nor am I privy to the profiles with which you select to approach.... So.... The only piece of advice is to lower your expectations and stop using RHP as the only vehicle in which to meet people ...
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RHP User
7 years ago
...are the fakes. Most of the fake profiles are guys and some just another dumbshit with a keyboard. Some dumbshits are under age and have run out of M&Ms and one of the remaining ones might be your ex-girlfriend. Do the math...you're fucked before you even start typing and won't need a condom for that kind of sex. Other than that, it's better than watching cricket which is only very marginally better than watching slugs race. Have a nice day. Don't slip on a slimy snail trail walking in the tall grass. ʗɱ
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
As an example data set only: (Repost from November) "I've just done a full count of all male and female profiles, active within a week, for Victoria, and listed as seeking each other at least (bi or heterosexual). Without posting the full data, there are 7 male profiles to every 1 female profile. (I say profiles, and not people, although fake profiles are generated constantly, they rarely stay active). I don't say singles either, as some are halves of couples etc. Just the basic M profiles to F profiles, 18-90 years (maximum you can search for). Sorry to those 99 years olds on the forum, I missed you. Even if half of the women profiles are men, which is highly doubtful, and many won't even represent a real person either way on both sides, but assuming all male profiles were valid, that would only skew it to a maximum of 14:1. I haven't counted couple profiles as you need to state "seeking x,y or z" etc in the search, and so it gets more complicated to get a reliable figure wthout likely doubling up on too many people. Of course some couple profiles will be men only. This is just a rough guide. But probably, all things considered, about as expected." Of course, it may seem that the ratio is 100:1 based on messages recieved, as men including myself will send out about 20 messages of interest to new people for one positive reply, and men are even more the biggest proportion of paid members to be able to send messages at all. Of course all the profiles that have not been active in a week/month/year etc are not really relevant anymore as to messages being sent out, as with all the auto generated ones. Your humble information servant, CT :P
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RHP User
7 years ago
To continue this topic...i got a wink!!! I thought my christmas had come e early... I messaged her with a thankyou and a polite hi... She replied.....OMG!!! We exchanged the normal small talk.. And she concluded that she wanted to continue the conversation on SnapChat... I replied and confirmed ii had a snapchat profile... Then nothing...no further comunication... Why even send a flirt...but also why ask to join snap chat.. This i sa where i need your advice ladies...
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RHP User
7 years ago
I would definitely flick you a message... please don’t be disheartened.... some people are just weird!
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RHP User
7 years ago
You have too much emotion invested in this, paying for platinum was your first mistake. It's a rough game, I know, but desperation kills your chances here. Rethink your perspective. This is not your blue chip stock portfolio that you put 60% of your wealth into and expect 5% fully franked dividends all the way into retirement. This is your highly speculative investment that you chuck 2% of your wealth at for the dream striking it rich overnight. Get your blue chip portfolio sorted first (real life interactions with tangible people) then come here and enjoy a cheeky punt like a multi-millionaire buying a scratchy ticket. Then you'll probably reap the profits. Just like real life, the rich get richer and the poor get shafted. Such fun.
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Tall74nHard9
7 years ago
for quite some time. It has been my observations that around 90% of the female profiles are fakes.Another 9.8% have no intentions to actually meet.The remaining 0.2% are usually real and genuine, but are either a) not living in the same locality or b) are looking for someone else other than your age group. So your real expectations of meeting up are.... Tall
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RHP User
7 years ago
Paul.... one of two things happened to you 1. You wrote something which raised red flags Or 2. You were catfished I never Snapchat I never kik I only ever get someone’s phone number, either here, or in the real world when approaching and talking to a woman (where catfishing is obviously less of an issue) Why her number? Kik and snap can be an avatar of the deceptive in here, so you need to learn to spot the obvious tells Most importantly...Time is precious, for ‘she’ and I, and I’m just not interested in having message ping pong with people who aren’t sincere and understand that principle. The women I find appealing are also busy, intelligent and value their time (*dont confuse that with being impatient, as most guys in here seem to be) Moreso in non-rhp life, but i apply it here too.....If they’re not willing to share their number, it’s because I haven’t generated sufficient interest..... yet But when I have, talking like real human beings becomes a make-sense proposition.
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
Why do I have an 80s song by Alison Moyet in my head now? :P
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RHP User
7 years ago
When you start conversing with these women, are you referring to poultry as much as you did in your original post? Because that could have something to do with it... I'm kidding. But seriously, some people don't like to chat back and forth for ages, and then may not want to hurt your feelings by saying they're getting bored or not into you anymore. Maybe if you seen too enthusiastic that could scare them too? 🤔 Not really sure, but I've found since being on here, that 90% are all talk, no shows, bullshit artists etc. Don't expect too much and you won't be disappointed. Good luck with your search xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
Maybe change your name as that could have an influence Another incomplete profile Take a pic smiling Yes there are fake profiles on here Guys pretending to be couples and singles You can quickly work them out If it looks to good to be true it is Meet and greets are your best bet to meet people or relook at the above points and how you are messaging perhaps
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RHP User
7 years ago
The name is not for me so wouldn’t message
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TemptingTroubRHP
7 years ago
Your photos are an interesting choice... I’d delete them all and just keep your beach one and your handsome face :) Verify your profile in your settings. Complete all the profile sections/categories. Write something original in the blurb - it looks like an THP template. Because there’s not much originality on the profile, I’d skip right past it. Keep initial messages to RHP, only swap to Kik when comfortable. Only chat and meet verified and validated members. I hope this is helpful X
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