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Am i the only one that struggles to find real people!!
June 22 2019
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jenniecruising
6 years ago
Probably not
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RHP User
6 years ago
No, you're not. I'm sick and tired of striking up conversations with people, arranging to meet and then they ghost or cancel . Latest one this weekend. F*cks me right off. Timewasting twats.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Well your profile pic wouldn’t help
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RHP User
6 years ago
Courtesy and respect are great attributes. Shame some are incapable. Have a great day
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Seachange73
6 years ago
You will struggle to meet people in RHP if you are a single male and have a guest membership. Like said a hundred of times, single males outnumber single females and couples by a large margin. So competition is stiff among single males to get anyone's attention here. Stand out and be different. If you are serious to meet people, take a proactive stance and message and contact them with a respectful interesting message if you may be what they are looking for. So read people's profile. Send a decent message, none of the boring 'how are you' or 'hi'. That's a quick way to make anyone lose interest in you and garner you the 'coveted' block action.😋 Add a couple more pics in your profile and open up your facial pics to your intended. Don't make us ask for it. Lastly be patient. We don't always get around to read all our messages. Wishing you all the best.
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RHP User
6 years ago
"Hi" or "How R U" are non starters. Make your message more than just a one liner and say a little bit about yourself. I am ghosted constantly.....the good guys Ive met make up for the time wasters though.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Koko, maybe I need to move to Perth then lol because I haven't met up with any decent single guys.
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Tall74nHard9
6 years ago
But then again, not too many real people here to start off with. Sure, you'll find heaps of new people coming along on a daily basis, but usually within the first 24hrs, and certainly no more than 48hrs, those profiles have suddenly become "unavailable". You check up in a day or so, and they are still unavailable.I'll let you come to your own conclusions on that. Best way to find 'real' people is to check the forums. See who comes along on a regualr basis. If any appeal and are looking for you, then take your chances. Anyone else, particularly profiles that have no photos and no/little descriptions - give them wide berth. Good luck, with lots of patience, are required. Tall
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RHP User
6 years ago
We are very fortunate here in Perth, there are lots of lovely single men in our RHP social circle. Come over in October when we are having a Meet and Greet Perth Weekender x
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
That real people are avoiding you with a profile pic like that.... Not sure wether you are a version of the blob or an Iranian cross dresser
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EarthQueen
6 years ago
Personally I find it easier to use other platforms where I can show my face without worrying about stigma from my work and go under the radar to get what I would like sexually. It’s easier for me, and I’ve had some great sex this way. Also good regular vanilla dates. Just look for other people who aren’t looking for anything serious on them.
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
We just had s weekend away organised by flirt party’s and met 30 ish real people ,was awesome Mr b
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RHP User
6 years ago
OP are you hiding because you are attached? Having Ask me for your status wont help you either. If you are single maybe change that?
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teamaj2
6 years ago
There is definitely ‘real ‘ people on RHP. It’s important to be patient. We’ve found the wait is definitely worthwhile . Goodluck
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RHP User
6 years ago
Hi babe
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
There are plenty of unreal people on this site. They are out there as I know as I have met them and even written them validations. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
6 years ago
Meeting people online is difficult and frustrating. Meeting people in person lets you know they are physically real. They can still lie though. Some of the whoppers we have heard. I think we met the used car salesman from True Lies once.
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RHP User
6 years ago
By now you should know you are not alone. Look at HappyGoLucky70 being ghosted - why does that happen? Doesnt make any sense. HappyGoLucky70 has met a lot of these un-real people so they must be real, just not who they say they are - and that is a byproduct of what EarthQueen has said as well, that she wants to hide her identity so she doesn't get "judged" Best advice I have is be patient. Build relationships - this isn't tinder - it takes some time.
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Treborandevad
6 years ago
Guessing that by posting In a forum you will have generated interest from members who will view your profile and make an opinion on whether it interests them. So that's a start. Can only agree, that with your photo it is not clearly defined what is being viewed, so it is unlikely to generate an enthusiastic response.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Hi OP Unfortunately there are always “fake” profiles/people on any adult site. Nature of the beast so to say. Mr & I have met some amazing people on here and built friendships ( including sxc plays ) that prove that there are genuine people here. Like others have mentioned, if ur serious about this process, upgrade ur account so ur able to message singles/couples. Also have some decent pics. From what I can on ur profile, ur pics contain a blanket of some sort and a pic of ur crotch 😳none of which are eye catchers. Expand on ur profile with more details also 👍🏻 Good luck.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I agree with 71Camaro regarding fake profiles. I don't know who creates them and why as they serve no purpose. I find that they are a major reason why more men don't upgrade because they get tricked into believing that someone is interested in them when that is simply not the case. In recent weeks, I have had a few women send me flirts and when I try and view their profile, I get a message that says it is unavailable. It's even more difficult for older members to meet people as their options are limited due to the fact that the vast majority of members on this site are aged 35 and under. You're certainly not on your own young guy. All I can say is good luck and keep trying and never abuse a woman because she rejects your advances.
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