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Anal....Just putting it out there ladies.....
May 24 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
"Converted"? Hallelujah!!! Good grief.
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RHP User
12 years ago
But i must say as in taking the piss i can give it but can never take it !! Which is exactly how i feel in the anal department !! So i liked your comments Dr Easeitinm8 , but my question to you is have you been on the other end of your advise into anal ?? And also to be the best you can or maybe just professional or sincere so to speak should a true giver be one that also has taken ?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I haven't and really don't want it ... For the straight guys out there would you like something shoved in that hole ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
In your post: "ladies" means "gentlemen""women" means "men""she" means "he""her" means "him" True or false?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I only let one guy do anal with me. He's the only one I trust to 'go there' and not be embarrassed at the event of any 'accidents'! If all those guys out there want anal, how about you let us bang you with a vibe the same size as a cock. Let's see if you're so gung ho then!
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
It's my tolerance for arssholes I have a problem with. I've met too many in my life...they've taught me the language of Assholian. They put the fucking in "fucking Arssholes" too! Foxy
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madotara69
12 years ago
After about a minute, the last thing Tara wanted was me to be gentle Mado Tara xx
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Hottie1
12 years ago
I agree with 2Easym8, anal is sensational! I love receiving. It is a trust thing though and no one else has been there. Ivanahumpalot - I use my strap-on for hubby and gave him the same treatment with a dildo just for him. Dildo action and hand job simultaneously for him the first time we tried, I think my new name was oh God that night!!!!! ag4mg92 (F of couple)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Big O,I hope you are not referring to a cross between a horse and a donkey:-) xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
The last time i lifted the tail of a Donkey that fucker must have been hung like a horse :-)) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't mind a good pegging now and then.
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RHP User
12 years ago
any woman that wants to bring a vibrator to use on me I say bring it
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RHP User
12 years ago
That 'll larn ya....you is 'sposed ta pin the tail ON,not lift it up...as for anal,noooo hate it xxQ
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RHP User
12 years ago
So.... this is going well so far :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ohhhh yes please!!! Love a good ass fucking 😝
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RHP User
12 years ago
That's a lot of words you wrote there OP, but having read them all in order I'm still not sure what the point is you're trying to make. Still, good luck to you. I guess.
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MissBishere
12 years ago
it has only been painful when they are rushing to get it in or they have no idea what they are doing. with an experienced partner I have found it to be truly orgasmic
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RHP User
12 years ago
My introduction to Anal was from someone who really knew their way around a woman's body and have loved it ever since, however as others have mentioned not just anyone can do it, they have to get you really turned on to even start thinking about it, mind you by then I'm begging for it :)....
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tamworthguy46
12 years ago
Sorry mate I didn't really get the drift of this post, I think it would only be a very small minority of people that would ram their cock up their lovers ass and be rough and selfless if they didn't want them to be. also any one that has had a bad experience would simply say to go easy. And what about the people that just don't like it ..... are you implying you could convert them ? I realise that you have a passion for this....and power to you for that ! but we aren't all idiots. cheers Tam
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RHP User
12 years ago
Welcome to the forums. And to the rest of you: can we remember to be nice to newbies?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have had the pleasure of some amazing ladies receiving my cock in their bottom and they have enjoyed it.It is just common sense to take it easy. Ask first take it slow and even flick her clit as you enter. We aren't animals we live in a society.
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madotara69
12 years ago
Meander is rousing on you DG
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QLDtwo4fun
12 years ago
Or simply self promotion from a guy looking to give anal.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is an analphobe!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I hear you buddy. I have converted a few male anal virgins myself.... Although sometimes I think I may have converted them the wrong way. Oh well, strappy and I are learning as we go. :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
You are one sexy dangerous scary woman ! Bahahahahaha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'ag4mg92' anal is sensational! I love receiving. It is a trust thing though and no one else has been there. I totally read that as "It is a thrust thing". I wonder what that says about me? OP, I love anal with people I know and trust, but also believe it's not for everyone. I've got the same question as a few others: Do you enjoy receiving anal yourself? Curious. p.s. Mado: I was addressing DG, Circuz and Kinky_G. I'll assume Foxy's response wasn't aimed at the OP, but it wasn't very positive. Sorry, didn't mean all of you. Migraines make my brain go funny.
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Bothways72
12 years ago
I do agree with most things that people have commented on here, along with majority of my female partners have unfortunately had anal forced upon them in the past:( That...I am dead against. Regarding my subject- 'give and take'.....yes, I 100% agree that if a guy is so intent on performing anal with their partner, they too should be willing to receive it themselves. Someone above has referred that 'straight guys don't do such things' ie...receive anything anally. That's only because they narrow mindedly think that it'll make them gay if they do!! Phhfftt....wake up to yaselves!!!! I'm sure if they were to let their guard down and at least tried receiving a lubed up little finger, majority would change their view. Me, on the other hand. I much prefer to vaginal sex to anal. And anally....I much prefer to receive anal than to give it. In fact that's an understatement.....I LOVE TO RECEIVE ANAL!!!....whether it be a finger, a dildo, a hard cock or even more....!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Anal = Something a committed couple does very occasionally, then its been there done that, or gay guys because there is no pussy. Something to consider for the ones 45 yrs plus... ...Are those skid marks on my panties getting more frequent thru anal sex permanently loosening things up.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Futurenomads'Are those skid marks on my panties getting more frequent thru anal sex permanently loosening things up. Is this the Mr or Mrs speaking? I like the idea of the Mr wearing panties.
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madotara69
12 years ago
I don't have an enormous cock, very lucky
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RHP User
12 years ago
Feeling chastised for stating the obvious.... lol But not much. :D Maybe there's an opportunity for the author to start a support group... .....or a Jims professional franchise..... Or Lubemobile lol DG
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madotara69
12 years ago
Now your just being an idiom
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tamworthguy46
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Feeling chastised for stating the obvious.... lol But not much. :D Maybe there's an opportunity for the author to start a support group... .....or a Jims professional franchise..... Or Lubemobile lol DG Damn you DG now you have put a picture in my head, of a guy in a Volvo pulling a trailer with "Jims Anal" written on it !and of course they don't use the blinkers, and the stop lights don't work ! "Jim can Poo it"
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RHP User
12 years ago
I DO wonder..... how much "negotiating" is required to turn a woman with bad experiences who says no to anal...... into a "convert" ???? Doesn't no mean no?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ass play, TOTALLY HOT when with the right person, and definitely a trust thing (coming from the she of the couple) Not something I indulge in regularly but when you are soooooo horny and just consumed by the other person, sensations and passion in the moment it's another pleasure to explore and enjoy <3
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RHP User
12 years ago
My bum loves attention but not that kind, a good spanking on the other hand............
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madotara69
12 years ago
of management
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I DO wonder..... how much "negotiating" is required to turn a woman with bad experiences who says no to anal...... into a "convert" ???? Doesn't no mean no? Absolutely it does, but the OP doesn't mention anyone saying no. He actually says: "she is allowing YOU the privilege of going there" But yes, if there is too much convincing needed, it may not be the best idea. Being pushy is never hot in my opinion.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Kinky Is an analphobe! A girl comes to her father, an old sea captain, and asks for his blessing to marry a sailor. The father says, "I'll give you the blessing... but I'll also give you a warning. I know sailors very well. You two will be living together happily, but one day he will come to you and offer to do it 'the other way'. You have to promise me that when that happens, you will definitely say No". The girl gives her promise, and later weds the sailor. Several years on, she becomes very curious about those words of warning her father gave her. So one day, she comes to her husband and says to him, "Darling, I want to ask you one thing... don't you want to try doing it the other way?" The sailor looks at her with horror in his eyes, and says: "What? And risk getting pregnant???"
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gazpacho
12 years ago
I think you missed an important aspect regarding technique. It's to get your tongue deep in there first, bro. Well, I guess we all got our own techniques. All power to you. HugsGazp
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RHP User
12 years ago
Let's face it, bum love is a beautiful thing. :P
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Bothways72
12 years ago
I couldn't agree more to both your subject title as well as your comment Meeka100 :))))
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am straight and yes a love women ducking me with a strapon or using their fingers and even fisting my arse but I'm not gay. A man's g spot is in his arse. My ex loved ducking my arse and loved it so yes anal can give men an almighty orgasm.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am also a bloke who prefers to receive anal more than giving it. It most definitely preparing the arse first and lube is a must. For those blokes who haven't experienced their arse being used, I can only urge you to give it a go. Certainly makes orgasam far more intense. I prefer a vibe or a cock to a finger though.
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RHP User
12 years ago
how many guys are willing to shove things up their missus arse but when I ask if they are going to allow her to do the same thing to him...no way!! It is a little off putting when you have a customer coming in to ask for a butt plug that stops leakage, eeekkkk. I have tried anal several times with a couple of different people without good results, one was akin to pain worse than childbirth, another had my arse bleeding for 3 days from a few fingers. Don't try to convert me, I will try again at my own pace when I am ready, not when you are. I am happy with a finger or 2 and small toys, if my partner is not happy with that then they can fuck off and find someone else's arse to penetrate.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Shouldn't this forum have been called "Anal... Just putting it in there, ladies..."
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RHP User
12 years ago
The love Boat....Bum sex
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RHP User
12 years ago
Converting ye followers to anal ? You sound like a Mormon.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Shouldn't this forum have been called "Anal... Just putting it in there, ladies..."
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madotara69
12 years ago
I just can't take the risk, a few years back I had an anal fissure, it's a tear in the bowel walls, peanuts can even cause them, though they can easily ulcerate and is extremely painful, stings all the time and can take a long time to heal. I would not risk going through something like that again,as the bowel wall is weakened now and as DG often points out, short clean finger nails are pretty sensible.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Helps if u have a smaller penis I supose because most ladies have said your not putting that up my ass....... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' I just can't take the risk, a few years back I had an anal fissure, it's a tear in the bowel walls, peanuts can even cause them, though they can easily ulcerate and is extremely painful, stings all the time and can take a long time to heal. I would not risk going through something like that again,as the bowel wall is weakened now and as DG often points out, short clean finger nails are pretty sensible. long sharp nails, you would need to be worried about a lot more than your arse haha I have heard somewhere, I can't recall where but I feel it was from some person with a medical background that there may also be a link between people susceptible to hemorrhoids and those that have trouble with pain having anal sex because the muscle that causes the veins to protrude from the anus does not relax effectively enough. From what I recall there has not been enough research into it to make it conclusive. I don't think people should be coerced into it because someone else wants to do it. If it is a choice by that person to try it then fine but people have their reasons for not wanting to go there and they shoudn't be made feel as though they should. And I am talking about pressure, I am sure you have enough respect for Tara to not expect her to do anything against her will.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ive struggled with this 'concept'...n questioned if real men really need it or why do they enjoy it...but ive had the biggest orgasm by being stimulated both ways...i dont mind it if its done considerately n for mutual pleasure occassionally...but i still have concerns with men who seem to prefer anal over vaginal often..i get the tightness for men n can be pleasurable for woman too...but natural n obsessive then its a no...
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madotara69
12 years ago
We had been married ten years before we tried anal and it was Tara's Idea, it seemed her girlfriend was quite convincing, no I have never expected Tara of anything, nor she of me. But we can communicate well, so we find it easy too try new things after we have put our thoughts and ideas out. (It's half the fun) Reckon there is a big difference with being demanding over adventurous. Adventurous works fine for us.
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Enjoylifealways
12 years ago
Hh hmmm interesting about the haemorrhoids and painful annal sex. I have had annal sex with them and as long as it is at the right angle it wasn't painful. I can't say I got much physical pleasure more of a mental , dominant pleasure thing for me. Like my men to be real men ;) But have given me some food for though
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yesterday morning I had the pleasure of a bloke from Rhp popping over for 30min of fun .. He came over all prepared and a Iittle shitty as I had a big night the night before and left him waiting in a local park and I didn't show 😁 Well my punishment was I wasn't allowed to fuck him, but he brought some amazing toys with him one esp was his huge black dildo omfg it filled me up and felt great then he spread my legs more as he was standing beside me and put a bit if lube on it and shoved it in my bum .. Wow I just wish he had 2 of them there to fill both holes to finish it off I experienced my first ever facial ... Have to say it was quite a hot experience 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' We had been married ten years before we tried anal and it was Tara's Idea, it seemed her girlfriend was quite convincing, no I have never expected Tara of anything, nor she of me. But we can communicate well, so we find it easy too try new things after we have put our thoughts and ideas out. (It's half the fun) Reckon there is a big difference with being demanding over adventurous. Adventurous works fine for us. you 2 crazy kids seem perfect for each other, I love it , I have a lot of respect for you both and your relationship, you just ooze love, it is so adorable.
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madotara69
12 years ago
Yeah, we are never gonna grow up
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madotara69
12 years ago
long sharp nails, you would need to be worried about a lot more than your arse haha Now I'm thinking of Tara's again, I'm quite content, so I just gelled too that comment of yours. Those long sharp nails , yeah we would be more worried about the damage from gripping the sheets.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Missb72' it has only been painful when they are rushing to get it in or they have no idea what they are doing. with an experienced partner I have found it to be truly orgasmic Purely from my point of view... I have to agree with you Missb72. I have, on two occasions in my life, allowed a partner (female) to use a vibrator on me (and it wasn't as big as your average cock)... So, YES, I understand completely why anyone would need to TRUST and also know that the "perpetrator" was experienced and didn't just wasn't in a hurry to 'shove it in'. I've found 'roughly' that about 50% of ladies like it, love it or at least can take or leave it... The other half are "NO WAY'. Have others (both male and female) found this to be accurate in their experience?? P.S. Someone above, also mentioned "accidents"... This is simply one of the very occasional things that can happen, but I've found on the very odd time there has been a little accident, the lady (taker) has been the one who has been most distressed... If you go there, you have to expect that (no matter how clean and attentive a lady may have been), there can be a little 'evidence' left behind. I mean, Shit (excuse the pun), it's only a minor inconvenience, solved by a quick wash... Who cares!?
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RHP User
12 years ago
We love it and happily do wonderful things to each other's bottoms but we've met people who for various reasons find that it doesn't really do anything for them or find it painful or uncomfortable. What a fabulously diverse species we are.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think the best position for a ladies 1st anal experience is on top, she can the control the pace the depth & how the whole thing happens depending on her mood. A lot of ladies seem to experience anal the 1st the time at the hands of a young "jack hammer" that tries to literally split her "from arsehole to breakfast time" and they don't want to go there again. An older understanding man should be the choice for anal, much less pain and usually an orgasmic experience. Cheers PL.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Bothways72'I do agree with most things that people have commented on here, along with majority of my female partners have unfortunately had anal forced upon them in the past:( That...I am dead against. Regarding my subject- 'give and take'.....yes, I 100% agree that if a guy is so intent on performing anal with their partner, they too should be willing to receive it themselves. Someone above has referred that 'straight guys don't do such things' ie...receive anything anally. That's only because they narrow mindedly think that it'll make them gay if they do!! Phhfftt....wake up to yaselves!!!! I'm sure if they were to let their guard down and at least tried receiving a lubed up little finger, majority would change their view. Me, on the other hand. I much prefer to vaginal sex to anal. And anally....I much prefer to receive anal than to give it. In fact that's an understatement.....I LOVE TO RECEIVE ANAL!!!....whether it be a finger, a dildo, a hard cock or even more....!!! wifey isnt keen on receiving but doesnt mind giving with a strapon and id rather receive than give so that works but on saying that there wont be any man meat going there any time soon
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RHP User
12 years ago
Have to dissagree a bit of poo, smells, messy, unhygenic ....how unsexy is that, mood killer afraid. Butt where there is risk there is fun
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RHP User
12 years ago
Or should that be rear entry....... Anal, just putting it out there ladies........? Pretty sure its more about, Anal, Just putting it in there ladies.......... Just saying!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Enjoylifealways' Hh hmmm interesting about the haemorrhoids and painful annal sex. I have had annal sex with them and as long as it is at the right angle it wasn't painful. I can't say I got much physical pleasure more of a mental , dominant pleasure thing for me. Like my men to be real men ;) But have given me some food for though had customers buy butt plugs, small ones to treat hemorrhoids too. Apparently the stimulation via a small vibrating plug helps ease the pain of them. Not sure if it makes a difference if they are internal or external hemorrhoids that are being referred to. One customer was sent in by his doctor to get one and he was very embarrassed initially then he came back to buy another one simply because he liked the sensation. I assume there would be some difference though between internal and external hemorrhoids.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is this a case of FIGJAM or is there an actual question being asked?
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RHP User
12 years ago
A pleasure shared is a pleasure doubled, Gently anal is a great way for a pleasure tripled or quadrupled and it means you can connect and I mean connect to 2 or 3 others very intimately. Some gymnastics involved! Xx rod from hedorr
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couplefuntimes
12 years ago
i am in no way gay but anal stimulation increases my orgasms immensely. Besides when she takes control with a strap on it really does send her over the top. On her front, she has taken it a few times and finds that inserting a finger as she comes increases the intensity of her orgasms as well.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' I just can't take the risk, a few years back I had an anal fissure, it's a tear in the bowel walls, peanuts can even cause them, though they can easily ulcerate and is extremely painful, stings all the time and can take a long time to heal. I would not risk going through something like that again,as the bowel wall is weakened now and as DG often points out, short clean finger nails are pretty sensible. I had one of those a few years back, bad enough to need surgery to fix. Considering I haven't had kids it caused some of the worst pain I've experienced. I thought after the surgery that I'd never do anal again but eventually I did. So far I haven't had any further issues, I don't do it that often but I know I'm taking a bit of a risk; sometimes I just can't help myself though...
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madotara69
12 years ago
Yeah well, I'm just a wuss, plus if and when Meeka gets her sights on me, she may just show some sympathy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Butt,there is always the little paddle:-) xxQ
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madotara69
12 years ago
Kinks are cool Oh damn it, you have me going too that place again, back in the day when I acted like a naughty kid................ I think I developed this sort of phobia, for things going on with a trauma through the years of becoming a teenager, It's always easier to look upon things in hindsight and say oh well that is a clear reason why. However not as simple in real time. So as a teenager I was going through a battle inside myself for trying too understand why I enjoyed something that felt wrong, later a man was sent too jail for that thing that felt wrong and meanings became reasoning too the effects. For a while I lost touch with fear, I turned it off and began too live a life on the edge, I jumped out of an airplane a couple of times, paddled out and searched for the biggest waves I could find, went too the snowy mountains hired a pair of snow ski's and took the lifts too the very top and just pointed them down and jumped of the edge, crashing all the way too the bottom of the slope and went straight back up, thinking, fuck it does not hurt that much, I shall try that again. I took on a job in commercial roofing over in NZ, climbed up a big ladder and stepped out onto a skinny little steel perlin and followed my foreman around jumping across those perlins, 10 metres from the ground and nothing in between each leap, then we would lay out some wire netting, not for our safety, just too hold up some insulation paper. Fearless, then we had this young bloke start work and he came up the ladder all cocky and appeared too be confident, he stepped out onto a perlin and followed us out a couple of metres then looked down and froze. Shit he Grabbed a hold of that perlin with his arse and held on for dear life over the fear in his eyes showed he was petrified as that fear set in. I could not care a less that that guy could not handle the heights or do his job as a team player, as up there you rely on the guy beside you with your life, and it was then I realised just how important trust was, I got too him and spent an hour or so working with him to move just a few meters, as even moving a finger had the fear of no return. I realised at that point how I felt really did not matter, it was how he felt that did, he had his life in my hands and I did feel a sense of fear for that, it was not about me, it was all about him. It was during that time I tore the bowel lining from lifting heavy weights in pretty awkward positions, I put up with the pain as the fissure became ulcerated, eventually I went to a Dr and as he explained what was wrong up me bum, he seemed to be questioning me as being homosexual, a lot and it made me feel uncomfortable, I left that Dr and never went back eventually I healed all by myself, stupid yeah, but fear can be an amazing thing. I guess the moral of this story is that, for what ever reason someone fears something, it is no one elses place too judge that fear, only that if and when they may choose too confront it, allow them too trust you through it and care for them before your self. After ten years married and Tara afraid of anal sex, I never attempted to have her confront it, though the night she asked me too try it with her, all I cared for was that trust she gave me, it turned out she was not afraid any more and we have enjoyed it ever since. I enjoy it because she does. Give and take, it's a thing.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Guys, you know how women squirm the ENTIRE time they are getting fucked? THATS how good it feels, try it, you will love it. That is all
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RHP User
12 years ago
After recently meet up with a gorgeous young man ,who i trusted and adored... now i cant stop having him around everyweekend to show me the magic of Anal sex,..thank you Mr. A !...i will be having you many more weeks to come, mwuaaahh !!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Personally, I love anal and no need to be gentle! Mmmmm! However, a lot of guys can't manage to please as they can't stay hard enough to even get it in nice and deep or cum so quickly that it's all over just when I am getting into it. Nothing like a big, hard cock from behind giving me a pounding, if he is good at it, he will make me cum! Only with lube and a condom of course. Hard to believe there are so many idiots out there who still go bareback. As far as expecting the man to take it, not from this gal. Call me old fashioned but even the idea of a man wanting anal turns me right off. The man is the giver and the woman is the taker in my bedroom. Also love a good fisting but only in my pussy!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Futurenomads' Have to dissagree a bit of poo, smells, messy, unhygenic ....how unsexy is that, mood killer afraid. Butt where there is risk there is fun So blowing a cock that has been inside a pussy or possibly has a teeny bit of pee on it.... that's unhygienic too!!! I use my guy's tooth brush sometimes. I say I've sucked your cock and put my fingers in all kinds of places so using same toothbrush is nothing!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'jokerza' Is this a case of FIGJAM or is there an actual question being asked? LMAO! I think there is are a lot of FIGJAM happening on this forum. Brilliant!
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RHP User
12 years ago
hi nice to meet you
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RHP User
12 years ago
I wonder how many new converts the OP has collected..... its been a full month.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Cnannguyen' hi nice to meet you They have RHP in Vietnam? Hi!
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