M68 F61
And what about you sexy girls...
June 01 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
We'd be interested to know too.However we understand that sexually liberated, adventurous females with spare time are rare as hens teeth so when we find one she is treated like a princess. So, apply here. ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I just came out of a 15 year relationship! The last thing I want is another one! Casual sex FTW!
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RogueGeek
14 years ago
We're busy. Also, where couples are involved, the lady will probably want to be attracted to both of them AND feel comfortable enough to meet them.Cheers,MS
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's tough to find 3 people who all find each other attractive. All too often you get plenty of pics of a gorgeous female and 1 of the guy who is clearly punching above his weight - big time!! Or vice-versa. Why on earth would a third wheel expect a full time commitment from a couple!! Surely that's just play-time? Maybe the girls feel awkward about how to say they're not interested, maybe they're just super nervous about the whole thing, scared or they're just playing with you!
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RHP User
14 years ago
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well I seem to tick most of the boxes there... uni student, work my ass off part time, love and prefer the single life. I can tell you there's probably a number of factors that are involved in your difficulties: 1. Yes, the fact that Mrs JJ is yet to experience FF... from scanning the profiles on here, it seems that most of the bi-curious/experimental girls here are ones that would prefer the woman in the couple to take charge. If you were to look for a bisexual single woman, you might have better luck; 2. If you've been looking for women around your age range, most of them are more than likely to be attached already and would prefer to get a FF/FFM experience either one-on-one or with their partner involved. 3. With women being women, we look for an attraction with both members in the couple. It's more difficult than you think; I've personally met up with a handful of couples and so far only once have I ever felt fully attracted to both people (although I'm very, very picky). 4. Single women probably have more of an issue being with a married man than single men would being with a married woman. Just my thoughts
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RHP User
14 years ago
As I have mentioned elsewhere its a bit like your first job, every one wants an experienced hand but no one will give you a start.I would like to try a Bi MMF but never done it, newbie etc so no chance.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I looked at your profile justjuice ,you are a guest and therefore can not be proactive in your search.The majority of women here are also guests. Secondly,Mr.juice is nine years older than the upper limit of your age range.Both of these factors will make it extremely difficult for you to find what you are looking for,but hey,this is a great ad!!x Hugs H
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well this is purely my own experience...as single woman with a career and time constraints, it has always suited me to play with couples, however the reality has become that couples are damn hard work....true every so often I have met a great couple (and I have today even stayed friends with) but most of the time (for me) I go to play with couples and there has been issues....their issues. One partner seems to get jealous....and in my own experience it is often the man - yep his got this hot red blooded fantasy of his partner playing with another women (what most men dream of) in front of him... but then he feels that his being left out a bit, or the wife is having a ball and his masculinity then is threatened !!! At times as the third wheel, you just cant win..spend too much time with her your damn, spend too much time with him your damned....and I ve been in the middle of more jealous cat fights than I care to admit. I end up timing myself and being so damn careful and conscious not to offend either party giving equal attention etc that all the fun asnd spontaniety goes out of it (for me)...and then sadly there is often the follow up sms a fee days later (usually from the man) wanting to play alone....and what a surprise the other party doesn't know !!! Like I said this is purely my experience and dont get me wrong, Im not against couples at all, but now I only play with couples I already know...where all parties are cool and very together, where friendships have been formed, where we now socialise out of the bedroom and play is one option that we choose. Just glancing at your profile, for me, the line that says your unsure about FFM is one I would rephrase....I just found the statement although honest - offputting....I would probably put something like yes your inexperienced but would like to meet a aldy that will gently guide you thru since so you can enjoy the thrill of another womans touch - or something to that affect...but thats just my opinion... And as Hesione said, your a guest, so your limiting the way you can contact others as many women on here are also guests...and then of course there is the whole issue of 3 people being attracted to each other......and that within itself is a whole issue.. Good luck with it all
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RHP User
14 years ago
City-Kitty.. Yes' you are probally right with the inexperienced part and yes' females who suit what we're looking for would probally prefer Mrs JJ to take the lead. Never thought of it that way' but there has to be a starting point somewhere. If we never had any experience we can't pretend we have. We thought being up front was the correct thing to do. Understand completely what you said about being attracted to both she and he and would not expect anyone to think differently.. We are no different...That is something we cant predict but I am confident that once we met with someone' that would take care of itself . I consider my man to be above average in the attraction and if anything he would be just as fussy as you, within reason of course...msVelvetblue.. Some sound advice from your experiences.. Agree that both of us would need to have our heads around what to expect but dont really see jealousy as a issue for us. Having played with a single male in the past' and in the presence of Mr JJ there were no jealousy issues... It was Mr JJs opinion' isnt that what we're here for ? The other thing that stood out in your post is the 'third person' position. Can understand a female joining a couple and feeling that way.. Fact is for us' if there was any tension we would not take the chance if it meant upsetting or hurting anyone. Unless it was mutual attraction we dont see the point..Good advice about that line' Mrs JJ unsure if this is what she wants.. That also played on our mind for the reasons you gave.. Great post..Hesione... Yes' being a guest can and does limit your opportunity's .. We were active to start with and inundated with single males , so we decided to give it a break for awhile.. It must be time to start thinking seriously about getting back into it .. As far as Mr JJ being older, this is something I never think about. He can definately hold his own when it comes to women.. why do u think I married him.. lolGreat posts you guys.. opened our mind to some things we never thought about..Looking forward to others advice and experiences....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sure, we would all (well most) enjoy the ego boost of a younger playmate but what are you bringing to the party? You're telling us, "We are sooo young for our age, nobody in our own age group is good enough for us." I know that I'm not in the running, as I don't fit any of your criteria, but I've read your profile and so has Jennylee. We both agree that we would not pursue you even if you were seeking a mf couple. We would pursue Hesione, were that possible. She is more attractive on many levels. Sorry, just saying is all.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Not sure if you're open to talking about this in a forum, but reply/don't reply as you like... When you say that Mrs JJ isn't sure of what she would like, I'm a little puzzled. I'm assuming you two have been with other couples before? In those situations, did it tend to just be a straight partner swap/same room, so there was never a bi/experimental female half of the couples? If there was, it should have given you a basic idea of what it is Mrs JJ would like... Or, if you haven't, maybe what you should be looking for are couples with a bi female.
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RHP User
14 years ago
...this is off topic but I was curious. Were you previously part of a couple on RHP?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Jensman,this single woman is extremely flattered,and would say yesx Hugs H
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RHP User
14 years ago
Jensman,this single woman is extremely flattered,and would say yesx Hugs H
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RHP User
14 years ago
Checking in.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903'...this is off topic but I was curious. Were you previously part of a couple on RHP? Joined as a single bachelorette and have remained so You must bethinking of someone else.
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RHP User
14 years ago
You are correct in wanting to by pass us.. It would be a waste of time.. We are both positive friendly people so whenever we suspect negativity.. It wont go anywhere.. Good luck with your search.... hope you find what you're looking for..
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thank you for your post, always intelligent and well thought out.. no doubt a girl who knows herself. Dont wish to do a tell all on here, so happy to reply privately. Cheers... J & J
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RHP User
14 years ago
that the female we are looking for needs to be as inexperienced as ourselves . That way we can explore together with no expectations.. We might fumble, we might laugh, we might stuff up but at least we know we are all trying to have the right fun... lol..Thanks to all that contacted us' some did not suit what we were looking for. On one occasion it was 50/50 possibility and on another it is a work in progress... Thats the trouble with being fussy' you never know what you may be missing out on..lol .the JJs...
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