RHP

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Another knotty question.

December 12 2013

Do you find talking with a person that you both click and want to play with, about there escapades turn you on or turn you off... (sitting on the fence thinking xknots)

Comments

  • Beachlover1999

    Beachlover1999

    12 years ago

    Just had this discussion with a friend. I personally have no interest in hearing of their escapades, I guess a 'funny' story from years ago is fine but I don't want to hear about a girl that sucked the same cock I just did a day or week ago!!!!! :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    How much can it really be turning you off if you're still talking with them about it. ;-) DG - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    In all things at all times. Happy to talk about escapades so long as no names are mentioned. I think it's a fine line though. No one really wants to think they are number 256. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I think its inevitable you eventually share some sexcapades. Sometimes someone will tell me something they have done because they are asking me if I want to try it. I write erotic fiction and one of the hardest things about that is people sometimes assume that everything I have written is based in fact whereas its usually based in fantasy. If someone told me about sexcapades that included things that I consider hard limits, I doubt I would be turned on, and I possibly wouldn't keep the conversation going unless they were respectful of my limits and didn't keep going on about the things I didn't like.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    just leave the names out if it comes to it, not into background briefings unless I ask

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' How much can it really be turning you off if you're still talking with them about it. ;-) DG - Posted from rhpmobile In one sense its good to understand where a person is sexually with in themselves, and how that can be a turn on for new experiences. On the other hand I have to agree with the way Kaleidoscope thinks....As for u DG I can see by your photo what turns u on (Dinasuarass) .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The itch under your skin... is me...... My comment... complete with ";)" was only half in jest.Why would (should) anyone entertain other peoples stories, if they dont appeal?Sounds like social torture to me. Just because someone is visually appealing enough for me to contemplate playing hokey pokey, doesnt mean Im going to endure the conversations I simply dont want to hear. Id rather guide the conversation to something more interesting.... or wish her well, and walk to the next person. Dont sit on the fence...... kick the fucker down and use it as firewood to cook the mammoth you just killed.

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    12 years ago

    I don't like talking about the who what where and when. And if you want to tell me too much about your sexcapades, I'd be concerned about your level of discretion.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' The itch under your skin... is me...... And I thought it was the Midgee's giving me the shit's......xknots

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I feel talking about past sexual encounters helps to get the new adventure soem what right ;) giving pleasures is simply fantastic but having an insight to there likes or dislikes makes the task at hand so much more pleasurable ;),, the open chats also give a strong indication of them as a person... And of course any expectations whilst untwined in pleasures ;)) That's my take on it anyway

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I don't tend to discuss my past unless it's completely relevant to the now, and I don't ask questions about anothers. I find that whilst most people say they want to know about where you've been, they tend to bring their preconceived ideas to the table and pass judgements. No point in looking backwards - Posted from rhpmobile

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    I look at Tara in a new and different way all the time, to see how potentially she would like to be seen as. Then I might say, want to have another fuck like last time, Make love but remember we have a child each time, or a Quicky like all the other ones, Keeps the conversation random and spontaneous. Mado, Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hearing about someones sexcapades has never turned me off a peson and quite often makes them more attracted because they share such intimate details. Recently had a conversation with someone and some of the things she told me made me want to carry her off and do lots of nasty things to her... didn't phase me that I knew some of the people she spoke about either. On the flip side if I am asked I will share however unless they ask about other/prior lovers I keep the experience to myself. It is more about respecting the other persons privacy than my integrity. If I share something in an open forum like this then I will obfuscate some of the details to protect the innocent. Each unto their own tho, I can see why some people could find it a turn off. SG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I think that's a "Mega-Sore-Arse" there?