Anxiety overload First timers

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Sorry are you saying that...talking...about fantasies makes him ‘E’? That definitely sounds like PE to me Nothing to be ashamed of just might need some attention Also put pics up 😙

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  mrmrs662

  5 years ago

  Expand your profile. a bit and tell other couples more about yourselves. Arrange to meet other couples just for coffee/drinks and a. chat. Lots of nice couples out there -get comfortable with just a meet and greet. No one expects you to be pornstars or supermodels. Just be your best selves and the rest will happen.

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  FeistyFatty

  5 years ago

  Not a good start I'm afraid.

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  FeistyFatty

  5 years ago

  Take one step at a time. Profile is number one, work on that (including pics). Then the nuances of chatting enticing and meeting people. All this comes LONG before your hubby does.

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  LibraLovers

  5 years ago

  I wouldn't personally find it a deal-breaker. Most of my ex boyfriends were PEs. Play is about more than a man ejaculating and there are plenty of play dynamics where it wouldn't even come in as a factor, e.g. same room or soft swap. So don't let it hold you back. I think just be upfront about it when you're meeting people IRL so things will only progress with the ones you'll be compatible with.

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Hi - and welcome :-) . I just took a look at your profile - far from being boring , it is refreshingly open and honest , you sound like a great couple . I am older than your hubby , and am at the opposite end of the spectrum - delayed E , or sometimes it doesn't happen at all . Sounds like a good deal , but I used to find it frustrating , and that the female or couple I was with felt that it was something to do with them . Forming a connection leading up to any play has had two notable outcomes - if things fail to launch , there is no sense of inadequacy on anyones part , and perhaps more happily , failure to launch ( ejaculate ) is less likely to happen , so win win . With regard to PE , it may happen , but depending on the circumstance , you may both be pleasantly surprised at how quickly he is able to reload . Hope this helps with your confidence , and good luck with your search - you sound like good people .

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Hi all !!! Was so good to hear back on honest responses, we thought we were not getting any responses as we thought we would get notified else where , still learning the platform I guess 😋. Honestly your responses would help us so damn much and hence can’t thank you all enough for taking the time to get back on our post . Feels bloody amazing to be amongst such wonderful people !!! 😄😊🤗

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