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Any women who prefer anal sex?

February 23 2018

I post this in another topic but figured it was worthy of its own page / conversation. I am also currently a guest but I am more than happy to upgrade so that private conversation with any individuals or couples can take place. I am always respect and understand and honest and open and figured this site was worth a shot because everyone on here seems to be of a similar mind set. Anyways... Are there are any woman, especially women in Sydney, who prefer anal sex ovwr vaginal sex? I ask because it is one of my favourite topics to discuss and because since I started exploring sex I have come to realise that rimming and anal sex are two of my favourite acts (and have been for about 10 years now). There's a long list of other interests and pleasurable acts and kinks I enjoy (as highlighed on my R.H.P and Fetlife and OkCupid profiles) but nothing that compares to anal (for me). Trying anal (mostly as the giver but I am all for receiving with the right partner or lover) signalled a complete sexual awakening. I never thought I would enjoy it as much as I do but here I am. Anal sex is something I've been advocating for, enjoying and exploring and believe it's a skill and a fetish of mine. It's actually my favourite way to have sex and it forms a large part of my sexual appetite, hence the desire to chat with women, men or couples about it so I can see who shares my passion and hopefully meet up down the road should that interest or desire ever surface. The more i think about it the more it bothers me when men don’t take their time, work up to it with their partner and go completely unprepared or unlubricated. It is a shame when people ruin the experience or pleasure. I have helped women work through all kinds of horror stories and I wish more men would seek out the right education. Since my late 20s I've been drawn to women who have been willing to explore, experiment and indulge me (and I do the same in return). I'm all about consent and enjoyment and pleasure and satisfaction for all parties (and body parts) involved. I also started this conversation because there have been nights (and relationships) where all I've done with partners is anal penetration (either because they've requested it or we were both in the mood for the hightened sensation). For me, it has to be with someone I trust and someone I want to share my deviant mind with. I have been with women who have begged for it but since discovering the absolute pleasure of anal I have also developed a reluctance towards doing it with just anyone because I prefer the times when we are both lost in the sensation and moment and time disappears -- but performing it in front of strangers or with a cuckold or as part of D.P. is also fun and highly encouraged. I have always enjoyed the taboo factor but in all honestly, I don't believe it should be taboo, it's just another way to have sex, enjoy each other and explore the pleasure centres of the body. My experiences over the years have been outright positive. Likewise, I've been a few first times (and those girls have always wanted it again), I've done it with one-night stands (in more locations than I care to remember, from cars to hotel rooms; from bathrooms to bedrooms; from rooftops to parks; from showers to stairwells) and at one stage during a previous relationship it was the only intercourse we engaged in because she loved / preferred it. Hence my curiosity to see who else makes it their order of choice on the sexual menu. Personally, I enjoy the look of it, the feeling, the naughtiness, the submission required, the trust involved and the orgasms that result from careful, thoughtful, gentle (or rough, pending mood and experience), responsive, attentive and relaxing anal sex. I get that it's not for all people and that's cool. It’s something I enjoy, something I'd like to share and something that I believe is unlike anything else when both people let the act become a rewarding one. I adore and worship girl's butts and have yet to hear any complaints -- because making a woman feel sexy, comfortable and safe is alway my top priority. The act isn't as much fun when it isn't enjoyed by both (or more, wink) people. If anything, that's my biggest sexual fault / kink, a love of going backdoor on a girl. I have loved women's butts since I was a teen and probably always will. As strange as it feels to admit my enjoyment of anal sex was one of the main reasons for joining R.H.P. -- I assumed I wasn't the only person out there interested in enjoying regular butt love. Again, I totally respect / understand why girls don't do anal or why they might be reluctant. I get the act is a personally choice and just because one is keen doesn’t automatically mean bodies are compatible... and what works one day doesn’t always work the next. As far as my preferences go, I enjoy both rough and intimate sex and I move according to the woman's wishes (and perform so that she's always feeling pleasure or being aroused). I find the mix to be a lot of fun. There's a time and place for slow, deep, fulfilling anal sex and another for pulling down a pair of underwear and either fingering, licking or fucking a well lubricated ass until the flames of desire are tamed. Sex should be fun but it isn't alway possible to be spontaneous with anal, thus I enjoy the flirting and foreplay and build up so that woman is willing and ready to me to have my way with her. Hearing a lady moan from anal makes me smile in ways nothing else can. It is nice to be able to share and give pleasure and connect in that way. If anyone has any questions for me don't hesitate to get in touch. And hopefully there's a few couples and single women out there who are keen to explore this side of sex with a man who knows what he is doing and takes pride in the joys that come with anal. BManAgain, over and out. - Posted from rhpmobile

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SugarSugar69

8 years ago

What a great way to advertise yourself Anal sex and safe sex as an option is a lethal combination. Hell no no no! - Posted from rhpmobile

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bonefide

8 years ago

Yep

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RHP User

8 years ago

Thanks for posting a reply... it wasn't intended to be an advertisement, just a collecton of thoughts and queries and experiences that I thought may either interest someone or provide the R.H.P. users out there with a little insight into me and my preferences. I don't believe anyone can or should be limited to a single sexual act, rather, I have come to realise that it is an important part of that side of me and thus I have real worries finding out if it is singular or shared. Each to their own. One persons fetish could be anothers fear. Crap, another rant, that's another side of me, ha. I will try and limit future replies to a couple of sentences. B. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

That was a lonnnnng-arse topic 😄 The way I see it..... it doesn’t matter how much you live something.... when that something BELONGS to another person and it must be given to you But be aware that every guy but one in here would claim they know what they’re doing, with everything related to sex. I won’t. I’ll say “I have no idea what I’m doing with anal”..... because it doesn’t interest me. It obviously interests you... to the point if obvious obsession.... So I say.... good luck, and hope you find someone who has the same desire DG - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

My pussy is too greedy 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

Thanks. Yep. Fair call. All men claim to be experts and skilled or better than most, etc.. I know it is a rather (over written and probably some what) annoying post to read for some, just wanted to float the query, go from there. And yes, I know most women, the vast majority in fact, prefer vaginal... and I would never deny anyone that pleasure. I do enjoy vaginal a great deal (daily basis in fact) and would / do always start there (with few exceptions). I am not someone who ever wants or seeks or likes boring and repetitive sex so that underscores everything but again, just keen to see who is on this site and what they are keen to enjoy. Oh, and I am certainly not suggesting anything as a one off thing, rather, it would be nice to meet someone who is interested in something on going so the necessary trust and chemistry can be built. B. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

I'd love to have this conversation with you but can't seem to message you back! Can you get in touch with me? Also one of my favourite pleasures to explore 😉

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Hawkeye_au

8 years ago

The discussion around anal sex is a hard one. On one side, it can be a more intense feeling of pleasure than vaginal sex but the risks are very real and sometimes can be immediate. I know from anecdotal evidence that the big mistake made is guys going too hard too early and/or not enough lube. I always use a condom during anal for those reasons and it actually makes the initial penetration a touch easier for everyone. Get it right and it can be an amazing experience and your partner won't forget it. But it is a marathon, not a sprint.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Thanks for taking the time to post your views and advice. Always good to see serious and thoughtful responses (from time to time). Safety first. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

Would love to sit and chat with you about this. Let me message you now. So much to respectfully ask, discuss and listen to. Can't wait to build trust so you feel comfortable sharing some experiences and personal highlights. So much wonderful conversation to be had. B. - Posted from rhpmobile

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