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Approach

September 07 2014

After recently having acquired a taste for the ladies at a swingers party, I'm now at a loss at how to approach another woman on RHP. I'm keen to explore my sexuality further and Hubby is more than happy for me to, but just how do I go about it? I've always considered myself straight, I love men and their attachments that make life pleasurable, but my brain is spinning with possibilities that I'd like to pursue. I flirt relentlessly, am confident, assertive and know how to pick up guys, but women are a mystery to me. I know what to expect most of the time from men, but women are so unpredictable (no offense, we are complex creatures ;) and I'm at a bit of a loss how to make that first approach. Also I'm a Hotwife, I have my primary relationship and it would be more about sex and friendship rather than a relationship and my hubby would want to have the option to be involved at times. I'm more than aware and understand that a lot of women here are looking for a bit more than what I have to offer. So, any tips and advice, similar experiences, funny stories? Whether you're a newbie looking for that first time or experienced and willing to share your knowledge, lets keep this positive and light people. After all, we are all here for fun Minx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    As condescending as it may be..... How can you not know how to pick up women when you have gender insight?? So flip the script and ask yourself how is it that YOU like to be approached, treated etc..... Can't be that hard right?? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    When we first started this journey it was with me looking for a girl to play with on my own after having a drunken pash at a party which hubby encouraged to no end The first girl I met who was also married was the same I look back and laugh how long it took us to go from kissing to all the way , we were like a couple of teenagers both nervous as with hubby asking very enthusiastically when I got home well did ya did ya I we got there in the end and then progressed to partener swapping ,then single guys ,them me playing alone It's all been a lot of fun with a lot of great stories hubby and I talk about so I think you just need to take your time , from the messages we have shared you are obviously a lovely sexy lady and this just gives you an other avenue to have fun and the next couple/lady/guy that is lucky enough to play with you should realise - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Just wanted to say good luck....... Your profile is fantastic, you sound like a great couple.......... Personally, I think you should start with couples where the girl is bi, that way you get a bit more experience and confidence, however keep the feelers out for the additional girl as that does usually take longer....... Enjoy

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    We'd be great together!!! What's that? Oh, you noticed.... *Takes off blonde wig and LBD* - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Welcome to our world. Sorry, I got nuthin' But I'll keep an eye out for your "Why don't women answer messages" post.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'sir_stir' As condescending as it may be..... How can you not know how to pick up women when you have gender insight?? So flip the script and ask yourself how is it that YOU like to be approached, treated etc..... Can't be that hard right?? - Posted from rhpmobile Is that how you pick up the blokes Sir_Stir, the same way you like to be picked up? Oh do tell.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Stir, I do have gender insight, that's what scares me! Girlguyhavingfun and Bigmamma, thank you, it's exciting to be open to more opportunities, and I will be looking mostly at couples and we will continue to go to the parties when we can. They were a great group of people, mostly experienced players which made it easy, great atmosphere and all there for the same thing! Twisted Mister, you can keep on the wig and LBD as long as you don't mind me wearing my trusty strappy

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Like a six pack ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Perhaps then; you're just overthinking it?? I know I've been so caught up on looking for signals that I've been totally ignorant to them lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That's what Hubby said! I do tend towards overthinking things, I'm a carer, mother and wife, I'm used to looking at things from all perspectives and automatically do it! Missing signals? There's signals?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yeah it's usually waking up in the hospital for me ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Please. .ladies, flock to minx as she has me on speed dial to help her out as she explores the female form :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Down boy, down I'm getting there!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I don't doubt it ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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