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Are all women bi-curious these days?
June 16 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
People on RHP are more sexuallly adventurous, but: Dont let all that worry you, there are straight couples out there and maybe we all have to be a little Bi for everyone to feel comfortable in the same bed. There are lots of couples where the girl prefers men and are listed as Bi. Some will say they just like a cuddle ...feel of boobs but wont go down. Its a good idea for all four to chat about boundries before the bedroom, as well as just the guys as to how they expect their partners to treated and advise of any dislikes. If something happens in the bedroom you are not comfortable with just softly move the persons hand away, There is a universal rule No means No.....no excuses given and a second try is unacceptable. We have good friends where one is bi sexual doesnt worry us, we all know where to go and where not to go. If you have the experiances as us, expect an answer to your message to be unlikely with no responce being the norm. This can be due to lots of reasons and dont think the Bi stuff is the main reason, of course you will get the odd responce where girls must play with each other and the opposite sex is not on the agenda. Then its obviously not compatable.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Bi-curious actually means straight and that the woman of the couple has either never has played with another woman before or only has played with another woman a couple times. If i see Bi- curious on the woman's part of the couple to me, that normally means I'd kiss a girl and play with her boobs but i won't go down or touch another woman's pussy. lol So basically for me it technically means she is straight.
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LeoQueen
16 years ago
Hi There You are correct. In this scene it is pretty much assumed that the female is at least bi-friendly unless, as you have said, you put it out there that you aren't. The reality is that it is all a matter of degree. We originally started playing because our female half wanted to play with girls (and what guy would hold her back...lol). This seems to be a pretty common story amongst the people we have met. That doesn't mean she doesn't want to play with guys but it was our starting point. We have met plenty of girls who say they are bi-curious but after a kiss or two with the girl they are reaching for something hard and male to play with. Don't let it hold you back... just go with the flow and do what you are comfortable with at the time.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'customer69' Bi curious, is the new fad....I feel some people add it to their profiles, to be in vogue...the fantasy is in their minds alone.Speaking for myself, I like the sensual nature of encounters with other females...it is so erotic and tender, rather different from a female/male experience. Soft tender kisses, the lighter touch of a female's body and hands. I find it to be sensual more so, than sexual, except with special females, that feel the same way about me...There is one rhp lady who took me to heaven and back...I do have a special male partner, with whom I have an amazing connection, in and out of the bedroom. So in that way, I guess I reach for something hard and male to play with, as secretlife allude to in their comments. I'm really not a fan of labels, but I wouldn't say I'm bi-curious. I'd say I'm bisexual, or perhaps merely heteroflexible LOL. I totally agree with Trish about female/female encounters. They're definitely more gentle, sensual, comfortable ... soft.But I prefer reaching for something hard and male to play with. Too big a fan of penetration to be otherwise. In answer to your questions though, we would still meet couples with straight females. I wouldn never go into a meeting with preconceived ideas and expectations about how play would pan out amongst four people - more just go with the flow, knowing I am open to playing with either member of the couple. It wouldn't be important to me to play with a woman in every circumstance. As I say above, I love hard things too much LOL.
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RHP User
16 years ago
So good to hear other opinions on that one. Not really the question I want to ask my "normal" friends. Very relieved to hear that not every bi-curious woman wants the other girl to go down on her or touch her like that.Ii guess I would be comfortable enough to kiss another woman and maybe play with her boobs, but I could not do more I guess. But as I am not really sure yet what I will be able to do full stop, it would just be another thing to find out as we get to know this lifestyle. For now I class myself as straight, and being a woman means I am allowed to change my mind all the time anyway . You will surely see a lot more questions coming from me in the future and your aswers will always be very much appresiated. I am sure they will help hubby and me a lot to find our way here.Thanks guys! Mrs 2_4_2
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think it is somewhat fashionable and perhaps people think listing the female as bi curious will get them more attention? We would never discount a couple that were both straight or had a straight female. We tend to look for Bi curious/experimental or bi in single women as it seems to work well for us in a threesome situation and to be honest on part, I find a certain level of security in that. When we first started playing we came across some very aggressive bi women that I was just not ready for due to lack of experience and confidence, as time goes on it seems we naturally gravitate toward more like minded people with out even trying. Many of the females we meet love the sensuality of a woman's body and will go as far as they please with a woman depending on how they feel in the moment, attraction and all those other things that have to be right. But, at the end of the day as you say love their men :)At the end of the day the boxes people check on their profile are very limiting and so open to interpretation that the best thing to do is just ask someone where in all those shades of grey are they?xx Salina
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' To me Bi is................if the right one came along you could be in a partnership with a woman the same way as a partnership with a man. That is not me........Oh no Mrs S! That's not me eeeeeither *whiny voice* Bugger! If I'm not bisexual, or heteroflexible, or curious, what am I???? I could never be in partnership with a woman the same way as I am with a man ... it goes back to that "reaching for hard things" bit. I love cucumbers and rabbits as much as the next girl, but surely no hard-thing-loving gal could survive on vegetable crispers and battery operated appliances alone forever .... could they?!
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RHP User
16 years ago
as for us we have found everyone different, and we happy to play at a level everyone comfortable with, but would have to say my partner gets a bit annoyed if the other F says she's courious and just want to lie back and have her do everything, she loves partners who respond and give as well as recieve there's nothing wrong with being HONEST if your straght just say so and of course if your playing and deciede you might want to try, just ask We always say you can ask us to try anything, just remember we may say No (mind you that hasn't happened yet) just remember this supposed to be fun for everyone ENJOY
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DonnaBrett
16 years ago
No "Bi-Curious" stuff here...definitely Bi-Sexual (not him tho LOL), with those desires since teenage years (just took a while to act on them LOL) but could never be in a full on relationship with a woman... leave that to the lesbians. But do we play with straight girls in a three or foursome situation?..absolutely. The only request is that people be honest..if a girl is not bi or truly curious about it, then don't say you are just to "fit in" or to appease your man, it can make for awkward situations if a touch or kiss is attempted and the other girl freaks out!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' Mrs 30 you have just made my night with this fabulously written post :) ha! THank you!And often, we find that women are just much easier to please! LOL Warm willies? Yes, the word is definitely yummy!
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RHP User
16 years ago
from our experiences ..plenty of straight girls , just like guys. we have no probs playing with a straight female, as trinity has only just tried girls in last year. so its not a big MUST.. Each couple or single is different...just ask them :>
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'MissWantu' Bi-curious actually means straight and that the woman of the couple has either never has played with another woman before or only has played with another woman a couple times. If i see Bi- curious on the woman's part of the couple to me, that normally means I'd kiss a girl and play with her boobs but i won't go down or touch another woman's pussy. lol So basically for me it technically means she is straight. Hi, I just read your comment and it seems everyone has their own idea about this but I believe in saying what you mean. To me, if someone says they are bi-curious, it means they are genuinely interested in having or experimenting in a bi-sexual act with another woman/man. I am bi-curious, or maybe I should just say Bi-sexual as I would think on a sex site especially to say your bi-curious and not want to play with pussy sounds like you are leading people up the garden path. No offence intented, just my opinion.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sure the representation of Bi-curious/ Bisexual women is probably more on a site like this...but doubt very much that such a large % of women ( 90-95%) are Bi-curious when they are part of a couple because if you look at single women orientation on the same site its overwhelmingly the opposite....I suspect that the male partners probably encourage experimentation, which is fine if its genuine, but if its not its a bad position for the woman to be in.
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