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Are men bastards?

November 14 2009

Most men will think I'm a traitor for saying this... But men are bastards... well I hear that so often that there must be some truth to the saying. There is truth in the quote that 'Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus". Though I have never read the book. I'll wait for the movie. Being straight... I'm so glad woman are different in some many lovely ways. But that does not distract from the point that men are wired differently than women. The male is often prone to seek instant gratification with out letting the erotic notions rattle in the brains any longer than necessary. It's as if their emotions are contained within their seminal fluids... and once ejaculated... so too are their feelings. Women usually go for men that look like good warrior material. Muscle bound and exuding tons of masculinity... even though they are nothing more than a stallion trying to inseminate all womanhood with their seed. Other men make better carers and longtime faithful partners... but too often they loose out in the mating game. Though the more intellectual nerds tend to become multi-millionaires. Just look at Bill Gates. So for all those good men out there who are missing out... please keep trying. A lot depends on the message you convey... be a good communicator. For all those good women out there... please don't let some ass hole turn you into a man hater... take each one for what they are and only give respect to those that earn it.

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RHP User

16 years ago

Thanks for voicing (or writing) what 90% of women already know lol.Yes, I've had several assholes in my life including an ex husband. Why males cannot ascertain the difference between lying and actually telling the truth is beyond most females.It's true, men cannot multi-task - especially when their penis is busy - their brains go into sleep mode while the old fella is full LOL.I'll let you in on a little secret - a lot of women are bitches, only giving a hoot about themselves and what they can get out of the next poor sucker that shares their bed. Yes, met plenty of these "females" as well - no I am not one, wish I was, but it just isn't in my nature - I actually give a fuck what the other person thinks/cares about/does.It's taken me a long long long time to trust anyone of the male species - I still have a way to go, I'm getting there and luckily the friend I have is patient and is opening my eyes to what real men are like - humans.

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RHP User

16 years ago

Mate. Some serious generalisations going on there.. you can be a muscle bound good looking stud and also a caring fellow... I know at least one guy like that very well... (lol... god no, not that well, he's a Christian :p but I'd jump him in an instant). However, your general premise has merit. Men are bastards... and women arent so shallow... sure they'll fuck a masculine warrior type.. but obviously they marry us regular guys. Who else is going to do all the doting. :p What did I say? Hugs Gaz

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tamworthguy46

16 years ago

Another deep and meanigfull post by eunuch ! The Old * All Men are bastards *......Generalisation....is like saying *all Women are bitches*....Your right it is debatable ! Primative Instinct of man......Fighting for Evolution.....by impregnating as many females as possible......Hmmm I can picture * Conan the barbarian, and several woman dressed in furr mini skirts*....hey not that it's a bad picture ! The Same as Primitive Instincts of a Woman, Looking for physical charicteristics of a male, for her children ! Its true......there are a lot of bitter hert woman, that are hesitant to let someone into their hearts again after one or several bad relationships......But the same applies to men to ! Men and Woman have to realy look, and treat each other as equals, as well as accept and love the pysical differences......the same as you Don't realy have to be a Nerd to be a millionaire. Love and peace Tam.

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RHP User

16 years ago

I think everyone has the potential to be a bastard but it's just whether or not they choose to let it get the better of them. I could be an arsehole, but I always try to be polite and respectful.

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RHP User

16 years ago

had a guyon here message me over and over but he has no pics so after many polite replies i replied with the template I only respond to profile with pics he then tells me i should ask nicely'that im rude and i reply thanks but no thanks he then says ' your opinion hold no weight unlike you' that is why we get annoyed and stereotype i think so sad for you lovely respectful friendly guys

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RHP User

16 years ago

Ummmmm....My thoughts that 1 guy i know is a BASTARD..in my books this weekend...ppft... He made me cry.....fffsss..A lot!! sigh......sweetpetite41<<

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RHP User

16 years ago

Fer sure, a man can be a bastard...just push his buttons and voila!!!...instant bastardbut women can be the same too...they just tend to be more open and honest...i don't agree with your generalisation, may be your experience, but i know lots of guys, ok, ok...two...who are not bastards...sooooooo, what is the relevance of this topic i wonder...and casually_casual has it spot on...it is in everyone, just decide whether you want to let it come out and play...cheersjose...

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RHP User

16 years ago

Eunuch, nicely put! I think the whole problem you described is the basis of online dating. Your only contact with someone is a couple of photos and some words on a screen. Of course people will initially pick someone who is attractive in their eyes without knowing the personality of that person. Now I have been on this online dating roundabout for quite a while and can take rejection without even reaching for the tissues now (lol). I probably aim high, I know what type of lady I am attracted to and just as important, what type I am not attracted to. Does that make me shallow - no, just honest with myself. On this site, I am probably a rarity, I am not after a one night stand, so why should I meet someone that I know I am not attracted to either physically or mentally. Just a waste of both of our times right. As to the title of this thread, I wouldn't say all men are bastards - but sure as shit some come thru as desperate. Like any site, it is the woman's domain. Any sensible guy knows that if he does one thing wrong he will be incur the three D's -Dismissed, Dumped & Deleted because the woman knows that there will be another bunch of new flirts and msgs waiting for her. Most men are not that lucky, they have to do something to stand out in the crowd. And often being a bit of an arsehole is what they do because it does make them stand out from the crowd and be noticed. Hence why so many think men are bastards here, nice guys just don't make enough noise to be noticed I think the whole thing boils down to this general observation: Men try to get inside a woman's pants, women try to get inside a guy's head! I am very honest with myself. I would comfortably put myself in the bottom 15% of eligible guys here, too old, too 'weathered' and the last six pack I had was a lovely half dozen bottles of cab merlot. I know I have to rely on my wit, charm, humour and patience - and a shit load of luck.

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RHP User

16 years ago

Customer69 - "women play games too and toy with people's emotions" ?!?!?!?! NOT THIS WOMAN!!! Sorry, but I left my game playing in the playground when I was a teenager - yes I agree SOME women do this, and I've had friends try to tell me to be like that, but at what cost?!?!?! I run with the adage "treat people how you wish to be treated".Without respect, then you just have selfish people out for personal gain. Karma usually catches up with these types.

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RHP User

16 years ago

Mr F here.....From what I've seen, most "bastards" and "bitches" suffer from an over-inflated ego that is driven by being insecure and uncomfortable with themselves. This may have come from some life experiences or just inherited. It can even disappear with age or the right company. Some people just can't be open, considerate, loving, honest and caring all at the same time. The part we don't like is that discovering what someone is really like usually comes through experience and is an unpleasant surprise. Then again, there are some truly magical people around too

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RHP User

16 years ago

it stops me wondering about them. ~laughs~LRE (sticks n stones and all that)

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RHP User

16 years ago

Sending all my love to Trish..XOOXOXOXO mwa...........sweetpetite41

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RHP User

16 years ago

I TEND TO THINK THERE IS GOODNESS IN ALL MEN SOMEWHERE BESIDES THEIR DICKS LOL.HOWEVER I KNOW FROM PAST INCOUNTERS FROM SOME THAT THEY PLAY MIND GAMES ALOT WHY NOT JUST BE UP FRONT INSTEAD OF BORN LIERS WHO GET KICKS FROM PLAYIN ONE WOMAN AGAINST THE OTHER THAN SAYIN SRY DIDNT KNOW I WAS PLAYIN MIND GAMES LOL.

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RHP User

16 years ago

Too much of a generalisation Eunach.Some of us are trying to reform!Mr. SR.

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RHP User

16 years ago

From puberty on, once friends got a grasp of what their appendage was for, they went seeking ways to put it to use. Had a diverse range of associates from all socioeconomic walks of life with varying amounts of testosterone and intelligence. Some would cruise the strip looking for pickups, and often succeeded. The girls either naively wanted a lift or a good time. It was not uncommon for the dears to be deposited back on the footpath once the guys received satisfaction, expressing indignation as the car left them there in a cloud of dust. In retrospect much of this was pretty sordid... and pure bastardry. Obviously there are many shades of grey in between... and loose morals are not restricted to the male of the species. Though I never cease to be amazed at how many darlings have allowed their intimates to be photographed in their full glory during the heat of the moment... not that I'm complaining. Been fortunate to not associate with many hard core bitches... the inbuilt radar ensures an avoidance were ever possible.

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