Are there any reasons for playing relation breakups not common to other break ups?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  So she will play with a buddy but not when they break up and she's single? Sounds like there's something more to it.

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  luvsilver

  13 years ago

  Could be that the guy in her relationship was the one driving their play experiences and it is just something she was just going along with to keep him happy.   Or she is just not that comfortable going it alone at the moment.   Or she like the dynamics of four way play but three just doesn't do it for her.   Or there could be another 100 reasons going through her mind at this time.   Mr Luvsilver.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  There could be any number of reasons why she won't have alone play. But I guess if she changes her mind, she knows where and how to find you if she is motivated enough to do so. Maybe she just needs time to get things right in her head before heading back into the swinging scene....and it does help if everyone's mind is in the right place when it comes to play. :-)

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  rupamohan

  13 years ago

  Thanks for all replies but I think I couldn't put the topic the way I wanted. I am not from native english language back ground and sometimes may not be able to express clearly.The topic I wanted was let us say you have played with someone few times let us say at least 3 times...just to make sure you liked otherwise why will you play few times? And after that if your playing relation breaks...what can be the reasons for it assuming you and your ex playmates haven't stopped playing.I just gave example of one reason that happened with us. I am trying to understand other reasons why playing relation can break...I understand it is NSA there are no strings to be broken but why will it stop anyway.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Ok one theory could be that she only plays with her partner. Since she and her partner broke up - and she doesn't play alone, her play with you both has now ended. I have also heard of some people that play a certain amount of times with the same people and after a few times, they want to explore others (and there is nothing wrong with playing several times or wanting a change in my opinion). But she could also be taking time out for herself, wanting to re-evaluate how she wants to play with others or if she still wants to play at all. One question though: have you asked HER why she will not play with you again. You may get an answer you don't want to hear or it maybe favourable in the future, but at least everyone knows where they stand.

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  rupamohan

  13 years ago

  thank-you all!!!I just want to know different examples of why play relation can break after playing few times, when after break ex-playmates haven't stopped playing means playing but not with you.To give one example- I gave my example..how one of it broke up with us. I AM NOT LOOKING TO KNOW IN DEPTH REASON ABOUT OUR BREAKUP. If you read our profile..you will find we don't take that kind of personal interest in our playmates.I just want to know other examples...that means if you had a break up with your playmates...WHAT WAS YOUR REASON.Generally the type of post I create a bit open ended where I like to know different opinions. To contribute I start with giving my opinion but I am not looking for PPL to agree or disagree with me. Just share their experiences. Rarely my post are to seek a unique answer. It is just to know how others think.Sorry I think my english caused confusion!!! but the replies were still helpful..

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