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Are we being shallow
December 07 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
absolutely not! play the game in whatever way makes you the most comfortable. if others dont wish to share pics when asked, give them the flick.........the only people you are here to please is yourselves....stick to your guns. we demand at least the same before progressing to even meeting, let alone playing...........works for us!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well I'm sure there are some that ask "Who looks at the mantlepiece while stoking the fire?"There will be the usual "we don't want to be recognised". To really hit the nail on the head.1. They are ugly2. Don't have all their own teeth.3. Refer to point 1.
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RHP User
14 years ago
If they don't have face pix they are time wasters. We don't care about excuses. If people can't show Thier faces then how do they expect for anything to happen. We have heard a few excuses and no one is taking more risks here with Thier image and information than the next guy so they can either play fair, stop being difficult and weird, or get outta the way as we move on to the next couple lol. It's not crass or rude to ask so keep asking and weeding out the fakers. If they go cold after requesting face pix you were never really going to meet them in the first place.
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wannabyummymummy
14 years ago
the place of the faceless masses lolIt is not shallow at all, physical attraction (in all it's forms) is par for the course, of course you want to see what they look like otherwise how are you even going to recognize them when you do meet??Some will rant on about privacy (had those issues myself) but that is what PG is for, if you have chatted a bit and things are looking promising there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to see a face pic, those uncomfortable with that either a) are butt ugly and have something to hide, b) are just here to fantasize and waste your time or c) have some serious self image issues either way they have done you a favor, move on.Best thing is to get it out of the way early, exchange face pics within the first one or two messages if they are genuine and serious they wont have an issue with this if they are not then at least you know, just move on to the next one.I know there will be those out there who disagree with me or who think i am being harsh, but hey, that is my view and that is what the forums are all about.Good luck in your search guys, most of all, have fun WBYM
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RHP User
14 years ago
If the person or couple doesn't have a clear resent face pic. One where you can actually see the persons face. Where there face isn't hidden behind sunglasses or looking away. Then for us its no meeting. It's not much to ask . If they are not willing to make that small effort to get a reasonable face pic in there pg then why bother.No one wants a blind date !Tim
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TWOfourYOU
14 years ago
Hey guys, we are with you on this. We like to see the whole package! To go with this we always insist on a meet and greet first, which then completes the package. You then get to chat with them and see them in person. To us you have to get on and find each other interetsting and also attractive, which includes there face! lol So no you guys are not shallow at all!
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RHP User
14 years ago
A picture paints a thousand words so they say..we dont always get what we think on meeting the picture..
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think technically it is shallow... beauty is only skin deep and all that. But at the same time I definitely think it's ok here. You have to have a connection, and that includes a physical attraction. And everyone is to someone's taste!
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RHP User
14 years ago
If we don't see a face pic after message one or two then it is no more contact. If we are going to take the time and effort to reply or try to set up a meet, I want to know if it is worth it. We have been burned by old photos or photos with little resemblance on a few occasions and it is not worth the time and effort. I know a few couples that have thought we were really rude as we commented that they looked very different in person and left after one drink. It's really not worth the hassle, especially when we are exremely busy people and have to make time for any meets! I guess if that is shallow, then we are !
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RHP User
14 years ago
People are entitled to want to meet people they like the look of.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'wannabyummymummy'the place of the faceless masses lolIt is not shallow at all, physical attraction (in all it's forms) is par for the course, of course you want to see what they look like otherwise how are you even going to recognize them when you do meet??Some will rant on about privacy (had those issues myself) but that is what PG is for, if you have chatted a bit and things are looking promising there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to see a face pic, those uncomfortable with that either a) are butt ugly and have something to hide, b) are just here to fantasize and waste your time or c) have some serious self image issues either way they have done you a favor, move on. Was gonna reply to this thread but its already been said for me x1000.. I could not agree more! Have fun out there!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Anyone who expects us to play on say so or a scat profile pic, ( meaning obscured face and body ) has to be joking. If any person gets offended when we ask for a face pic, we wonder what it is they have to hide. Once we feel comfortable with someone, it seems a automatic response to exchange pics to gage a attraction . That goes both ways, they need to feel just as comfortable with us as we with them..So if thats being called shallow, then call us shallow.. I dont think we are..
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RHP User
14 years ago
We have had one no show, we did not have their face photos, they had ours and we planned to meet in a crowded bar. Then after we had been at the bar 10 minutes we get a text....sorry cold feet. So who were we really meeting....a genuine couple....or a creep? We didnt enjoy " being on show" either. We agree with everyone else....no face photo end of contact after its been requested and games are played.
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RHP User
14 years ago
It is normal. It is also a sensible thing to do. No good meeting someone and then finding out that you really cannot stand the person. I have my face pics in pg and I am happy to show those. No pics, no meet...too easy. Way too many people on this site misrepresent themselves. I dont want to meet someone who is fit, athletic and attractive only to find that yes...they were....ten years ago. Show me a pic or move on.
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RHP User
14 years ago
At the end of the day most of us are here to find people we are physically attracted to! Never meet people without seeing face and full body pics!x
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just recently i spent 2 weeks messaging and talking to some one. He sounded OMG! this is the one FB ive been looking for. His thoughts and voice were just ymmmmmy. However he always had an excuse for no photo of his face. l decided to meet him and ........................ we spent 20 mins together and he left. Talk about no physical attraction what so ever! Now i will not meet or even chat with out a face pic..... Who really has time to waste? Not me.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Its the way it is. I want more too.
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RHP User
14 years ago
While I'm sure some may wish to meet without seeing each other's faces, there is nothing shallow in requesting to see a person's face. Some people have particular desires in the faces of others - whether someone is being picky for stereotyped good or interesting looks, a desire for a gaze which can't be perceived in chest or cock shots, or just to check they have the desired number of heads, why not? Why would we deny each other our faces once we start talking and connecting unless there is something to hide?
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Mr_MrsJones
14 years ago
Well if you were in a bar or at a party would you go up to someone who had their back turned towards you and say "Hey you have a nice ass, lets go shag."? No. You might go up to them and once they turned around and you decided that their face wasn't that great then you would possibly swerve away. I presume you are not on here looking for someone to marry so why get all stressed about being shallow. You are looking for sex, no strings attached. Isn't that shallow in itself? And if you are honest and don't lead people on what is wrong with that? At the end of the day they are your naughty bits. You have the right to decide who has access to them and when and your selection criteria are none of anyone else's business.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I always need to see a face pic to see whether there'll be a connection or not. That's how I chose my man from the very beginning when I joined RHP. At parties, we've played with guys that are no oil paintings and non-sculpted bodies, but turned out to be quite impressive performers. In short, never judge a book by its cover.This has taught us not to be shallow in that sense. That everybody can contribute to our playtime in some way. Wish everyone posted the latest pics. There's no excuse with all these whizz bang technology to post pics more than 10 years old. Unless they suffered from overnight rapid ageing
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RHP User
14 years ago
if they dont have recent face and body shots available, we dont waste any more time on them. Yes its shallow fun for US. But who wants a sexy ankle/boob/butt on someone with a face like a "smashed crab" Get real time wasters
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RHP User
14 years ago
I must be the most Shallowed person on earth. But hey.. why beat around the bush?I need not only the female to excite my loins, but also excite my mind. (together would be rare, but i know if i find one, i'd start thinking about repenting my sins... * realizes where he is* .. ok maybe not :P )
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