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Are we that bad????
July 28 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
thanks for asking... Your profile doesn't really say much apart from that you like to fuck, and when you do you don't fuck single people. So if you're relying on your personality or profile to pull people - well there's not much to go on is there? People are more than happy to overlook size for personality, or that 'something' that sexy people, regardless of size, just have. But if you're just looking for sex without much more, then it's gotta be looks all the way doesn't it? . Then there is the thread about how Mrs C won't let Mr C have sex, whether it does or not is irrelevant, that makes me think there are a whole heap of hangups associated with you two. . Lastly - you imply that it's now time to start looking at bigger couples to play with... Does that mean you were excluding them from your list before? And if so... is it hypocritical to expect other couples not to?
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RHP User
14 years ago
After having just read a post from the two of you about your rules I wonder whether MrCNS should be involved at all??? It definately reads to me like its all about MrsCNS...while I respect everyone has their rules to be abided by there doesnt seem any point in another couple joining you when the only person the other wife is going to get to have penetrative sex with his her own husband...really whats the point??? . I was a much larger woman only 18 months ago and never had any problems with attracting people - I firmly believe its personality that swings people our way...so I dont believe that its your size that is scaring people away more the restrictive nature of what you are offering . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' thanks for asking... Your profile doesn't really say much apart from that you like to fuck, and when you do you don't fuck single people. So if you're relying on your personality or profile to pull people - well there's not much to go on is there? People are more than happy to overlook size for personality, or that 'something' that sexy people, regardless of size, just have. But if you're just looking for sex without much more, then it's gotta be looks all the way doesn't it? . Then there is the thread about how Mrs C won't let Mr C have sex, whether it does or not is irrelevant, that makes me think there are a whole heap of hangups associated with you two. . Lastly - you imply that it's now time to start looking at bigger couples to play with... Does that mean you were excluding them from your list before? And if so... is it hypocritical to expect other couples not to? Totally agree with you JG.... was my thoughts also. When it comes to larger females..." it is what floats ya boat" i am a smaller female and that is what turns me on someone like myself in build. Larger woman just don't do it for me or us as a couple. Personality also has a lot to do with it also!D&B
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sexslaves
14 years ago
we flirted you guys and got no reply not even a sorry but no as hubby likes bigger girls
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' thanks for asking... Your profile doesn't really say much apart from that you like to fuck, and when you do you don't fuck single people. So if you're relying on your personality or profile to pull people - well there's not much to go on is there? Agreed. This is going to sound lame, but there is no X-factor there. Nothing that demands attention. (MRS)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Frankly, I know you two have been around here for years and from the little I've seen of you both here and around the traps in real life, you're as wicked as sin itself. Maybe that's the problem... you're just too naughty for your own good.. it's obvious to me, you're just more fun than most of these beginners would dare to handle. I think you'd better stick to the hard and true converts.HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
It made me smile when I read a profile that stated "To all those out there that think they are better than us, Have a look in the mirror" Other profiles say they are looking for "younger than what they are?". Because we look younger than we are lol! We imagine over 100kg is similar to over 50 yrs, and not being bisexual it gets harder. (95% of couples the female is bi and we reckon 80% are compulsory female bi encounter) We do find most winks and messages we get are from couples where the female is very big, that in itself confirms what you suspect they are obviously trying harder. Your answer unfortunately lays in that recent thread "shooting above your mark" most on that thread admitted they do rather than equals. We are thinking about new photos and submit them for voting on, rate my photo type thing, and lift the bars on presentation and only have photos that score well rather than reality photos.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well, I think you are beautiful and, from our chats, you seem like you're fun as well. I can't wait for us to meet. luv, Jen xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
cnsfelswat ,.... let's see your profile say's, talk, meet, play ? We sent you a msg, and two flirts. In return you sent back a flirt . How do you expect anyone to get to know you ? Personally we have had very limited success on here, not because of anything else but trying to keep track of who we have sent msg's to and who has replied, you have to send out 30 msg's to find one who'll reply . If you can communicate you are half way to meeting someone, if your interesting & fun, your there! Is it so hard to communicate ????
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ok guys sorry for those of you that have sent us flirts and messages that we have'nt replied to but we keep on loosing all our flirts and messages and our friends list aswell.Ok time to clear some things up aswell as our profile says about the playing part, thats only because my partner and an ex of also played like this and she was badly hurt by him,, ( the stray dick sindrome ) Thats why its 90% on my part about no sexual penertration with other females, and if that does'nt suit you tuff look sles where. We are mainly on here for her pleasure not mine I could'nt careless if i screw another female,,, sorry if i sound rude or blunt but thats our situation. Sexslaves sorry but we did'nt get your flirt and sorry if you feel like we ignored you,thats not what we are about,,, CHEERS STALKY, and jenny it's going to be very soon xxx ooo and as for the part about bigger couples thats only on behalf of miss cns and how she feels. So if you want to know anything else about us just ask cheers mr cns.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Like attracts like. We have been on here for a while, no pics,( we email them) however when we approach people have no problem hooking up. Attraction is what it's all about after all is said and done, we don't find anything attractive about your profile!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Whats those small raised lumps about 1.5mm dia on your cock photo?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'cnsfelswat' There is one word used in many many relationships and being in a swinging life it is all that more important TRUST!!!!!!!Burnt by one does not mean all guys are the same.(mrs) D&B(Ok time to clear some things up aswell as our profile says about the playing part, thats only because my partner and an ex of also played like this and she was badly hurt by him,, ( the stray dick sindrome ) Thats why its 90% on my part about no sexual penertration with other females)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well if you really want to know what those lumps are it's from ipl treatment i had about three months ago and thats the side affect from it.Hey but thanks for asking justenough
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RHP User
14 years ago
We understand where your coming from cnsfelswat being a larger couple too... I have read different topics on these types of things and have on a number of occasions re worded our profile to get the attention... but still people just are not interested... so that leaves us to believe some people just cant see past the larger side of life!!! Good luck on your search you look like a cute cpl and Im sure you guys will find your fun
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rupamohan
14 years ago
We tried once we were finding it diffcult to physically come closer... We had a feeling it may be diffcult for them to look after the hygiene side. I have to say that this is just our opnion..it may not apply in many situations...nd who knows it shows our limitation to understand others and just being judgemental. But I simply wrote what I feel. We are always learning and updating our opnions...lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well me being me as Mr I luv larger girls they are the sexiest but i also know that alot of people out there do not like larger girl. But us being us we know its not for all and we know that larger men are also not for all. We do not fear as a couple Tryit3
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi guys, You look like fun but i have to say i agree with some of what has been said so far. 1. it's best to put your best foot forward and you haven't with your profile. There's nothing there of any real interest, nothing that really shows your personality or who you are. 2. Pics of dicks or pussies with "stuff" on them are SCARY. People don't like to see funky genitals dude. Take it off. 3. The cold hard facts is that it's a shallow world. A relationship demands that what you are favouring is personality and character. A fuck is shallow and so the requirements for most people are shallow. Looks and chemistry tend to come at the top of the list. Look everyone is entitled to their taste. I have turned my nose up at people because they were not my type physically and i have not been to someones taste and that's perfectly reasonable from either side. We are entitled to want to feel highly sexually attracted to our sexual partners and if someone doesn't find you appealing because of your weight then so be it. There are things that you turn your nose up at, everyone has those and whatsmore they are looks related too. You are entitled to your sexual partner being in white hot lust for you, why would you accept less? Anyhoo, my two cents worth. xx Kitty
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RHP User
14 years ago
ok. thanks to all your comments, opinions and suggestions. Mrs Cns here. I am a bubbly, outgoing, happy personality. I absolutely love the attention of a strong man or a soft woman. I dont really have any hang ups about my body except for the revealing marks that read IVE HAD A COUPLE OF KIDS.... I am sexy and love to fuck, I just dont like my hubby to fuck anyone else. We have an understanding and he has a fantasy which is why we are on here. He believes sharing is caring and I believe sharing can sometimes lead to heartache and pain which is the reason why I am always cautious about the people we meet or the people we speak to. I personally am not looking to meet only larger couples, looks to me are not the be all and end all to sexual chemistry. frankly I'd much rather a self assured, intelligent, happy, smiling persons dick to suck, pussy to lick or tongue to fuck. Looks have a lot... but attitude says a lot and means a lot more. I am not just on here to fuck or lick. I am far too interested in conversation and learning more about others and their experiences and their fantasies. We both would like to form friendships with the people we meet. for me this is a tool to assist in meeting like minded people first and foremost and anything that happens over and above that is a complete BONUS. Cheers people!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I (Mrs) had a read through as it is usualy me that does most of the messenging to couples (R works out at Sea so I am on the computer more). I do agree with what alot of people have said. We wouldn't contact you based on your profile as it tells us nothing about you as people. Your pictures don't tell u much about you either, they just don't grab my attention and they leave nothing to the imagination, or to 'discover'. I like a little bit of mystery and sexiness to unravel who that person is. I guess when we meet people we like to know a little about any shared/common intrests, even if it is just small talk, at least we are meeting them as 'people' not just fuck objects..Does that make sense? I am not putting you guys down at all, just answering your original question. I do like that you have a face pic up - that is always a positive! Now, you are making me wonder about our profile? I would love another couples/single peoples opinion on ours!!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Mrs C, i just don't understand someone not being permitted to play when their spouse insists upon the privelidge. Sure if it's absoloutly their choice and that partner says, "i really dont' want to but you go ahead" that's another thing. My hubby and i both have the option but i have the much higher drive so he rarely takes the option that is automatically his. But you are further cutting down your options when you add that to the mix as well. People are going to want to play with him too for the better part, particulary since the man aint fugly AND that's generally (not always) how couples play. So you're limiting your pool of already limited people. I don't understand. And i'm sorry but as i said, personality, and all the other fabulous attributes does not count for a lot of people who just want to fuck you. This is not a dating service, this is all shallow, "geez he/she's hot, i want to that person. They are not thinking about what a wonderful, kind, thoughtful, outgoing etc..... person you are first off. These are all definately important and certainly are taken into consideration but if i dont' fancy someone no matter the reason, I'm not going to shag them; no matter how much of a lovely person they are. They will make a lovely friend if i am blessed enough to have them and some other lucky person who fancies them will give them the passion they are due. I can't pretend and the quality of the person doesnt' replace natural levels at a primal level of attraction. xx Kitty
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'michnruss' I (Mrs) had a read through as it is usualy me that does most of the messenging to couples (R works out at Sea so I am on the computer more). I do agree with what alot of people have said. We wouldn't contact you based on your profile as it tells us nothing about you as people. Your pictures don't tell u much about you either, they just don't grab my attention and they leave nothing to the imagination, or to 'discover'. I like a little bit of mystery and sexiness to unravel who that person is. I guess when we meet people we like to know a little about any shared/common intrests, even if it is just small talk, at least we are meeting them as 'people' not just fuck objects..Does that make sense? I am not putting you guys down at all, just answering your original question. I do like that you have a face pic up - that is always a positive! Now, you are making me wonder about our profile? I would love another couples/single peoples opinion on ours!!!! You're both cute and your profile has a good amount of info about the personal/personality side of yourselves and what you're looking for. I dont' think you have any problem getting dates
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hugs and thank you :) You are such a nice presence in the forums ..Welcome back! xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thank you hunni, you gorgeous wee lollypop sucking minx xxxxx Kitty Quoting 'michnruss'Hugs and thank you :) You are such a nice presence in the forums ..Welcome back! xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think you guys are just cutting out a good percentage of fellow swingers by not going all the way. It's naturally your choice to not allow penetration between Mr and the other woman (and I would think most couples who yearn for FMF would see this a close and wonderful option) but in general, swinging couples enjoy swapping sex so you're only offering half the goods to some people I guess?Irrespective of size, I think I personally would probably prefer to see what other couples are out there than meet a couple with restrictions (including couples who only want girl/girl play).Maybe you guys should target couples who are more into FMF play?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hey.. wtf?? RHP helpline has moved to Sydney... and participates in forums? Are you in the hunt? I gotta say.. that's new! C'mon.. change your avatar.. to sommat a little more... appropriate. We can;t have our Sydney swingers getting around in their civies after dark! HUgsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Wonders if we are naughtier over this side of pond and need closer eyes/hands/control on!
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