Are women honest about size.

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  playfulminx

  16 years ago

  You can't handle the truth! lolSorry - I'm kidding of course, but every woman knows that even the most secure man will have issues with his penis and size. As a result, we don't so much as lie or be dishonest about your penis size: we are diplomatic and polite. Clearly your ex loved or cared about you enough to say that your penis size was perfect for her, most likely because you no doubt have a complex about it that she knew about. In most cases, your penis probably was the right size for her.At the end of the day, a smaller dick is a smaller dick and there's no point pretending that it's not. As long as you don't carry on like a pork chop about it, nor will we. We'll work with what we're given and only the most strict size queens won't derive any pleasure from sub 7-inch cocks. I don't know how sexually experienced or how 'Chinese' your ex is but I'm guessing she hasn't had the chance to really enjoy a liberated sex life in her adulthood so I doubt the issue is really about your penis size. Given that, don't look at this issue as being about yourself. Perhaps your partner just has some sexual yearnings and got carried away and did things behind your back. That's her only crime in this matter.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  personally, if the guy is a good lover, in every way, then size really doesn't matter, within reason...I do have my limits.   I don't like it too big either, but only with lovers who don't know how to use it. Too small, same thing.   and i definitely wouldn't tell a guy he's too small, he's probably already aware of it anyway. I'd feel like a total bitch to prey on a person's insecurities.   unless your wife is a completely superficial bitch, I doubt she would have left you because your cock is too small for her standards. she married you right knowing full well the size of your appendage...?

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Is it just me or is there something else at play here? She sounds like she wasn't into you.....atleast not sexually...maybe you look after her other needs or something. Drop that fucker like a rock. i personally have 0 tolerance for cheating. Oh and get yourself checked out. VD clinic here you come.....

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Some people enjoy having multiple partners, variety, excitement, adventure and after a while become secretly addicted to the thrill of secrecy too.I believe it has nothing to do with the size or your style of lovemaking etc.They probably will do exactly the same with a guy who is BIG , handsome, and ticks all the boxes.Some people are only with one soul or companion at the time and some with more.It's a matter of luck and choice in the beginning what type you end up with.My first partner was similar.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  thank you so far for the open and honest replies, i do appreciate it. I have no luck with girls and in fact i am scared to have sex again. I try my hardest to be nice in messages etc. i always hid my size and photos in profile, except face pic. which i removed after i got no responses from my messages.   I have tried everything i know of to just be myself, it just doesnt cut it. so yes now my insecurities are taking over.   Ive never really had mates that can "help" me find a girl or give me daying advice, i tend to just try to be nice to a girl and dont know how to take it further. i really must seem like i dont have a clue.   dont relaly know why i chose here to be open about this but just have to talk to someone. dont care what people think, as its not like im going to get anything of this site. or any as ive joined them all but this is the only site i can actually get other peoples ideas, opinions etc.   any tips?

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Stick around the forums, get to no people that way, I don't like the chat rooms personally so i don't use them, others might go well in them though.I tend to believe in sarcasm as a form of attracting interest, online or in real life. No-one likes serious people. Take the piss and have a good time, you never no, people might just want to talk to you.Nice guys not only finish last, but also creep alot of women out, ask any woman about 'nice guys' and they'll all have a story. Don't get me wrong, being a decent person is different to being an asshole. Be witty/funny and a little cocky, have  serious side but don't take yourself to seriously, most of all, be confident, very few women are attracted to needy clingy men, and if they are attracted to that, its for there own dominant reasons.

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