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Are you a sleepover kinda person..or not?
April 11 2015
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love my bedspace so kick my partners out, but I have spent the night with one lovely guy, so I know I could get used to it again. But I dont arrange a playdate with an all nighter in mind. Sleeping/cuddling with someone is very intimate and very much nicer in an exclusive relationship,
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RHP User
11 years ago
i enjoy cuddling and/or just laying about in bed, so quite like sleepovers or at least not jumping out of bed straight away.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I like sleepovers with lovely guys. More sexy fun times of course. I like sex in the morning as well. If they are a play partner and I am exploring with them sexually then yes I like sleep overs for sure. Fantasies and things can take time to set up and play out. Over nighters are fun, I think.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Freya , I love my space and like to read a book or have a play on my mobile, back when I was younger and had a few sleepovers I just didn't get a good nights sleep, maybe to busy worrying if I was going to snore or sleep talk, However with the right person i think It could be wonderful. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Arms n legs in the bed, sleeping on the side of the mattress, but not for any sexy reasons.... I love waking up to TM and feeling his smooth skin against mine, his breath against my neck as I'm waking, his hands caressing me as I stretch, then find my ribs for a quick tickle lol, I agree it is a very intimate act, in saying that though I do have a fantasy of waking between 2 hot bodies, not necessarily from an overnighter though ;) perhaps a very active sexy session has left everyone exhausted and a 20 minute power nap, sorts everyone out for round 4 ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not usually the first time I have someone over, though I'm happy to when in a hotel or the other person's home. I love to cuddle and spoon, and I agree that (for me anyway) can be much more intimate than sex.
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Hottie1
11 years ago
And I agree Freya and Meander, yes there is a high level of intimacy in the sleepover but you can always alleviate morning after awkwardness with more hot sex ;) I've done the hotel, my home and the home of a buddy. My favorite is the hotel because it's neutral territory but also feels like a mini holiday! I love cuddling, spooning and am very tactile, so always do a lot of touching and some of my best sleepovers in fact had very little sleep going on ;) Couples sleepovers are incredibly sexy as are the sleepovers with some very sexy men! I got a text from the wife of one of my sexy lovers, she reminded me to take care of him because it was his first ever sleepover without her- too cute! And take care of him I did 😜😘 Mary xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Morning Glory-to awaken with the warmth of someone next to you to cuddle and spoon and the natural progression too..Sadly but a fading memory x
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gazpacho
11 years ago
I like my own bed and my sleep apnea machine. Hugs Gazpax
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MissBishere
11 years ago
sleepovers. Mostly when I have traveled interstate one or two have stayed over in the hotel room but have left really early in the morning. The ones at my house have been interstate travelers to. while I love morning sex I generally have preferred partners to go home as I can be insatiable and like to masterbate after they leave and it takes ages for me to come down after sex/orgasms and get to sleep.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think sleeping with someone is extremely intimate, and whether I can do a sleep over or not, depends on the level of intimacy I have with someone - and that's usually reserved for relationships. For FWB or similar, then no - can't do sleep overs. I can't sleep with someone in my bed, or camping out in theirs - and boy do I enjoy a good nights sleep. This does mean I miss out on my favourite time to have sex - middle of the night. *grumble* If I could - I'd do all my meets in the middle of the day. But of course, that's not practical. So I do have to deal with the awkwardness of kicking someone out. "Oh look at the time... I've such a big day tomorrow", Yawn. Meep.
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RHP User
11 years ago
... and I love my bedspace, so I got me a great big fuck-off king-sized bed. You can snuggle and spoon, then slip away and have your own space. Rinse and repeat. I really like that aspect of a sleepover -- slipping in and out of consciousness, midnight pashing, dreamlike fucking... you want to make sure you don't have a lot on the following day though...
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RHP User
11 years ago
that sleeping with one is a art form and she wasn't talking about sex I work shift work so rarely is the sleepover even a issue as I have meets at all hours If I had someone permanent in my life there is every chance Id be crawling into bed as they were jumping out, but I've never objected to the "ships passing in the night "quickie I do miss the spooning and cuddles of the next morning, but like the OP I am a person who because of the shift, and the fact that I'm on different time from others I'm often watching TV, reading, studying, eating, on RHP in bed. Plus after several years of not having a permanent partner, I definitely sleep in the middle of the bed and sprawl all over it and I've finally got my doona temperature just right. Hard to share now
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
As much as I love morning, mid morning, lunch, afternoon and all night sex. I can only do one night and then I need my time, to gather my thoughts and enjoy my come down/drop. So I don't wish to have someone sleep over all the time and I would probably rather sleep over at someone's else's place, that way I can leave when I need too.... So just occasionally sleepover would be lovely....💋
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
had a sleepover with a guy. But want to try one. Be cool to be hammered first thing in the morning and then go into man mode. Have breakfast together, talk deeply about the footy results or......talk about absolutely nothing with both of us happy about that!
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MsJonesy
11 years ago
I love sleepovers, but they are only had with people who are pretty special to me and with whom there is already a level of intimacy established. Its not going to happen with just anyone that's for sure.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The sensation of waking... exhausted... aching and elated... to find a warm body next to you... all soft and tender. That same body that you shared sweat, hard work, bodily fluids, languorous stares and ecstasy...
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RHP User
11 years ago
A hotel... crisp sheets... room service and hotel staff to clean up the mess after a big night... and day...ah the memories... wax freshly flaked from a body... wet sheets from a squirting body... sticky bits and pieces... spilled wine glasses... ah... anyone want to join me... lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Never
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RHP User
11 years ago
There's only one man who gets to sleep in my bed and I am 100% comfortable with him. I can do hotels because, as previously stated, that's neutral territory. But even then, it has to be someone I like very much to want to spend the night cuddled up to them. Interestingly like Lovinit, I have a limit on how much time I can spend with anyone in my home. Three days seems to be my limit and then I get antsy. It's made me realise that I'm probably never going to want to live with someone again...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Love them BUT I usually wake up with a hangover
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RHP User
11 years ago
My preference is yes to sleepovers..... but that is dictated by a number of factors. Why wouldn't you want to wake beside that person you enjoyed the night before with and do it again.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well considering I am a guy that loves intimacy, I like the sleepover thing. Just allows for a different form of quality time which I do seek. Not perturbed if I have to leave though.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Doesn't happen much with age difference but has on about 3 occasions. Have to say none were great, disappointing to say the least, i, like many other mature women, am insatiable and have trouble finding the off switch, and can't understand how any guy could sleep when there's better things to be doing. Most bizarre was a guy who spent most of one night teasing me, dom fashion, drove me wild, i was so horny, i would have done anything for him, he would tease, then leave me laying there and go to the kitchen to eat for a while, but strangely never culminated in much, then he slept until i hauled him out of bed at 3pm the next day, i had things to so and was pissed off i was still unsatisfied, what was the point. I thought he might be building me up for a future bondage session but haven't heard from him, just not that into me maybe? Who knows, who cares, but bizarre - Posted from rhpmobile
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
Morning and through the night sex is the best and I'm particularly fond of being wrapped up and snoozing between MrParadise and my gentleman caller for the night.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It had never occurred to me that sleeping over would be a more intimate act than sex for a lot of people. This is really fascinating. I love the window these forums can give into how other people think and feel, it gives you a perspective and understanding that's quite hard to come by in any other way. For my part, although I certainly don't always want to have a sleepover and I really value my own time, I don't think I'd ever fuck anyone I wouldn't potentially want to share my bed with for the night.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sleepovers are exciting if it's mutual, don't forget the person sleeping over will be considering how it will work also. Could I do it now having been single for years,,, YES absolutely, but could I do it longer term,, Hmmm not to sure !! Maybe just at weekends if lucky. What I miss though is morning intimacy, the touching, kissing, cuddling and fun play, ( can't beat a good old pillow fight ) or better still morning sex, it's a good way to start the day. Bacon and eggs before you get up....Wow.. Yes please
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Keepitsimple72' I have a limit on how much time I can spend with anyone in my home. Three days seems to be my limit and then I get antsy. It's made me realise that I'm probably never going to want to live with someone again... Same!
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RHP User
11 years ago
While I agree that sleeping over is definitely an intimate thing and probably relationship territory, I don't think there is anything better than rolling over for a cuddle after sex and then off to sleep. Can always wake up again in a few hours and do it all again. Morning sex is also awesome.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I find when I am the +1 or we perhaps had a +1 over that I prefer that I or they don't stay over. I have had too many weird cuddle moments which generated unexpected jealously from partners :( If its one on one, then it was special cause we have a connection so staying over tends to be the right thing to do.
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RHP User
11 years ago
i would love to wake up with a guy in to morning but i start work to early in the morning an that turns guys of stay the night
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RHP User
11 years ago
Love waking up next to a lady.... I want to do it all over again ;-) Mrs RF x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
And I am more than happy for lovers to go home or to Go sleep in the spare bed. As for staying at other people's houses... Never do it. I don't like sleeping with other people as a general rule. There is only one man who has slept in my bed who I was 100% comfortable with him being there.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Cuddling & spooning after an intense session then falling asleep wrapped together is beautifully intimate.....as I'm an early riser everyday anyway, there is nothing better than slowly waking someone for slow morning sex....then make us a coffee & if we feel like it, doze off again,shower together, then out for brunch ..... yummy way to spend a Sunday me thinks
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him_and_me
11 years ago
We very much like the idea of a night out in a hotel room with a lover. Given it is such a rarity for us with a young family, it is something to be savoured. I particularly find it so incredibly indulgent being able to spend time slowly exploring another body. Getting to do it all again when we wake is just icing on the self indulgent cake :) I wouldn't do it with every partner, but as others have said, if it were someone I was totally comfortable with, then it would be very exciting. Him - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I do love if a girl feels so comfortable with me that she naturally sleeps in my arms (from being exhausted after sex hehe). Regardless of any relationship, that shows a level of human connection that I like to achieve. It implies trust and confidence as well. I usually offer an invitation if it's late or if she's too tired to drive. I can see that guys love sleepovers more than girls here. I think society got it all wrong :p Morning sex is also very very sexy... slowly kissing and waking up at the same time... a bit dreamy, tired, fresh, confused and relying mostly on sex instincts. If someone is great at sex in the morning, that person is great at sex at all times :p
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Keepitsimple72' There's only one man who gets to sleep in my bed and I am 100% comfortable with him. I can do hotels because, as previously stated, that's neutral territory. But even then, it has to be someone I like very much to want to spend the night cuddled up to them. Interestingly like Lovinit, I have a limit on how much time I can spend with anyone in my home. Three days seems to be my limit and then I get antsy. It's made me realise that I'm probably never going to want to live with someone again... exceptional rule, rules by exception, exceptions to the rule
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RHP User
11 years ago
but only with very special friends. I very much enjoy the sensual touching, cuddling and kissing after sex - and sometimes a whispered chat into the wee hours of the morning. Shaz
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sleeping with a partner may reduce the production of cortisol. A key hormone that is related to stress and anxiety. I'm all for it. As long as you're aware of the other persons boundaries.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Like some of the women before on this subject it is a more intimate place to be than sex.. Ffs.. I'm unconcious when asleep so have to trust you. I've been jumped on and attacked by men several times in my life when asleep and had other bad experiences so I am not comfortable sleeping with someone unless I KNOW I'm safe.. On every level. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Never in 7 years did i have a sleep over with any of my play partners. One guy passed out in my bed once so i slept on the couch and one was in a group situation and we all passed out drunk lol. I recently started seeing a guy. He begged for weeks for me to stay the night. It took a lot of convincing for me to finally say yes... i was there every night any way only going home to sleep lol. But for me it was the emotional side of things. Cuddling up to someone and falling asleep in their arms is SO intimate to me. I guess i just had to wait for the right guy to break my walls down to get me to do it. Now i sleep at his place almost every night! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
and they are people who understand me and respect what I do and don't want. These people know that I have complete trust and faith in them (and their relationship), and that one sleep over doesn't mean I want anything more than that moment. It is a huge thing for me, and takes a while for me to feel that comfortable, but once on that level they are friends as well as lovers and will be in my life forever - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hottie1
11 years ago
To wake up sandwiched between two hunky men or women, both exploring my body .....a girl can only hope! 😍 Mary xx
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CompersionCouple
11 years ago
It depends on the person & how comfortable u feel with them. We 'be been lucky enough to have met a gorgeous girl late last year who's been having regular sleepovers with us. To wake up early in the morning & have more amazing sex is just heaven for us. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Well, it really depends. I take time to connect with people and will normally not go to bed on first or second meet,. Normally. Sleepovers are very intimate and trust is an issue. I will only allow sleepovers at my place with someone I really feel comfortable with and have my regular playmates do the sleepover thing and it is nice. I like spooning and cuddles and even morning sex... who doesn't after a big night of hot sex. I have done the sleepover with men in a nice hotel (either I or them travelling for work interstate) but only for those I have connected with. Again, safety is an issue. Most of the time, if I am not comfortable, I will let them know that they can't stay. It is good that most men I have met do not take it for granted they will do the sleepover. Quite respectable of them and I credit that from the screening process and being patient in getting to know them before jumping into bed with them. There are still a lot of nice gentlemen on this site, we just need to take time to find them. They are not necessarily the ones with ripping abs and muscles, but some have them. But to those i have in my bed, they are just delicious to have their strong arms wrap around me, caressing my body in the middle of the night, and kiss the back of my neck oh so sensually... hmmmm
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