rupamohan

rupamohan

M56 F51

Are you known by the frens you keep?

December 22 2011

We met a cpl who were all good but for one reason they had very poor hygiene, the girl was stinking like hell. Some other cpls also had similar exp with this cpl..now this cpl is in frenlist of few (not many) members. When any of these members approach us...I simply stop going any further...but I also want to be fair to others. Tell me how you will react?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    WHAT ????

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    When we use to accept friends lists, some we had never and probably never will meet. We found a lot dont want to meet and play, they are happy with swapping photos.   A tad tuff writing someone off due to friends lists........ So you guys dont like fish then?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    The unspoken rule for anyone wanting to meet another couple or anyone for that matter, first priority should be to be squeaky clean full stop. How much time and effort does it take to thoroughly shower and clean one's self... Its totally unacceptable to expect anything but.. We would pass.. for good.. Only tells you if they dont care about their own hygiene what would they care about passing something more sinister onto others..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    if you dont like someone, thats fair enough. you dont even need to say why.... but maybe you should ask these others what their experiences were like, with the couple in question, before arbitrarily writing them off.....perhaps they are friends, but may not have ever been playmates? if you feel you cant play with the playmates of this couple, then move on. its absolutely ok to make that choice, but dont assume........or you might miss out on something very enjoyable...........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    gee wizz hey, first time last minute unreciprocated fun can be a bit "strange", but curiousity did kill the cat you know?? (or dodger)!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    If the boot was on the other foot, and YOU were guilty by association, how would YOU react?? Just because one couple don't wish to shower more than once a year, doesn't mean their friends practice it as well.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'If the boot was on the other foot, and YOU were guilty by association, how would YOU react?? Just because one couple don't wish to shower more than once a year, doesn't mean their friends practice it as well. Yep! We have been written off because of a friend or two that we have. We think it's incredibly naive and stupid to be honest. But on the other hand, if these people are so quick to judge, then they are probably not for us anyways. Onwards and upwards!! XXX

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    If I thought someone was not particularly nice and I saw they were friends with someone, I'd probably show a little caution. But I'd not make it an overriding rule.It's also worth noting that while some of us, me included, are quite picky about the folk we have on our friends list, not everyone is. In which case making judgements is less fair..I wonder what hell smells like??@rupamohan - Give your posts a read over before you click submit to make sure it says what you think. I had to read that a few times before i got what you meant.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    There's a couple of exceptions there, being Jennylee and her playmates but there's no hygiene issues there. Actually, I'd be pleased to be judged by my friend list.