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Asking a girl out..version 2 !

November 29 2009

In regards to casually_casual's thread on asking out a girl he already knows very well for a long time who OBVIOUSLY has the hots for him..duuurrr!! I've decided to start a thread for the women of RHP to tell us exactly how guys like me...who clearly are not as fortunate as Casually is to have a hot girl making it clear as hell she wants you....how to ask a complete hot stranger out in under say 3 minutes. The scenario is along the lines of....you're on the tram, cute girl sitting alone,looks at you but no reaction,goes back to her book or looking out the window.The heart beats faster and your breath is taken away as you try to pick your jaw up off the ground.You're freaking out because she's gorgeous but you have no idea at all how to approach her, get her attention without the filthy " fuck off loser" look and score a date with her actual real mobile number before you have to get off the tram. So ladies...thats just one example...there are many others.The girl in the check out line, or the check out chick,the secretary at the dentist or his assistant,a female friends mate who just happened to be around at her house whenyou dropped by to pick up something etc etc etc. Tell a guy like me with my looks...clearly not a Ken Doll 6ft tall player or Twilight Wolfboy with the rippling muscles, how to score that dreamgirl who steals my heart and air in my lungs.I only have this fleeting one moment to change my future, but I've already coppoed the bitchy sideways look of " don't you dare" and not a welcoming smile.....who do I turn it around so she's begging for me to be her man?? Serious advice for a serious guy who's lacking bigtime in the "Hotness' department.

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RHP User

16 years ago

I think the fact that she looked and was expressionless, say it all! save yourself the grief and stay away. Cheers Nev

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16 years ago

Just say hi, and ask where she is going. Then KEEP the conversation going. Don't let uncomfortable silence happen, and don't talk fast and over run the conversation. After about 5 mins say that you have get going but you'd like to see her again. From there you get her number. I'm a geek, so I tend to ask for MSN or Facebook accounts. Most girls seem more likely to give them out than their number. The thing is man.. even if the girl actually does think you're a fkn loser most people will be polite and talk to people. Think of how many times you've seen a someone bailed up by a drunk fuck head and they're still nice to them. I haven't had a girl give me the 'fuck off loser' look since high school. Unfortunately for most of us there was at least one occasion that happened and it's freaked more guys out than girls could ever imagine.

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RHP User

16 years ago

she didnt wanna go out wiht me so obviously not have the hots for me enough L:(good luck whitey hope you get the girl you're looking for

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16 years ago

Be light hearted......make her smile.. Gotta be able to accept rejection...we all get it......But you don't know till you try.. kisses sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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RHP User

16 years ago

Professional !

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16 years ago

Hi sweetpetite....im with you on that one..kileetrev.........lmaotrish...one is never old...lol.. I once met a guy on a train....mmmm

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RHP User

16 years ago

if shes reading a book ,go up and offer her some tissues and say'' youll be needing these the next page is really sad''this tell her many things, 1/ you can read 2/ you have feelings 3/ you can afford a box of tissues 4/your a nice guy, but if she plays hard ball and comes out with, '' you could always eat shit and drop dead that will make me happy agian'' you then reply with,'' Is that a invite to dinner at your house? OK but i must confess i already know were you live'', she says,''YOU WHAT !!,'' ''You live in my heart and there is only room for one!,'' Oh she saids, '' Maybe it will be easier if you find a corner, then crawl up you ass and wait for me, ill come right on down,'' then you shake her hand and say,'' Deal! ill there there at 7,'' then you spin and walk towards youll waiting mates giving the thumbs up, and they go'' YOU THE MAN''

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RHP User

16 years ago

Love it Sorrento! Casual...I haven't kept updated with your thread, but I'm sorry she turned you down hon...silly girl ;) Whitehawk...a random chance meeting like on a tram - if you've already copped a bitchy sideways 'don't you dare' look and an unwelcoming smile then, dare I say it, but she isn't interested in you! In fact, she's not just not interested either way, she is not interested full stop! The only thing you'll manage to do in under 3 minutes is make a dick out of yourself and give yourself some more ammo as to why you think women are superficial because you're 'lacking in the hotness department' and some babe wouldn't give you the time of day. I totally get that you have a very particular 'type' of women that you are attracted to - all good, all cool....but, please afford the women you are attracted to the same consideration and just accept that you aren't their type. It's not being superficial - well, no more than you are by only being attracted to a certain type of girl - it's just the way life is. I just have no idea why on earth you would want to be with someone who could be so shallow and bitchy anyway. I'm sure there are women of your type out there who think that you are their type too...you will know her when she smiles sweetly at you when she catches you looking at her. S xox

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16 years ago

Sorrento.....you rock!!! Too funny... thxs heymumma.. sonsie..you are so right hun..xxx hugs swweetpetite41 xxx

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RHP User

16 years ago

Whitehawk dude...great post and great question...and great to see the change in your language too...patience mate...have patience...and you shall get what you are looking for...and keep trying...cheersjose...

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RHP User

16 years ago

Whitehawk, it still seems that you are looking for a magic wand that will make women like you the way you are now, when I get the impression that deep down inside you really don't like yourself. You need to become a more confident man who doesn't care when a pretty young girl doesn't show interest, and develop a great sence of humour. The best flirting techniques are done on the fly, not something you can memorise and quote, it's too fake that way. So stop fishing for gimmicks and quick fixes and go and get some life coaching to become, in your mind heart and soul, the type of guy women want to meet.RHG

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