Asking a good friend to be a fuck bubby

Comments

• 

  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Not a good idea. Trust me keep good friends and sex seperate. Just my opinion formed by experience.

  reply

  like

• 

  boxestotick

  6 years ago

  Get drunk and blame it on the alcohol!

  reply

  like

• 

  EarthQueen

  6 years ago

  Just ask directly. It seems to me that most men like the straight up approach. Maybe through text so he has time to process it and is not put on the spot face to face.

  reply

  like

• 

  MsSuperFoxy

  6 years ago

  Keep friends and play friends seperate. It turns to shit (most cases it does), you've ruined a friendship. Friendships always over write sex. Ms Foxy

  reply

  like

• 

  MsSuperFoxy

  6 years ago

  Mr or Mrs as this makes a huge difference...need to ask yourselves and think things through with a lot more communication between you both like, what happens if feelings develop? If hes not agreeable, then what? Who gets what out of having a threesome? Will it be just a one off threesome or long term? Will it effect his other relationships and yours with mutual friends? Ms Foxy

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Not speaking from experience, but if really good friends I’d do coffee or s drink with wifey approaching him via communication first. Obviously with hubby’s approval. That way your friend won’t be intimidated and probably communicate better with a female and confirm either way. Gosh I’ve got a few mates who’s wives I adore. 😱

  reply

  like

• 

  FeistyFatty

  6 years ago

  I say don't. From personal experience being the person approached (both with my hubby as a couple and as a solo female).... i said no on both occasions and shortly after lost those friendships.

  reply

  like

• 

  MsSuperFoxy

  6 years ago

  Really? 🤔 Ms Foxy

  reply

  like

• 

  Mask_007

  6 years ago

  Iwouldn't. Like mentioned before if turns bad. You lost a friend and a sex partner. In my opinion is too much to loose.

  reply

  like

• 

  JohnAnn2227

  6 years ago

  We have a close friend (John's mate) who has gone through a nasty divorce and who we supported all the way. There was many a night when he would be over for dinner and end up crying and sleeping in our spare room. His feeling of self-worth was gone and he had no confidence. He couldn't see why any woman would want to go out with him ( 6 ft 2 reasonably fit, intelligent, handsome but didn't see any of this himself). John actually suggested asking him to join us in a threesome or even just Steve and I getting it on with John's blessing to give him some confidence. I didn't need persuading and we put it to him. He already knew that we were swingers and so when we suggested partying one night he was open to at least having a nude spa and a few drinks and seeing how it would go.Well, that's what we did one night and we ended up having a great threesome and have been having regular ones since (about 8 months now). From that experience he now has confidence and has dated a few girls and has come to a few private swinger parties with us.For us it worked but we were already very close and had 100% trust.Ann

  reply

  like

• 

  boxestotick

  6 years ago

  Mr Foxy! Yes I am! How many members first swinging experiences started from a drunken night with friends. If you over think this lifestyle, you’ll never enjoy it.

  reply

  like

• 

  MsSuperFoxy

  6 years ago

  Ms Foxy

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Good on you JohnAnn2227, very considerate and obviously well timed/planned. You are great at counseling and providing therapy.

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  6 years ago

  After discussing, we asked our best friend, or should I say Mrs asked! (alcohol was involved at that point) in fact that was how we entered the lifestyle. Only you know your friend though and how he may react, I don't think you would be asking if you didn't think it was a possibility of working. We knew he would be cool either way and certainly would not judge us. Fit xx

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Anyone who would rather risk a friendship over sex. Is over sexed

  reply

  like

• 

  thecatsmeowaus

  6 years ago

  Personally we would never let our vanilla life cross over with our naughty life. And our first time venturing into the playing scene was an openly discussed and planned occasion, not a by-product of too much alcohol. Mrs did need a glass of bubbles to calm her nervous excitement I will concede.

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  6 years ago

  If a real friend and you have no idea if he is interested or not don't do it, can end up badly and loose a friend. However if there is sexual tension between you all, or just some sexual innuendos, then which ever of you are closest to him should let him now you both enjoy playing and desire to have fun with him. Good luck what ever you decide.

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  6 years ago

  I'd draw the line at wearing a nappy though.

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Thank you everybody for your feedback. We are still none the wiser, lol . Now that summer is upon us might ask him to picnic with us at the nude beach at Byron , but as many of you said, we don’t want to lose a friend. Decisions decisions

  reply

  like

• 

  Sensual_play

  6 years ago

  All FWB situations that have work the best for me or myself with my wife as a couple have come form asking close friends. Some that we were unsure about we dropped hints, and opened discussions around threeways or open relating. If the ones were were unsure about showed interest we'd ask, or if they showed a no curiosity we'd leave it at that. I'm totally at odds with everyone here that is suggesting that things go to shit or too risky with friends. In our experience everything has been fantastic, and there is no awkwardness at social gatherings with other friends, it has just felt normal and natural. I'm thinking great communication skills and high self awareness for all involved is what enables things to be clean and enjoyable without drama.

  reply

  like