M52
At what point do you give up?
March 27 2014
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Smilingwithfun
12 years ago
You have in your profile that you are Experimental & If Required for Safe Sex. By not practising Safe Sex you have turned off most women on here. Add to that you are experimental & don't practise Safe Sex, its no surprise you are having no luck.
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
This is very true smiling, but that wouldn"t stop me from messaging someone back, but I would defiantly point out that it was something that I didn't like about their profile. If I don't message someone back it's because they haven't got my attention or I'm simply not attracted to them. In saying that, I still try and answer most messages (except the ones that don't warrant a message back)......💋
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RHP User
12 years ago
yes me on the limb...but you need to get out there too............. who are you looking for? is she young sexy hot makes you cream your pants...wow well get over it........chances then are slim. widen your search criteria.....you might get to experience some sexy wonderful older curvier women. Its not easy people on dating sites people often give up I don't think it is a very wide selection pool to choose from. You also don't really say a lot about yourself in your profile so maybe expand. You have to consider its not all about you...and with a profile so brief it may come across that way.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Cest_la_viebaby' yes me on the limb...but you need to get out there too............. who are you looking for? is she young sexy hot makes you cream your pants...wow well get over it........chances then are slim. widen your search criteria.....you might get to experience some sexy wonderful older curvier women. Its not easy people on dating sites people often give up I don't think it is a very wide selection pool to choose from. You also don't really say a lot about yourself in your profile so maybe expand. You have to consider its not all about you...and with a profile so brief it may come across that way. you said it all , totally on the same page with you
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RHP User
12 years ago
is that you are a little all over the place from being to shy to an experimental sex maniac to wanting to go hard and fast but being at a romantic B&B, one off or ongoing...do you know what you want? If you do, you need to put it out there instead of being wishy washy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
pretty simple maths. on every dating website u can just about guarantee about...what, 20 guys for 1 girl? I think that's pretty reasonable odds. the others mentioned the obvious choices in your profile checkboxes may turn women off. u might want to consider also that the women get bombarded by a high percentage of F-wits also....so their willingness to trust is downgraded. I honestly ask the same things myself. Why don't they reply or just block u without even giving a reason when u did nothing wrong. Why not? simple answer they aren't the right ones for you, they aren't interested enough so don't give it a second thought. otherwise just torture yourself wondering why then end up being sounding desperate
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ok, so I read that phrase.... versus your results.... and a flag goes up. So obviously what you think are the right things, aren't...... or aren't enough. Send me a PM and I'll have a chat away from the spotlight. DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
When you can't be bothered anymore....internet "dating" can be exhausting and disappointing.... Think about your options in real life.....develop an interest ,hobby,sport where women hang out:-) :-) xxQ
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RHP User
12 years ago
I once went on a date with a woman I met online (crazy, I know, but wait... it gets even better) - so we were sitting there having lunch (told ya) and the conversation gets to the same topic: girls not replying to messages on dating sites. Without even saying anything, she pulls out her (got your attention yet?) phone and shows me her inbox (nope, that's not a double entendre). Apparently just while we were sitting there for an hour or so (yeah, it was a good date) she had already received 65 messages just from that one site. Sixty-five! I didn't get that much in three years. And if you're wondering how I got to ask her out on a date? I didn't - she sent me a message first. So my point is - just wait. They'll come. And yes, that's a double entendre.
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RHP User
12 years ago
but did want to suggest an alternative way to meet people generally - via Meet Up. Hobby and interest groups of all kinds, lots of opportunities to find interesting friends and partners ;)
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MrJingles
12 years ago
Quoting 'Smilingwithfun' You have in your profile that you are Experimental & If Required for Safe Sex. By not practising Safe Sex you have turned off most women on here. Add to that you are experimental & don't practise Safe Sex, its no surprise you are having no luck. Or it could be the superman tattoo...hahaha
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RHP User
12 years ago
What time is now?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey Damo. Don't worry. Don't pay for everything. Tell people what you're after straight away. If you want to fuck or have sex tell them. Don't beat around the bush. Go to parties or club. Put dates in the date-finder. Keep sending messages. But be clear with your intentions. Be up front and honest in your profile. You might not end up with a truck load of hits but the ones that get in touch with you are the ones that are after the same thing as you. Take it from there. D
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RHP User
12 years ago
It would be worth your while to have a chat with MischieviousLad. GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ok I read your profile and straight away I saw Nsa fun ..thats such a turnoff for me I find that term childish and cold in relation to sex and dating..why not leave it open ended ...experiment and see what happens...it makes sex sound clinical and I dont like it...yes ok if a guy says he just wants sex but maybe dont be so cold about it upfront.. isnt it meant to be exciting and fun???! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
NSA should be banned as soon as I read that in a profile I'm afraid I'm out of there. Regarding profile I think it reads just fine to me. I like your pics great smile and eyes. Agree remove Tatt pics, I like tatts but don't think they do you any justice. Its a much better profile than some of the generic select phrase ones. You could go with something that suits your pics good looking sexy and cheeky. Leave the nsa out and go with fun and great company with a little kink . Quoting 'imnotintogames' Ok I read your profile and straight away I saw Nsa fun ..thats such a turnoff for me I find that term childish and cold in relation to sex and dating..why not leave it open ended ...experiment and see what happens...it makes sex sound clinical and I dont like it...yes ok if a guy says he just wants sex but maybe dont be so cold about it upfront.. isnt it meant to be exciting and fun???! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am with most of the Ladies this bloody NSA, who invented it, is stupid as. RHP should take it out. I like your photos, except the tattoos once, they say nothing to me....and your writing is very slim indeed. You have a nice face, a bit soft, still nice, everything takes time and everything needs a overhaul....write more, I like to hear more about the man your are.Good luck and just think....Rome wasn't built in a day.Learn listen and rewrite. L
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Litonya' I am with most of the Ladies this bloody NSA, who invented it, is stupid as. RHP should take it out. I like your photos, except the tattoos once, they say nothing to me....and your writing is very slim indeed. You have a nice face, a bit soft, still nice, everything takes time and everything needs a overhaul....write more, I like to hear more about the man your are.Good luck and just think....Rome wasn't built in a day.Learn listen and rewrite. L Agreed with all but what could be a better name for such relationship? I suppose no one has got an answer to that. Litonya, you look awesome and especially your smile...gives me goose bumps wonder if we could ever meet being in same town :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
To the ladies who say that NSA shit is crap, there's a large number of female profiles I've read on here that say they are after NSA fun and nothing more. It works both ways and just because a profile says NSA doesn't mean it's definitely going to end up NSA... I had a 'friend' who was supposed to be for a bit of NSA fun, but as we kept having fun, it went from being NSA -> Relationship. I guess after 2 people meet for some NSA fun and decide they want to go for round 2 at a later date they would become classed as Fuck Buddies instead, and a discussion needs to be made as to where to draw the line to prevent attachment and when the arrangement would end.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Only once did a lady contact me first :) she said in her opening line she had never contacted anyone before but there was something about my profile that made her hit the send button :) well that lady (although we haven't met in person) I consider a good honest friend of a higher standard :) The other lady's I've chatted with have all been nice but not so much interested in that true friendship that is rare in this world ? I hope she knows who I'm talkmg about ??? Anyway don't give up
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
But yous, just wants to discretely fuck and cum. Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I have to ask... Do you think it's just "you" or males in general that have the same problem as you on this site?? Why are you justifying yourself to be a "good" person for and try to convince others that you are?? If you hare happy within yourself, then you don't have to prove a thing, to us or anyone...just sayin Just be YOU, that's all women ask for. Maybe paying for everything is a little too much, some people may take advantage of that. There is someone out there looking for you, they just haven't found you. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
I personally don't think NSA is crap. A lot of people, both men and women, on here are looking for just that. And sometimes, that is just exactly what you need.
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
You give up, when YOU are ready, not when others tell you to or what you should do. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MsElle72' What time is now? I was referring to me, OP, not you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thank you for the nice compliment I will look at your profile....just don't disappointed I am shit scared of young men. And to answer the NSA again.Yaa what else are we on here for.....what happens, happens, its just such a degrading word in my world view. And i believe that's why so many "males" think its just a pick up site for quick sex.
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