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Attractive people attract other attractive people.
June 22 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
General rule isn't it? Men always punch above their weight or at least they try. And chicks often punch below their weight or so it seems. Or is that too much of a generalisation. . xx Meeka
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15 years ago
Hi Meeka.... I guess no one is too fugly, unless they really are that bad. How many times do you see a gorgeous girl on the arm of a not so good looking guy and wonder why, so its not always important to everyone and not always the case, but in general I think most people perfer someone that has a similar level of attraction as themself. I dont think this is being a snob either, it's just the way it is.. Mr JJ xxxx
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15 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' General rule isn't it? Men always punch above their weight or at least they try. And chicks often punch below their weight or so it seems. Or is that too much of a generalisation. . xx Meeka Sorry Meeks...have to disagree...Attractiveness is not a defined set of characteristics, but something that one person sees in another: There's no such thing as punching above or below one's weight:
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15 years ago
There is alot of out dated pics here..i dont get the point when you meet , it's written all over their faces !
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15 years ago
The beauty of a person is in actions and deeds. These are internal and no amount of airbrushing can disguise it. I couldnt give a flying fig if the man I am with looks like he has been chasing parked buses and caught a few. When we are eighty we are both gonna be ugly and I certainly dont look at the mantel piece when I am stoking the fire. The true test for me is what he does with his time, they way he interacts with kids and animals, how he treats and talks about others and the way he is within the environment. But then maybe I am actually looking for more than a quick fuck. Oh and if I want to punch above my weight, personally, I dont think I can. No one is too good for me!
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15 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' General rule isn't it? Men always punch above their weight or at least they try. And chicks often punch below their weight or so it seems. Or is that too much of a generalisation. . xx Meeka Not too much of a generalisation meeka. fair call i say, we'll always try our best.Quoting 'fionabee' But then maybe I am actually looking for more than a quick fuck. Oh and if I want to punch above my weight, personally, I dont think I can. No one is too good for me! i thought that was the idea of a site like this... i would never have thought of rhp as a 'dating site'. more of a 'fun site'
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15 years ago
Rcflyer, I agree with you. Attractiveness and beauty is subjective. xxMeeka
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15 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' General rule isn't it? Men always punch above their weight or at least they try. And chicks often punch below their weight or so it seems. I spent six months dating a woman that I thought was above my weight - she was very beautiful, intelligent and successful at her career, being three from the top of one of the largest companies in the country. She was head-hunted and accepted the job, so was going to have to move to another country. The toughness that made her so good at her job made her a complete emotional cripple when it came to dealing with our feelings - despite almost living together, she only allowed me to see her once in the two months between her accepting the job and leaving the country.The point of these ramblings? Even on a site like this, we need to be careful about judging weight. Sometimes we can think that we're up against Mike Tyson, right up to the moment we discover that we're in the ring with Peewee Herman. If it's just sex it might not matter, but for anything like a FWB, it probably does.By the way, my new profile picture is from last weekend - the old one was a bit out of date.
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15 years ago
Interesting too and always discussed in this venue, is the options of selection and choice are heavily weighed...so a middle weight might seem like the new world heavyweight champ because they get to pick who they step into the ring with and really...what the rules are when you are taking off the gloves and sporty boxing trunks. | The reality dose of presence and personality or other things you may not even know doesn't come through until you meet a person nose to nose...and as Snow pointed out any number of our personality traits both strengths and weaknesses, come shining through particularly if you are going beyond the one round winer-take-all battle in the ring. | Others too take the time to see a lot more in someone that just a collection of pixels and a few written words...so I guess that's where that saying "more than meets the eye" comes into play. The next time you see that "odd couple", you know the one...the beauty and the beast? Just ask them...the answers may just surprise you.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'goodgirlssayplz' I did find at parties though that the women were very attractive and the men USED to be very attractive. She got him when he was hot and while she has worked hard to stay beautiful he has certainly not. A woman at a party was completely perplexed as to why i had no interest in her paunchy, middle aged, saggy, grey, pruney husband while my young, handsome husband who puts a lot of work into his body, dress and looks was standing next to me. I felt like saying to her "are you on crack?! Do you see what i have at home?" She loves him, that's her job. It's my job to lust him and if i don't nothing is going to happen. Hey sweetiepie, the big Butt us too have been to parties and we dont find the problem you outline above gender specific. We were disussing this driving home from a party dissapointed there was only 2-3 people we found acceptable and they were not partners. As we only play as a couple with other couples no play that night. (butt we arnt crying about it, we have each other and are not desperate) I think you will agree when these threads come up about over weight females we hear every excuse like BMI dont matter butt the bottom line is those threads are distastefull and we find the same with the above making it gender specific. You have a exceptional 99 year old partner! Thought the rule at swing parties was No means No, no questions asked duh!
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15 years ago
Im one of those "young girls with an older guy " Im 23, my husband is 42.. we have been together 3 years, with a beautiful baby boy! Why ? His my best friend, he makes me smile.. we have a life together which i could get with no one else.. doesnt mean im completely 100% satisfied.. but out of all the men i have dated, his the one.. Plus.. ive always preferred older men ;) I think beauty and attractiveness is what people see in each other.. As to the comment "women punch below their weight ".. is that because of self esteem issues ? The social media and belief out there that women are never skinny/tall/curvy/blonde/brunette/bigboobed enough.. ra ra ra..
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15 years ago
I can be shallow at times as well, especially when l have a itch that needs scatching.... Attractiveness and beauty is measured on many levels. The view is only a cover of a person. I feel the resonance and charisma from a person weightier.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'rcflyer69' Attractiveness is not a defined set of characteristics, but something that one person sees in another: There's no such thing as punching above or below one's weight... I like this post. Although, in regards to the "punching above your weight" comment ... There is no harm in trying, is there? The worst you can get is a 'No thanks'! (MRS)
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15 years ago
Quoting 'we_are_no_angels' Quoting 'fionabee' But then maybe I am actually looking for more than a quick fuck. Oh and if I want to punch above my weight, personally, I dont think I can. No one is too good for me! i thought that was the idea of a site like this... i would never have thought of rhp as a 'dating site'. more of a 'fun site' I am not interested in a quick fuck. I like to get to know my victims and therefore am very selective.You would be surprised at the number of people on this site who are not here for the sex only. Why cant this site be a dating site like any other? Why should I not expect to be taken out and treated like a lady instead of just hastened off to bed ASAP? It works for me!
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15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'we_are_no_angels' Quoting 'fionabee' But then maybe I am actually looking for more than a quick fuck. Oh and if I want to punch above my weight, personally, I dont think I can. No one is too good for me! i thought that was the idea of a site like this... i would never have thought of rhp as a 'dating site'. more of a 'fun site' I am not interested in a quick fuck. I like to get to know my victims and therefore am very selective.You would be surprised at the number of people on this site who are not here for the sex only. Why cant this site be a dating site like any other? Why should I not expect to be taken out and treated like a lady instead of just hastened off to bed ASAP? It works for me! Hey Guys We think it comes down to couples are looking for sexy fun only, and open to a friendship developing, a quick fuck is a bit coarse and shows no class. Where singles if you look at their profile and if they are just looking for the opposite sex they are looking for a relationship, but could also be looking for sex only? If a single like Meeka and Focus have every box ticked they are looking for sexy fun plus secretly looking for Mr Right. They want it all untill they trap their man! So it is a dating site with the menu being Sex! and Mr Midnight your plan vanished ??
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15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'we_are_no_angels' Quoting 'fionabee' Why cant this site be a dating site like any other? Why should I not expect to be taken out and treated like a lady instead of just hastened off to bed ASAP? It works for me! Incase l am mistakingly making an ass of myself - will some one please correct me in what i say next if it is not true.... RHP is a swingers site - it was founded and formed in WA. Swinging is about sexual pleasure, not D & M relationships. xxxx Insp
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15 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Incase l am mistakingly making an ass of myself - will some one please correct me in what i say next if it is not true....me! RHP is a swingers site - it was founded and formed in WA. Swinging is about sexual pleasure, not D & M relationships. You are indeed mistaken. What it was founded as and what it has become may be different. It is now an adult social networking site. It may be more accepted on this site than on some others that sex is the object BUT people can and do find the one they are looking for on here otherwise why would they plaster up success stories? Why would someone assume that Meeka or Focus would "TRAP" thier man? There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a little fun while looking and I am fairly certain that those two ladies would have "TRAPPED a man by thier age if that was thier intention. An unfortunate choice of words! Couples may be looking for a little sexy fun and nearly all singles are as well but many want a little more than a one night stand and it makes perfect sense to begin the search with sexual compatability. l Anyway.....back to the original question.....
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15 years ago
And yes, he IS exceptional is sooooooooooo many ways. Always a cut above the rest Quoting 'JustEnough' Quoting 'goodgirlssayplz' I did find at parties though that the women were very attractive and the men USED to be very attractive. She got him when he was hot and while she has worked hard to stay beautiful he has certainly not. A woman at a party was completely perplexed as to why i had no interest in her paunchy, middle aged, saggy, grey, pruney husband while my young, handsome husband who puts a lot of work into his body, dress and looks was standing next to me. I felt like saying to her "are you on crack?! Do you see what i have at home?" She loves him, that's her job. It's my job to lust him and if i don't nothing is going to happen. Hey sweetiepie, the big Butt us too have been to parties and we dont find the problem you outline above gender specific. We were disussing this driving home from a party dissapointed there was only 2-3 people we found acceptable and they were not partners. As we only play as a couple with other couples no play that night. (butt we arnt crying about it, we have each other and are not desperate) I think you will agree when these threads come up about over weight females we hear every excuse like BMI dont matter butt the bottom line is those threads are distastefull and we find the same with the above making it gender specific. You have a exceptional 99 year old partner! Thought the rule at swing parties was No means No, no questions asked duh!
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15 years ago
Quoting 'goodgirlssayplz' And yes, he IS exceptional is sooooooooooo many ways. Always a cut above the rest Welcome back, missed you......have a deal unblock ea other and have a laugh? Deal ?
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15 years ago
Quoting 'goodgirlssayplz' And yes, he IS exceptional is sooooooooooo many ways. Always a cut above the rest Quoting 'JustEnough' Quoting 'goodgirlssayplz' I did find at parties though that the women were very attractive and the men USED to be very attractive. She got him when he was hot and while she has worked hard to stay beautiful he has certainly not. A woman at a party was completely perplexed as to why i had no interest in her paunchy, middle aged, saggy, grey, pruney husband while my young, handsome husband who puts a lot of work into his body, dress and looks was standing next to me. I felt like saying to her "are you on crack?! Do you see what i have at home?" She loves him, that's her job. It's my job to lust him and if i don't nothing is going to happen. Hey sweetiepie, the big Butt us too have been to parties and we dont find the problem you outline above gender specific. We were disussing this driving home from a party dissapointed there was only 2-3 people we found acceptable and they were not partners. As we only play as a couple with other couples no play that night. (butt we arnt crying about it, we have each other and are not desperate) I think you will agree when these threads come up about over weight females we hear every excuse like BMI dont matter butt the bottom line is those threads are distastefull and we find the same with the above making it gender specific. You have a exceptional 99 year old partner! Thought the rule at swing parties was No means No, no questions asked duh!
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15 years ago
Quoting 'looking2try3' Quoting 'goodgirlssayplz' And yes, he IS exceptional is sooooooooooo many ways. Always a cut above the rest Quoting 'JustEnough' Quoting 'goodgirlssayplz' I did find at parties though that the women were very attractive and the men USED to be very attractive. She got him when he was hot and while she has worked hard to stay beautiful he has certainly not. A woman at a party was completely perplexed as to why i had no interest in her paunchy, middle aged, saggy, grey, pruney husband while my young, handsome husband who puts a lot of work into his body, dress and looks was standing next to me. I felt like saying to her "are you on crack?! Do you see what i have at home?" She loves him, that's her job. It's my job to lust him and if i don't nothing is going to happen. Hey sweetiepie, the big Butt us too have been to parties and we dont find the problem you outline above gender specific. We were disussing this driving home from a party dissapointed there was only 2-3 people we found acceptable and they were not partners. As we only play as a couple with other couples no play that night. (butt we arnt crying about it, we have each other and are not desperate) I think you will agree when these threads come up about over weight females we hear every excuse like BMI dont matter butt the bottom line is those threads are distastefull and we find the same with the above making it gender specific. You have a exceptional 99 year old partner! Thought the rule at swing parties was No means No, no questions asked duh!
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15 years ago
Quoting 'looking2try3' HUH ??? I dont get it who are you? Quoting 'goodgirlssayplz' And yes, he IS exceptional is sooooooooooo many ways. Always a cut above the rest Brae....sounds like anothe Mike and Shel ....dont you think??
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15 years ago
Darling i've been around for weeks, just floating. I LOVE my validations, sigh...they come with such lovely memories of lovely people Hope you've been well gorgeous Mrs P xx Quoting 'MrsPeachypear'Heya Sweetie, it's been good to see you around. Nice validations you got there. I CAN be discreet! Hugs ya Mrs P
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15 years ago
He's such a bad man Mrs P, Brae knows me better than most people on this planet......he knows it's me...has done for a while
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15 years ago
goodgirlssayplz- Hello!!! xxMeekm
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15 years ago
Quoting 'Charles_Dickens' EGO is not a ditry word....(sings).... well I do in fact know lots of females on these sites use old photos, ...so do the males.... ....but us males are the predators, .... ....and the females have to make themselves the sitting ducks....(attractive).... so we have to be doing the predatory thing....LOL... This game is a thousand years old.... .....happy fucking....Charles xoxo You may be a predator but I take exception to the term. Its out dated and irrelevent on a site like this... but you did a great job of showing your hand. Golf clap. LS
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15 years ago
Quoting 'foreverlove7985' Quoting 'rcflyer69' Attractiveness is not a defined set of characteristics, but something that one person sees in another: There's no such thing as punching above or below one's weight... I like this post. Although, in regards to the "punching above your weight" comment ... There is no harm in trying, is there? The worst you can get is a 'No thanks'! (MRS) When I hear the term "punching above your weight", it brings an image of the super-hot lady on the arm of the not-so-good looking bloke, which to me is very shallow. It implies that the bloke is not good enough for the lady. From my perspective, I'm good enough for whomever I decide to pursue, therefore I have never, and never will punch above my weight. If the other party doesn't think I'm good enough, then that's their issue and not mine.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice' Hi Meeka.... I guess no one is too fugly, unless they really are that bad. How many times do you see a gorgeous girl on the arm of a not so good looking guy and wonder why, so its not always important to everyone and not always the case, but in general I think most people perfer someone that has a similar level of attraction as themself. I dont think this is being a snob either, it's just the way it is.. Mr JJ xxxx Could not have said it better myself!
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15 years ago
You know that deal we made about the Platinum card right before you left town, yes that one that went on for pages...seriously, it was only a loan. | Quoting 'goodgirlssayplz' Always a cut above the rest ... | Nice can run but you can't hide. Nice to have friends that blow you cover. | Hope you are well.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'inspirit' Incase l am mistakingly making an ass of myself - will some one please correct me in what i say next if it is not true....me! RHP is a swingers site - it was founded and formed in WA. Swinging is about sexual pleasure, not D & M relationships. You are indeed mistaken. What it was founded as and what it has become may be different. It is now an adult social networking site. It may be more accepted on this site than on some others that sex is the object BUT people can and do find the one they are looking for on here otherwise why would they plaster up success stories? Why would someone assume that Meeka or Focus would "TRAP" thier man? There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a little fun while looking and I am fairly certain that those two ladies would have "TRAPPED a man by thier age if that was thier intention. An unfortunate choice of words! Couples may be looking for a little sexy fun and nearly all singles are as well but many want a little more than a one night stand and it makes perfect sense to begin the search with sexual compatability. l Anyway.....back to the original question..... Is there a bee in your bonnet? Assumptions???????? FFS thank god its Friday
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15 years ago
Quoting 'rcflyer69' From my perspective, I'm good enough for whomever I decide to pursue, therefore I have never, and never will punch above my weight. If the other party doesn't think I'm good enough, then that's their issue and not mine. I totally agree. In fact I dislike the term "punching above his weight" and find it somewhat condescending.
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15 years ago
While some people feel uneasy with the term ' punching above their weight ' others accept it only as a expression to get the point across. Personally I take more of a exception to the terms used by Charles_Dickens 'Predatory' and girls making themselves ' Sitting Ducks ' for looking so beautifull... Which was exactly the point I made when posting this topic.rcflyer.. You really dont have to defend anything.. Its your choice to 'Pursue' whoever you like, and its her/ their right to stop a pursuit if they feel no connection. This more than often places the pursued in the awkward position of letting the pursuer down.. Something we perfer not to do in the first place.
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15 years ago
Everyone goes for the best they can get, like younger than themselves. Luckily some have their feet on the ground and reliase to go after similiar. Otherwise no one here would play.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'inspirit' You are indeed mistaken. What it was founded as and what it has become may be different. It is now an adult social networking site. It may be more accepted on this site than on some others that sex is the object BUT people can and do find the one they are looking for on here otherwise why would they plaster up success stories? Butt Butt, We know a swing club in Florida USA that boosts of marrages that have happened thru introductions there. I wonder if Leesa from Couples International has similiar experiances from Introductions at Couples I nternational. I t does not alter the fact they are swing swing clubs where couples meet for sex. Reminds me: The Love Boat...."There is love in the forums" ......
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15 years ago
xoxoxo :) Hope you've been well sexy grrrrrrl
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15 years ago
Quoting 'sinspirit' Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'we_are_no_angels' Quoting 'fionabee' Why cant this site be a dating site like any other? Why should I not expect to be taken out and treated like a lady instead of just hastened off to bed ASAP? It works for me! Incase l am mistakingly making an ass of myself - will some one please correct me in what i say next if it is not true.... RHP is a swingers site - it was founded and formed in WA. Swinging is about sexual pleasure, not D & M relationships. xxxx Insp no i agree sin... i 'thought' that's what the main goal of this site is... of course, if people do accidentally/purposely find love here then that is fantastic too.. but i just don't feel that people should be pissed off that others here are just looking for lust...
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15 years ago
I have a question... Can a woman be seen as "punching above their weight" - or is this a male only term?? (MRS)
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15 years ago
I can't get on with pretentious people, I like a nice smile, it's way more attractive than some pouting egomaniac.Girls, here's a tip and it's a big secret, save all your money for a rainy day, you don't need a designer collection of dresses or accessories, just smile a lot. I would rather spend time with a person who smiles than a miserable model.
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15 years ago
We're just sneaky Mrs P
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15 years ago
It is about how you rate you ! Now I have met some sexy people that are of course not what you would call a 10 but ask them and well the will hand on heart tell you they rate themselves a 8 posibly a 9 ( hair and makeup done and a splash of old spice and they are hot to trott ! ) So they have no problem hitting on the very hot chicky babe sitting in the corner and she says YES .WHY ? because she may just have the self image of a 6 or 7 couple that with the guy that is in fact a 5 has that confidence that goes with a guy thats a 9 .......... He has the walk he has the talk he's ok he's not offensive looking , no lumps on the side of his neck , all his own teeth so he is good to go ! Add to that all the guys realiseing that the girl is HOT and she is a 9 they hide in the corner and dont get the game on cause they have been told she is out of thier league ! .Sarah has worked this plan to a tee , we will often go to a club , there will be a great looking girl all alone, all the couples too scared to talk to her ......not Sarah , Sarah is attractive and she has a confidence to match off she trots , chats and no sooner than a Bride flicks off her knicker on a wedding night she is ....... or should I say WE are all having fun..It is my friends how you feel about you !.Brae ....... White coat on ! .Oh and P I am a little cheeky and have been taunting her for a while to come out ...... she can change her name but I know that mind and writing style ! hmmmm no matter how many profiles she has ooooooooooh now thats a whole other forum !
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15 years ago
(can't believe i have to say this AGAIN!) As usual, Brae is right about a few things.....miss Sarah is HOT, HOT, Gawjus and erm......HOT and secondly it is all about confidence. Work out what you got and work it for all it's worth. There are plenty of women more beautiful than me but they don't know what they have got going for them, i do. I used to do ok (oh hell, i used to do just FINE dandilion) and have an absoloute blast doing it. I'm tellin ya, it's all about the hhhhhhheat baby ......rrreeeowww.
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15 years ago
Just have game to back up that heat.
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15 years ago
Oh my!
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15 years ago
Recently we had a couple message us (we think it's could be the first time a couple actually has, if not it has been a long time since this has actually happened to us we can not remember). After a reply or two, private gallaries were exchanged (now we are not Ken or Barbie) they told us that we had some great pics, but took their PG pics back that quick we don't even remember what they looked like. They also said that we were not what they were looking for. Then why did they start by sending a message in the first place. We are beginning to wonder if we are after a unicorn. We just want to meet a couple our age that will accept us for what we look like and not pre judge us before they even get to meet us. If there is any nice couples out there where both of you are preferably under 35 and want to meet up please let us know. We have had no problem finding older couples to play with in the past. Maybe this is because older couples are more accepting of body shapes and sizes. What do you think?
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15 years ago
Can we get this post back on track..... grrrrrr
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15 years ago
Personally, I think people should stop being so fricken shallow. There are some AMAZING people out there, who get looked over all too often, just because of the such 'ridiculously high' standards that so many people on here seem to have!! (MRS)
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15 years ago
ROFL ! Quoting 'justjuice' Can we get this post back on track..... grrrrrr
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15 years ago
What a woman... wow, I just finished reading your post in another forum saying you're sitting at home in your dressing gown, jarmys and uggies or words to that effect, and not concerned about the male paternity. Anyway, who would ever reject a good looking woman that has a little pussie in her box.. not me... Mr JJ
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15 years ago
Punching above your wieght is definitely not a waste of time. When i first laid eyes on Mrs Foreverlove i thought 'she's WAY out of my league, no way in hell she would be interested in someone with a head like a dropped pie'. I know she could have pretty much any guy she set her sights on and everytime i look in the mirror i am still perplexed as to why she would choose to be with me. The moral of the story is... even if you're ugly as shit, have a go because sometimes you get lucky,...very, very lucky. Lol (Mr)
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15 years ago
Now this was quite an amazing thread you started. I took the time to read every reply. There was laughs, honesty, frustrations and much more on the agenda!I am an unbelievably lucky gent. My wife and I have entertained and sustained successfully the most delicious of open relationships. She is a very beautiful woman (yes I am biased but not so much as to disrespect her: she is truly beautiful!); to top it off, she is highly intelligent (Snowshoe, I have been where you have been, but I persevere and together we discovered that our love was stronger than either of our careers), and immensely loving! Aesthetics are important to us both! Very!We both take care of our appearances. Does it make us shallow? In the eyes of those who disregard the importance of their physical appearances...most certainly! In the eyes of those who care about their looks...not at all.We have always attracted (90% of the time) beautiful looking people, and have enjoyed many plays along the way. Beauty is indeed a subjective topic. Of course it is! It is a personal choice whether one finds another person attractive. The criteria can be endless. Is this woman physically hot to look at? Is this man a hunk? Does she or he turn me on just by looking at her/him?...On a personal level, this is where it starts for me. Shallow? perhaps! However, if this was the only criterion I apply to selecting my friends, then my garden would be a barren place! So how do I proceed? If my initial aesthetic criterion is met, then I look at the way one expresses herself/himself. It may give me an insight in her/his education (note: education differs from intelligence! I have met a number of people with little education to speak of yet they were utterly intelligent and fun to be with!). My third criterion is honesty (Chilli, you take the cake here, love your honesty) . If all three criteria are met then I/we make the effort to meet the selected person face to face over a glass of wine. Too much effort you say? That is a personal and again a subjective area. I agree with most of what you say Just Juice but there will be many people that will differ in their personal experiences or opinions. To me, the most important thing is that whomever I may meet shall be as compatible and fun as I wish her/him/them to be to my personal desires. I think if one thinks along these lines then a lot of us will find themselves with smiles on their visage!This being said, there are many people that fail the test of honesty (it usually starts with old or misrepresenting pictures...sadly), there are also those who contact you despite the fact that they have not taken the time to read your profile in full (I must confess having done this at times...there are times a man cannot resist...I apologise for whomever I may have inconvenienced in this manner). Some say Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! It is true! If the beholder's priority is on aesthetics then physical beauty will attract physical beauty! If it is in the deeds or behavior of the person they meet then behavioral or intellectual beauty will prevail. On a personal level, I prefer a combination of many attributes. Does it make me a snob? In the eyes of some: Yes. No one argues on the immense varieties of ice creams! I know people who adore vanilla...I don't. There is a flavour for each of us. It is only a matter of finding it/them and enjoying every bit of the moment you consume its pleasure!Clearskyaheadxx
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15 years ago
Chilli, Nope, dont blame you at all. We do our best work when we're at home all snuggled up and comfy. Seems the sugar daddy comment was meant as abit of backhander and undeserved.. so I can only think you might have a anti man thing going on.. Hope not ? Anyway, perfer to think as you as a happy poster who enjoys the positive input in the forums. Like the comment bout that lil pussy poking its head out as a outie.. light hearted and cute.. Mr JJ
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'foreverlove7985' Punching above your wieght is definitely not a waste of time. When i first laid eyes on Mrs Foreverlove i thought 'she's WAY out of my league, no way in hell she would be interested in someone with a head like a dropped pie'. I know she could have pretty much any guy she set her sights on and everytime i look in the mirror i am still perplexed as to why she would choose to be with me. The moral of the story is... even if you're ugly as shit, have a go because sometimes you get lucky,...very, very lucky.I doubt whether Mrs would attribute your success to luck - more likely, she recognised something that the Ken-dolls don't offer. The fact that she gave you a shot and that you came out on top suggests that neither of you were punching above your weight - you're both heavyweights... in the best way, of course. Now piss off and stop being so happy! You're bringing the rest of us down...
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RHP User
15 years ago
That actually sounds kind of scary...if it's parked there, you had to drive there. What happened to all the innocent oldies and children walking along the promenade? | Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' I mean it brings on the PTSD and leaves me shivering under my car on the sidewalk. | Did the cops make you take the breathalyser test....you know the one, blow into the tube? Of course maybe that's part of the master plan...and most cops that are about to arrest are fuggly, maybe you can negotiate with your "Get Out of Jail Free" tactics. It beats starting a fire in the house hoping one of the fireman makes the fuggly cut...but then again if it's serious enough they all wear masques. | I would rather just head to the Casino and play the odds. Talk about punching over your weight...but there is more there than meets the eye. It seems the more they drink...the better looking I am, so just wander in about 1:00 a.m. and settle in at a table... | ...and never take off the sunglasses.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think you nailed it beautifully. No ' I dont think you are being a snob. You have taken the time and effort to present yourselves in a presentable fashion and you seek the same in the people you meet. I dont see a problem, and I dont think its being shallow at all.Just as we all have different taste in clothes, cars, footy teams, etc.. we also have different taste in people. Meaning, some people we will always get along with much better than others, and if you attract nice looking people who match what you are looking for... Whats the problem ?There has to be a starting point somewhere and I think it is quite natural to want to link up with people that have similar taste and interests as yourself.How many times do you see a beautifull girl in a profile which grabs your attention then by the time you finish reading their requirements, you dont feel as sure as you did with the initial eye catcher. ? I usually just move on til I find someone Im not only attracted to. but also someone I feel has something in common. I wish people would stop and think about why I posted what I did. It was not meant to degrade anyone, I was only stateing a fact of life. If you feel you have a head like a squashed sandshoe, and yet you have a beautifull GF or wife hanging off your arm, good on you. I still believe some people do try and punch above thier weight and sometimes it does pay off. But I would imagine a good deal of the time, it could leave a person licking a buised ego somewhere..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Lots of good reading here but my iPhone finger cant keep up especially with mrs pups ahem erratic driving! Shouldn't everyone think and feel they are somewhat attractive? So how is one to know they are so much less attractive than the next person? Punching above/below weight us such a crass idea and just another way to belittle someone. In my opinion I have punched above my weight my whole life..I feel this because everyone I've ever wanted I have adored and thought were so special but I'm not so arrogant to think that I am as special. I have also punched above my weight in education and career and seemed to have crawled from housing commish to have a whole string of letters after my name and am definitely in the top end of my profession. So isn't punching above ones weight just being confident to go after what you want? Don't we hear that women find confidence most attractive? I also question this idea of women punching below their weight, sure some may have self esteem issues but I've always thought that women see far deeper into their needs and aren't as obsessed with superficial looks as men? Am I wrong here? Now I guess I'd begrudgingly rate myself as better than average but I will never make it in the pages of GQ. Being the giving soul I am I have offered such fine specimens to mrs pup but she never seems to think they are as attractive as I think she will, again what turns her on is far more complex than their portfolio pics. Then there is the answer to the question of who has been her fave sex experience, it was someone she wasn't that attracted to physically but this guy defined mojo!! So what's the answer? I don't know but the old adage "don't judge a book by it's cover" would seem to have some punching weight?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'foreverlove7985'Punching above your wieght is definitely not a waste of time. When i first laid eyes on Mrs Foreverlove i thought 'she's WAY out of my league, no way in hell she would be interested in someone with a head like a dropped pie'. I know she could have pretty much any guy she set her sights on and everytime i look in the mirror i am still perplexed as to why she would choose to be with me. The moral of the story is... even if you're ugly as shit, have a go because sometimes you get lucky,...very, very lucky. Lol (Mr) Awww, come on now! The moment you sat down opposite me in the shopping centre all those years ago - I knew you were the man for me. You were (and still are) a little rough around the edges, but I saw (and still do see) something that many others dont. To me, you are perfect. (Although, I must admit, I am extremely happy that you let me give you a wardrobe make over and kill the fashion tragic within, just a few weeks after we met. You have way better style these days! ;-) ) (MRS)
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RHP User
15 years ago
No you are not generallising,you women are all way too good for us horrible men.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think that no matter how you express yourself, no matter how careful one may be, there will always be some people that are left with bruised egos...sadly. Being turned down is more than ok. There is no need to get upset about it or to feel down about it. We are all adults here and I believe most of us are superbly respectful of one another. Some get upset and at times even aggressive when turned down...there is no need for such non-sense. It is part of selecting the most suitable partner, even if for only a short roll in the hay! lol! Chilli! I never tried to catch you out. I meant that in term of honesty I thought you were brilliant! We met and our chat was honest and forward! I loved it. That was all. lol!Happy days all!Sx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I agree wholeheartedly. No mater how carefull you may say somethings, someone will come along , dismantle it, turn it around, stomp on it, then shove it back in your face. Awww well, guess thats why we're all different..Was having a convo with Mr JJ yesterday about this subject, and it bought some things back to my mind that I never mentioned here. When I was younger, I was always a sucker to say yes when a guy asked me out for a coffee or a drink, but alot of the time I was saying yes because I was being polite and in most cases did not want to offend . Not because I fancied them for anything more than a friend.Often when it came time to leave I was made to feel like I was leading them on.. which was most unfair. Naturally as I matured I learnt to turn guys down gently, but even then I still feel uneasy. Ahhhh, the dating game isnt always smoothe, Im so content knowing I have my man to protect me... MrsJJ
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just having watched the movie Manolete, I just love his love professing "You are the most beautiful Ugly Man I have ever seen".I asked Mrs Pup if I was the same to her but she is obviously blind as she said "No, you are beautiful", ahh warm fuzzies!Now I must say Adrien Brody has the biggest nose I've ever seen but he does command a presence and is undoubtedly attractive even if he's also a bit ugly! So to I must confess when Penelope Cruz first came on the scene I thought she was very ugly but the more I see her the more she moves into the "I wanna do her" stakes, what she lacks in a two dimensional photo she more than makes up for when in motion. So if I were to choose just from a photo I would turn her down and oh what a pity that would be. OK i'm off to try and find if she's on RHP somewhere lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
You guys are so cute Foreverlove, so happy for you both, you make me smile :D Summur xxxooo
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Summur'You guys are so cute Foreverlove, so happy for you both, you make me smile :D Summur xxxooo Haha.... Thanks lovely! Glad our 'gooey-ness' has a good effect on someone! LOL... (MRS)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I can see you're trying desperately to encourage me to continue flirting. I mean, really, I haven't stopped... just catching my breathe... you know us oldies.... gotta have nap every now and again... but now that I'm back on my feet.... I can see how I might just strike it lucky one day!!HugsStalku ... I mean y.. stalk y. Quoting 'foreverlove7985' Punching above your wieght is definitely not a waste of time. When i first laid eyes on Mrs Foreverlove i thought 'she's WAY out of my league, no way in hell she would be interested in someone with a head like a dropped pie'. I know she could have pretty much any guy she set her sights on and everytime i look in the mirror i am still perplexed as to why she would choose to be with me. The moral of the story is... even if you're ugly as shit, have a go because sometimes you get lucky,...very, very lucky. Lol (Mr)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I must weigh a good 30 kg more than you Meeks... and you seem to have no trouble trying to punch me a new one. Lucky I have my wits about me and a pair of all purpose stainless steel mesh undies!HugsStalky. Quoting 'Meeka100' General rule isn't it? Men always punch above their weight or at least they try. And chicks often punch below their weight or so it seems. Or is that too much of a generalisation. . xx Meeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
Now Stalky be truthful. There ain't no tried about it... I punched you a new one for sure! hehehe. Ok I tried but I could never catch you. Although you ain't seen nothing til you have seen me kickboxing. I excel at the hooks and jabs followed by a roundhouse kick as I duck and weave. Although I think I might hurt myself If I did that naked. :PxxMeeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
I sleep with men/ women who are far less attractive than me all the time. Why? Because they try harder to win my approval and to please me. They're often 'nicer' too (maybe they have to be?) I'm so sick of pretty boys with empty heads and vanilla personalities. I will leave the party/club with the short, fat guy who has a great mind, big ideas, an impressive collection of books and art...EVERY TIME.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ninjaxxx' I sleep with men/ women who are far less attractive than me all the time. Why? Because they try harder to win my approval and to please me. They're often 'nicer' too (maybe they have to be?) I'm so sick of pretty boys with empty heads and vanilla personalities. I will leave the party/club with the short, fat guy who has a great mind, big ideas, an impressive collection of books and art...EVERY TIME. LMAO... Had to laugh at this comment. You'll fuck a fat dude, but not a chick who has had her stomach (and I quote) "all messed up" by having a baby? I don't understand your logic at all. (MRS)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice'I agree wholeheartedly. No mater how carefull you may say somethings, someone will come along , dismantle it, turn it around, stomp on it, then shove it back in your face. Awww well, guess thats why we're all different..Was having a convo with Mr JJ yesterday about this subject, and it bought some things back to my mind that I never mentioned here. When I was younger, I was always a sucker to say yes when a guy asked me out for a coffee or a drink, but alot of the time I was saying yes because I was being polite and in most cases did not want to offend . Not because I fancied them for anything more than a friend.Often when it came time to leave I was made to feel like I was leading them on.. which was most unfair. Naturally as I matured I learnt to turn guys down gently, but even then I still feel uneasy. Ahhhh, the dating game isnt always smoothe, Im so content knowing I have my man to protect me... MrsJJ Mrs JJ I just saw a bit of myself in your post then too . I used to find it very uncomfortable to say no to a simple coffee or a drink, thinking, "Yeah why not, its just a drink" because I couldnt really think of a reason not to, but then it would kick in later. Uh oh, do I really want to have a drink with this person or could i just not say no ? Did they just mean a drink or is this a mini date thing? aww gawd what have I done? If I go and Im not really sexually interested in this person, am I leading them on or am I just being friendly ? Its fraught with the unknown and it still scares the bejoolies outa me to be honest. . On the other issue and punching above our weight, I dont think I consider my own looks when Im attracted to someone else I just know that I am attracted to them at that time and its all that matters. Over the years its been for different reasons too....the physical, the mental, the humour, the sex , I've found its always been different for different times of my life and more internally ,, my obvious needs at that particular point. I am considered good looking by most ( yeah yeah not my words) but it's not all it's cracked up to be either, just like the average guy who's personality gets overlooked for physical beauty, mine has also in the past due to becoming second in importance next to looks. Hard to believe maybe with my meek and demure personality but it's true. And it's only been the last few years if Im to be totally honest, that I've learnt to take a compliment with a simple, "Thankyou" instead of a scoff or a pfffft.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think you've hit the nail on the head with this topic JJ!!!! We are a couple of M53 & F48. We feel that we are still quite attractive for our age & we seek the same in other couples. I have been with my wife 35 yrs & been married for 31yrs of them, & to this day she still ticks all the right boxes in my book. She's still very ATTRACTIVE/SEXY/SENSUAL/SEXUAL & has a beautiful personality, so we look for couples who we feel are attractive to both of us in terms of looks & build as well. We do find it quite difficult to achieve in our age range, hense we find ourselves looking at couples that are younger than us who we find visually attractive. Well that has to be the starting point I guess doesn't it, because if you don't like what you see in their profile pics your not going to go any further are you? So do you think that we are punching above our weight? Seeing as you were the one to have kicked off this topic, I would like your personal & honest oppinion on what you think. Hot2Trot24_7
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Hot2Trot24_7' I think you've hit the nail on the head with this topic JJ!!!! We are a couple of M53 & F48. We feel that we are still quite attractive for our age & we seek the same in other couples. I have been with my wife 35 yrs & been married for 31yrs of them, & to this day she still ticks all the right boxes in my book. She's still very ATTRACTIVE/SEXY/SENSUAL/SEXUAL & has a beautiful personality, so we look for couples who we feel are attractive to both of us in terms of looks & build as well. We do find it quite difficult to achieve in our age range, hense we find ourselves looking at couples that are younger than us who we find visually attractive. Well that has to be the starting point I guess doesn't it, because if you don't like what you see in their profile pics your not going to go any further are you? So do you think that we are punching above our weight? Seeing as you were the one to have kicked off this topic, I would like your personal & honest oppinion on what you think. Hot2Trot24_7 I'll have a go at the opinion thing.......smokin and yes you are not your average couple for your age range, so I can see having to go a little younger as necessary for your personal attractions to be there. You two definately ARE Hot2Trot
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'foreverlove7985' Quoting 'ninjaxxx' I sleep with men/ women who are far less attractive than me all the time. Why? Because they try harder to win my approval and to please me. They're often 'nicer' too (maybe they have to be?) I'm so sick of pretty boys with empty heads and vanilla personalities. I will leave the party/club with the short, fat guy who has a great mind, big ideas, an impressive collection of books and art...EVERY TIME. LMAO... Had to laugh at this comment. You'll fuck a fat dude, but not a chick who has had her stomach (and I quote) "all messed up" by having a baby? I don't understand your logic at all. (MRS) In that case, mine has been messed up 3 times, thats me screwed how will I ever manage to get a root now with my dowdy ole' flabby guts lol.
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RHP User
14 years ago
How many times have I heard someone say that they look for pretty people for casual play but aren't so fussy for long term partners? If a person rates themselves highly then they tend not to settle for anything they think they don't deserve, people included. It becomes a problem for them when they set their standards so high that they exclude too many people. We all find beauty in different things in different ways so saying that attractive people attract other attractive people doesn't really work. Is someone attractive because they are good looking or because they are wearing nice shoes? Can we find someone attractive by their personality even if we don't know what they look like? My partner is sexy and attractive but going by what some people have said on this thread I don't think other women would see him the same way as me.
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RHP User
14 years ago
JJ's Quote:" I think its fair comment that attractive couples and females on here will seek other attractive couples or females. This also applies to couples and females seeking guys. A few nice pics in a profile does not mean its open slather for every guy to have a lash at, for their own entertainment purposes.. When a guy turns out to be the complete opposite to what is clearly written in peoples profile requirements, surely they must realise it aint going to go anywhere ?. Punching above your weight will always end up the same..... a complete waste of everyone's time. "I guess its how we ALL percieve ourselves that is the question. Some people have an extremely high regard for themselves lol which enables them to have a "crack" at anything or anyone with the bravado of a rhino in full charge and are not worried if they get stopped in their tracks with a rebuke..ahh well in their eyes they "just dont get it..there loss" scenario.Upon first coming on here, we didn't know what to expect, as to who we would attract and vice versa. In much the same vein as Hot2trot we have found that to our happy surprise we are able to and have had fun with couples that are a fair few younger in years then ourselves. It has also worked out in opposite way with the blokes too. I have a running joke with Mr Sat that I can punch waaaay above my weight with some of the yummy dudes that have messaged us over the time offering there services.... Go a bit easy on them Mr and Mrs JJ ego is not a dirty word,,their mothers think they are all it and eventually they hopefully will hit upon a profile and get lucky. Or maybe read a forum topic and pick up a few handy tips to improve there chances. As long as they are respectful in defeat then its ok.p.s sorry about the bold I cant turn the bloody thing off!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yep justjuice, that's what they taught me in Psych 101. There have been studies on attractive singles attracting someone comparatively attractive as partners. I'm sure it's no stretch to say that an attractive couple will want another couple or single of comparative attractiveness even if it's just for one night of play. . Though irrelevant to swinging and play, similar studies have found that people tend to attract life partners from a similar financial position as well. So the rich and beautiful tend to choose other rich and beautiful... Even in Australia where we have an officially "classless" society - no one really tells a poorer and less attractive person that they can't have a relationship with a more wealthy and attractive person - these things have a tendency to happen automatically, even subconsciously. So the trend asserts itself without many people intentionally trying to make it the way of the world.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I am a male and just maybe I do not want to "punch below my wejght " as it has been so nicely put.Honestly has the chick at the top of this page really had a good look at how many OVER wejght bush pigs there are on offer?Yes it is a deluded generalisation Quoting 'rcflyer69' Quoting 'Meeka100' General rule isn't it? Men always punch above their weight or at least they try. And chicks often punch below their weight or so it seems. Or is that too much of a generalisation. . xx Meeka Sorry Meeks...have to disagree...Attractiveness is not a defined set of characteristics, but something that one person sees in another: There's no such thing as punching above or below one's weight:
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'slippery_halo' Yep justjuice, that's what they taught me in Psych 101. There have been studies on attractive singles attracting someone comparatively attractive as partners. I'm sure it's no stretch to say that an attractive couple will want another couple or single of comparative attractiveness even if it's just for one night of play. . Though irrelevant to swinging and play, similar studies have found that people tend to attract life partners from a similar financial position as well. So the rich and beautiful tend to choose other rich and beautiful... Even in Australia where we have an officially "classless" society - no one really tells a poorer and less attractive person that they can't have a relationship with a more wealthy and attractive person - these things have a tendency to happen automatically, even subconsciously. So the trend asserts itself without many people intentionally trying to make it the way of the world. Totally with you, Slippery. You may want to read some evolutionary psychology - I recommend 'The Moral Animal' By Robert Wright. It goes into our partner selection in great detail - if you're interested in this sort of thing, I guarantee that you'd find it fascinating.
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RHP User
14 years ago
We like the academic posts - great to see thinking swingersMaybe we should start a Bachelor of Swinging course at UniThe labs would be well-attended !I'll be going for a PhDBut we need to balance it with some more gutteral stuff like "what really attracts me the most is a nice big..."
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RHP User
14 years ago
I do hope you both practice what you preach and come have a drink with us if you're ever down our way!!!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Damn iPhone won't quote... That last one was for you foreverlove hubba hubba
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RHP User
14 years ago
Apoligies for the delayed responce...Hot2Trot... Read your post with interest, seems like we may be on the same wave length here.. Your discription of Mrs Hot2Trot could be something I would have wrote about Mrs JJ. We too take alot of care of the way we present ourselves , either here or in everyday life. Ditto, with attracting much younger than ourself, I feel this is a fair indication that the effort we put in does pay dividens. Mr JJSaturn55,.... I agree it will always get back to the way we perceive ourselves. We all have good and bad days on how we present for any given day. Somedays I feel like I could take on the world, other not so. But it is fair to say we can only really judge ourself by the type of person we attract. Mrs JJDGT... Hi.. Thx for your reply, yes, seems we have some things in common. Saying no never came easy to me because I was bought up to be polite and it took me years to smile and politely say no thank you. Seen your pics so I do know that you are a very attractive lady, no doubt about that. Im sure you would attract more than your fair share of the good lookers.. like mr jj.. cheeky bugga that he is.. hehe.. Mrs JJ
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RHP User
14 years ago
in our case i am only attracted when my wife has been glazed upon..where there is a great lady must be a great man.hla
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi, there a great quote....Looks fade, dumb is forever!! You say attractive people will naturally seek other attractive people. I do not assume I am attractive, my experience is most of the good looking people on these sites are fairly shallow, self absorbed people. I have dated 2 guys and one couple from RHP and none were what the BEAUTIFUL lady who started this thread would consider attractive. I found all to be so nice, so friendly so much fun and more genuine than any ATTRACTIVE person so far met. Sure there are some well balanced, attractive people but they are few and far between. I am very happy to entertain mails and meet up with any decent kind caring person.I welcome any unattractive guy or girl to contact me. Who the hell am I to judge them on looks alone...if I did I would be the most shallow pathetic creature.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I agree whole heartedly. Not everyone we're attracted to will be beautifull. Lets face it, there's probally more of us that are average than there is beautifull. The point of this thread was that if you have something attractive about yourself and you have taken the time to keep yourself in good shape, you are more libel to attact the same. Never once did I refer to ourselves as beautifull, but some posters have alluded to that because of the pic we have... When I look at your pics I see you are a very attractive girl, noticing that and being attracted to you surely does not make us shallow. I can see you have taken care of your body and look great. Now in saying that, I could look at another girl who may be just as attractive in her own right but not feel the same urge, yet then again' I could look at another girl nearly not so beautiful, and feel a connection. ? So really, in the end, it always get back to chemistry wether beautifull or not. Oh BTW.. what state is Mosman Park ?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Im with nymphasian on this one, what one person finds attractive another may find absolutely horrid. Truth is that personal tastes come into it all the time. I went out with a girl for a once that looked like she had walked off the cover of a magazine and was so beautiful that when she introduced herself I fair near fell over. This was the high point of the conversation as she had little else to talk about other than herself and how she stayed so good looking. My partner (Mrs surfer) is drop dead gorgeous and I often wonder what in gods name she sees in me. Sso I say to each their own. If you get turned on by a six foot tall read head with freckles but think anyone under 5 foot 6 is unattractive then so be it. Choice is a wonderful thing.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I totally agree that it's a person's whole package which is most attractive.However, there is some truth to people being attracted to sameness and fearful of difference.But in today's pluralistic, multi-cultural world, things are slowly changing. For me, it's one of the things I love about RHP - the chance to meet different people from all sorts of different world, size & shapes etc etc... Im my experience to embrace the difference (and not just 'tolerate' it) has led me to some totally gorgeous, amazing people I would never normally meet...
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RHP User
14 years ago
ok who do you choose? Vin Diesel...Brad...George...Mr Mc Con...when i was 12 i was told that i was ugly by a group of girls at school lol since then i have probably thanked them cos i thought whar i lacked in looks i would make up for in being cheeky!!! im now 35 going on 36, my awkward years behind me and have been told not only am i cheeky but sexy, a bit of a catch, and the girl that gets me will be lucky.....and thats not just because i cook for a living lol sooooo my point is even though i still consider myself average looking i have had many....not to sound too studish...ok a few women from all age categories that have in my eyes, and from societies point of view been very attractive and most of them are still in my life for some reason or the other.
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RogueGeek
14 years ago
"I only want to meet clean people with a nice body and nice looks."It's a bit off-putting for people who are not 100% secure... And given that you are what I would condier "hot", who am I to go against your wishes? I've read your profile and have ruled myself out using your criteria.Cheers,MS(the female half) Quoting 'nymphasian' Hi, there a great quote....Looks fade, dumb is forever!! You say attractive people will naturally seek other attractive people. I do not assume I am attractive, my experience is most of the good looking people on these sites are fairly shallow, self absorbed people. I have dated 2 guys and one couple from RHP and none were what the BEAUTIFUL lady who started this thread would consider attractive. I found all to be so nice, so friendly so much fun and more genuine than any ATTRACTIVE person so far met. Sure there are some well balanced, attractive people but they are few and far between. I am very happy to entertain mails and meet up with any decent kind caring person.I welcome any unattractive guy or girl to contact me. Who the hell am I to judge them on looks alone...if I did I would be the most shallow pathetic creature.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'foreverlove7985' Punching above your wieght is definitely not a waste of time. When i first laid eyes on Mrs Foreverlove i thought 'she's WAY out of my league, no way in hell she would be interested in someone with a head like a dropped pie'. I know she could have pretty much any guy she set her sights on and everytime i look in the mirror i am still perplexed as to why she would choose to be with me. The moral of the story is... even if you're ugly as shit, have a go because sometimes you get lucky,...very, very lucky. Lol (Mr) i agree with you MrFL. Sometimes you do get lucky. Thanks for bringing back some good memories.the night i met MrsNA she was on the other side of the club and i told my friends i was going to go and say hello to her... the guys all laughed at me... i had the last laugh that night.
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