M45
Baby Bellies and strechies
May 09 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
well you just won yourself some fans!!!!!!!! lovely comment, thank you :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Women all over RHP just went Awwwww
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jafuncpl1903
13 years ago
i love my wife more now she has a baby tummy and all the stretch marks but she hates having them but and any way beautys on the in side not the out side it nice to have both but u dont need it on the out side if its on the in side
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RHP User
13 years ago
What get me is when it clicks, the first thing I get shown is the scars, stretch marks, a smile not perfect, and regrets. Oh so sexy. There are no perfect people and those that think they are not for me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree Ding26- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
women can be very embarrassed about there body after giving birth. We all don't know how our bodies are after, some look the same as before and others have big stretchmarks. Even after breastfeeding your breast can suffer. However we still want babies, because giving life is something so beautiful and powerful its hard to discribe. And when you hold your child in your hand the one who was inside you for 9 month you forget everything. Love streams out of you in an incredible amount.
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On_Safari
13 years ago
Aren't YOU a man who's going to win lots of friends if not influence people!!! (Insert broad smile here!) You mentioned baby bellies and stretchies but what about caesar aprons? Nudge nudge wink wink. Safari x- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Flattery will get you everywhere!!! I must admit after many years - I am starting to like my body, battle scars and all. Thank you Op for appreciating a little of what women go through 😜😘- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
what a beautiful man you are - and what a lovely post this is Oh my, you live just down the road from me too
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm with you Just-chill-n any woman that is pregnant or has the baby belly,stretchies or ceaser marks from giving life are the most beautiful women around and I don't think they should hide it at all.they should be proud of their bodies and should be treated that way.
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RHP User
13 years ago
No gents have responded though???
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RHP User
13 years ago
I must say I agree with just_chillin there is nothing wrong at all with stretchies ( never would have thought of that name) or baby bellies, and there is nothing wrong with a pregnant belly too, I think that is very sexy as well. Yeah it does show that you have had some children and given life, and its just part of you, I'm not that shallow to see the rest of someone as a turn on and that a turn off at all, just the opposite. Think I am pretty easy going and we all have our bits that we dont like personally, but we hope most will overlook and just enjoy the person within as well. ok later.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Doesn't necessarily dictate what's sexy. A lot of women that I have met over the years including my wife don't understand that when your attracted to someone it doesn't matter what their shape, wrinkles, marks, life medals as I call them are, it's the person to me is the attraction. If that wasn't true I'd never hook up I'm bent, broken, busted up and have been feeding from a good paddock (padding) that's my 2cents worth
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RHP User
13 years ago
sorry Misskay I should of made it clear who put up post, it was me Mr Fordz
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RHP User
13 years ago
So now you have won all our hearts. Yes no gents have responded misskay. Interesting- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
That's beautiful! Shame it seems there aren't too many men with that same opinion. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
MissKay said: "No gents have responded though???"A lot of us gents have been saying this all along or didn't think this was an issue. Blemishes? Who cares? Everyone has them. If some guy rebukes you because of stretchmarks or a caeser apron (just found out what that is) he isn't worth the time or energy.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think most guys would feel the same , we dont care about stretch marks from carry a baby its just a fact of life. And i hope the women of the world dont worry about them because as Just Chillin pointed it its Natural. i call them tiger stripes for sexy cats
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RHP User
13 years ago
You are the Man, Mister !...and yes those ladies deserves medals for it... and one day i mite get one too.
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Letzgetwild
13 years ago
I have had to learn to embrace my baby podge....after years of dieting and crunches, it just wont go away. So seeing how I worked so hard to get it, I now love it and wear it with pride! Thanks OP *hugs*
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RHP User
13 years ago
I was one of the lucky biatches who escaped stretch marks. The belly I have now is of my own making and is worth every drop of Moet it took to get it!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Chill, well said. Cheers, W.
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RHP User
13 years ago
going to get laid you got any thing for scars? I am covered in em how about women with double chins? corns? old cybnic that I am
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RHP User
13 years ago
I refuse to try and wish away evidence I've had kids.
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RHP User
13 years ago
And saw no point in commenting....my bad :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'paintme'The belly I have now is of my own making and is worth every drop of Moet it took to get it! Same! And OP, you are special.
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RHP User
13 years ago
There's seems to be too much emphasis within the swinging lifestyle to be totally gorgeous, have the sexiest bodies. That's fine if you've never given birth, and you have not aged gracefully..We enjoy people for who they are, not what they look like. Sexiness is not how you look, but how you act...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Luvnya69'There's seems to be too much emphasis within the swinging lifestyle to be totally gorgeous, have the sexiest bodies. That's I what expected when joined this site, but I'm so happy to say my experiences haven't been like that. I would advise anyone who has body issues to visit a club or go to private parties. I've seen pretty much every body shape that exists there, and if there's one thing I've learned is that being beautiful does NOT equal sexy. Behaviour and attitude do! Seeing all these short, big, wrinkly, lumpy, tall, scarred, little, saggy, etc, etc. men and women just ooze sexuality has been so re-assuring!
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's the total package that men find sexy. My body is by no means perfect, I've created, carried, birthed and nurtured 4 little humans with this body, It's served me well, I admire it's capability, it's strength constantly suprises me. It's capability for pleasure delights me, it is the vessel for my intellect and personality, I respect it and love all it allows me to do. We have a lovely relationship. I trust that my lovers feel similarly to me.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
All women are beautiful it's whats on the inside that really counts the most. Scars, bellies... It's just proof that you've lived and contributed to the growth of our society and should be displayed with honor... Truth is no man could truly endure the pain and stress you ladies go through when giving birth. To the true Heroes in this world, females you are all the air that allows our civilization to live... We salute you !! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think its the least attractive feature of me, but still feel I have nice assests and it is those assets that men are attracted too. Quoting 'wowwow11' I think most guys would feel the same , we dont care about stretch marks from carry a baby its just a fact of life. And i hope the women of the world dont worry about them because as Just Chillin pointed it its Natural. i call them tiger stripes for sexy cats I think its the least attractive feature of me, but still feel I have nice assets and it is those assets that men are attracted too. Well I think they are
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RHP User
13 years ago
*Raises hand*For me as well - it is the most unattractive part of my body and to be honest I don't really like it one bit - that was the thing I suppose why I didn't like being pregnant - my body changing and what happened to it.It's not something I dwell on or nag about. I guess just don't talk about it.This is the first time since my having my daughter that I am really accepting more and more of my body - that's it's not perfect.I guess having a man say to one after birth of child "You look fat, you should lose that weight" didn't help. :(I will be honest and the truth is I do find it hard sometimes when a lover says to me "I just so love your body- Gward it's so sexy"However I know there are other things about me that over ride that. For one my personality. :)Foxy
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RHP User
13 years ago
I must say thank thank you for embracing this Topic...It is wonderful to read and hear how other people think and feel of their stretch marks etc etc especially from other men.Not many women do embrace this topic as it is something some woman are self-conscious about as it is a huge negative change that happens to their bodies from child-birth. Most women I know do find them unattractive and dread looking at them.If I could give you a Foxy Hug right now I would.Foxy xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I must say thank thank you for embracing this Topic...It is wonderful to read and hear how other people think and feel of their stretch marks etc etc especially from other men.Not many women do embrace this topic as it is something some woman are self-conscious about as it is a huge negative change that happens to their bodies from child-birth. Most women I know do find them unattractive and dread looking at them.If I could give you a Foxy Hug right now I would.Foxy xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
and no matter how confident & proud I am, no matter how full of self love, my 'ceasar apron' (I adore that term) still gives me moments of self doubt & self loathing. And assure you I will, I'm one of the stronger bunnies. I would hate to be insecure with self loathing. We need people like you OP to pump us all up. I've just hitched up a bandwagon, jump on everyone.
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RHP User
13 years ago
apologies.
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RHP User
13 years ago
jemmma... Your pic belies what you say.. Your pic looks fabulous.. Flat tummy etc... I believe most men have not replied to this thread because they sense the love in the replies and prefer to leave it to the female sector who identify with what's been said. Personally '. I think the majority of women who give birth, will have some sort of body issue. Not too many manage to return to their former glory and not too many men see it as issue at all.. Me for one... Jay
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'wowwow11' i call them tiger stripes for sexy cats And you don't need to have been pregnant to have them. I have them on my hips, my ex had them on his upper arms. Racing stripes.
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Aren't you just the sweetest man!! I have a Caesar scar - which I call my smiley scar. I have a few other scars on my tummy - but they make me the person I am :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
You're not from Woman's Day are you? (This thread is too good to be true) Even if you are/aren't , I'll still comment. Yes, I have 2 ceasarian scars, stretch marks, & scars caused by gently scratching my tummy, which would bleed. So what do men think when they see an ugly stomach I wonder...- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Clever ! Not sure about getting laid, but you just won lots of good friends !- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well said eveyone on ur comments.... It's so true n I'm loving the way I look n feel about myself My motto is "U take me for me" n if thats not good enuf for u hit the road coz I kno there r people out there that do... I dont get hung up on what people think as life is to short to concern yourself about that type of stuff n they also say "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"
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RHP User
13 years ago
Omg what a gold man you are.....when are we hooking up:) xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Omg what a gold man you are.....when are we hooking up:) xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
well you have just won my heart!! and to read other men are of the same opinion, well it goes to show there are still amazing men out there just need to find them !!! thank you for such a beautiful post x
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hotpassionpie
13 years ago
Fact of Life noone is ever Perfect. Life is about accepting everyone for who they are on the inside, not what they have or dont have!! Well done Op for raising this subject, very refreshing to see a guy with a sense of care factor....points to you!! :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thank you so much to everyone that took the time to read my post, i didn't know what sort of reaction i would get if any.... it just goes to show that there are some wonder people on this site.... take care every one
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RHP User
13 years ago
Nicely put JC..... Most women I've been lucky enough to meet seem to think these marks are a badge of shame but I think they should be proud, they earnt their stripes.... Beauty is most deffinately not skin deep. 😘😘- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'just_chill_n' i didn't know what sort of reaction i would get if any.... C'mooooooon! *Rolleyes*
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RHP User
13 years ago
I continued to follow this thread with great interest!! I loved hearing women say they loved their bellies & scars. And hearing the men comment was even more heartwarming. Sometimes having babies and life in general is not easy!! But hearing my body is still appreciated {baby belly, (I don't have strechies), but i do have scars on breast from cancer surgery} makes me feel sexy. I might even just go stand in front of the mirror naked. Lol. Well done Just_Chill_N FANTASTIC post!! And how timely............................. You have made my "Mother's Day"!!! Happy Mother's Day everyone 💋- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
100% behind you on that one chilln. I love it, its the mark of a real woman
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
I too have had 3 children - I was one of the lucky ppl that did not get stretch makes.... However I have had key hole surgery on my tummy, plus another operation which gave me my first Caesar scar although I was not pregnant - when I did have the Caesar the surgeon went over the same scar which was good! I do have a few bumps on my tummy n it does sag in areas, but I'm only human n will never have the flat stomach that a few woman long desire - but is it totally possible to have a completely flat stomach without going to extremes! Everyone's body has a story to tell - male or female - just be proud of who you are! No one should judge anyone until they have walked in the same shoes n had the same experiences!
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RHP User
13 years ago
It was such a surprise to see this post written by a man, I know all us women out there that have baby belly or stretch marks will feel a lot better about them after reading this. Thank you :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'lookingforfun169'I love it, its the mark of a real woman Really?Not sure what to make of that comment.We've all met real women who didnt have them..... so not sure how they define if a woman is, or isnt a woman.
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RHP User
13 years ago
What a great way to get laid - tell all the women what they want to hear - wise up ladies!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'free_for_all' What a great way to get laid - tell all the women what they want to hear - wise up ladies!! So are we then to be sceptical never give someone the benefit of the doubt........ I may have wondered also about his motives but when listening to the previous posts where women opened up on this issue made me realiseeven if chill wanted something his post brought out peoples inhibitions and made a lot of women on here feel better about there less than perfest bodies.....You free for all sound so negative like my ex....as someone would alway have an alterior motive.....NEVER TRUST
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RHP User
13 years ago
I totally agree with just chill'n yummy mummy tummies.. and little .. as i call them 'love marks' .. SO sexy love to follow them sexy little lines with my tongue .. kiss them to wherever they lead .. they aren't 'flaws' .. they are badges of life-giving honourmr playtogether
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've never used the term 'stretch marks' I would normally say a tiger whose earned her stripes! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
There is a huge difference between a mummy tummy and an ordinary old pot. But getting women to embrace this is hard. When ever a woman comments on her tummy, I'm quick to point out the difference but I usually get a disbelieving look.Above some body commented that it was a trophy. I agree. You can't be a hot milf without one.
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captainkaos
13 years ago
I have always loved curvier women. To me, scars are sexy. My family and friends think that I am a bit weird but I also like a bit of celulite AND I also like boobs that hang down. I lived with a very sexy aunty(through marriage) when i was a young teenager for a couple of months. Both my uncle and her used to walk around the house naked, we would also go to the beach alot so i used to see her body alot. She had a gorgeous bum and she had a little bit of cellulite and i thought that that was sooo sexy. It could have been my age and my hormones but i still like it. lol.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I fully agree with Chillin'. The marks stand for something sacred and are very sexy. Confidence in yourself, your body is what's truly sexy anyway. A confident woman has this glow about her, when she knows about her natural beauty. I don't mean arrogant, that's when the glow fades again, but confident. And stretch marks are part of it. There is nothing hotter than a woman who knows about her impact on men, and nothing more off putting than a woman that thinks her, or her stretch marks are ugly. She is not, they're not! They symbolize the ultimate sacredness of giving life. And if a man makes you feel bad about some marks he is truly a superficial moron and not worth your time and energy I reckon. Let him chase his "supermodel" ideal and you'll be better off without him, find yourself the true lover who appreciates your whole package, sees your inner AND outer beauty.... Someone wise said "men overestimate their impact on women and women underestimate theirs and how desperate men are". True i reckon.Many women seem to be self depreciating about their looks and impact on men. They don't realize just how amazingly gorgeous, beautiful, desirable, sexy, wanted, indispensable, caring, loving, nurturing, powerful, intelligent, smart and a lot of other things they really are! As a woman, stop looking for flaws, to a man you have none! To some superficial dickheads you might, but that's because of the dickheads view of the world and you wouldn't want him in your life anyway! For every dickhead there are 100 that would absolutely die for you! There are so many men that find every single feature of you irresistible! Literally! Some Women should stop chasing some media hyped ideal and immerse themselves in their own natural beauty. A confident woman that is happy with herself has an irresistible glow, an aura if you will that makes her unbelievably desirable to men. Men love skinny, men love big, men love big boobs, men love small boobs, men love small asses, men love big asses, long hair, short hair, no hair, it doesn't matter! Men love everything! Women should be assured they make tons of men drool! They are very desirable on so many levels that its ridiculous not to know it, not to glow. So start glowing! Feel your inner and outer beauty! And let it shine! If you don't, you're like a sun bottling up your rays. Open the cork and let it all out!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Im dating one atm, It bothers her more than me i dont mind :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Excellent thread. My partner has a baby belly from our 2 kiddies and some small stretch marks and she hates them both and is really hung up on it and nothing but costly plastic surgery will eradicate them. She has gone to gyms, practically starved herself dieting and the flabby baby tummy still refuses to budge!! She is not a big girl either and a size 10-12 but the evidence from the kids will always be there. We are both very new to this scene and can count the amount of couples we have seen on 1 hand truthfully and when we search the profiles and suss others out etc the main comment she makes on them " Oh she is HOT and look at her stomach "!!! We are what we are i suppose and this site has heaps of beautiful couples on here and stunning women which makes it a bit daunting for her and the constant fear of rejection is always there as she under rates herself when seeing other females on here!! It is good to know though that some people can see past it and this is a great thread for the Mums out there on here and there is so much more to people than just looks alone.
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RHP User
13 years ago
That's made my day as a New mum with an always slim size figure it's been hard to rethink about myself in a different light. However knowing how men enjoy the confidence and carismatic attitude of a positive happy woman I find myself more confident and sexier these days after becoming a yummy mummy. X. - Posted from rhpmobile
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mule916
13 years ago
There a tiger stripes. They are earned
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RHP User
13 years ago
But I have the stretchies from years of being over weight...and scars from botched lap band and infections left to rage in my body without real treatment for 18 months, and a podge of a upper abdomen and lower abdominal apron... Do I still count... cause the post only says baby bellies are sexy... Now that I have lost 50kgs... oh my skin is a mess... but I look at it and think of how big I was and how I earned those stripes losing the weight one kilo at a time... And thank god for reconstructive surgery... cause without it my skin will be sick and sore... We shouldn't hate on those who choose to "fix" perceived flaws. For them it is a flaw and needs to be corrected... medically or mentally....some guys might find it sexy, others won't... it's our choice... no matter what a guy says to us, it's always what's in our head yelling the loudest. Be gentle with the big girls who have lost the weight as well... we worked our arses off...literally!
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Rob_Ally
13 years ago
A mark for every breathe you tookEvery blink, every sleepy yawnOne for every time you sucked your thumbWaved hello, closed your eyes and sleptIn the most perfect darknessOne for every time you had the hiccupsIt isn't very pretty anymoreSome may even say its uglyThat's okIt was your home, it was where I grew to love youWhere I laid my handAs I dreamed about who you were and who you would beIt held you until my arms couldFor that I will always find something beautiful in itYou haven't ruined your body. You're a goddam Tiger who earned her stripes (Author unknown)Now go get 'em Tiger Allyxxx
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Chelle63
13 years ago
Quoting 'lookingforfun169' 100% behind you on that one chilln. I love it, its the mark of a real woman
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Chelle63
13 years ago
Quoting 'Frack_Me' But I have the stretchies from years of being over weight...and scars from botched lap band and infections left to rage in my body without real treatment for 18 months, and a podge of a upper abdomen and lower abdominal apron... Do I still count... cause the post only says baby bellies are sexy... Now that I have lost 50kgs... oh my skin is a mess... but I look at it and think of how big I was and how I earned those stripes losing the weight one kilo at a time... And thank god for reconstructive surgery... cause without it my skin will be sick and sore... We shouldn't hate on those who choose to "fix" perceived flaws. For them it is a flaw and needs to be corrected... medically or mentally....some guys might find it sexy, others won't... it's our choice... no matter what a guy says to us, it's always what's in our head yelling the loudest. Be gentle with the big girls who have lost the weight as well... we worked our arses off...literally!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Could nearly be in tears if I let myself..writings like that get me everytime! Have to say I don't mind my stretch marks, but they aren't that bad. I do detest my stomach though, and I've had nearly four years to 'get used to it'. I suppose it doesn't help that I'm yet to bare myself in front of someone who is not my (now ex) partner. It does slightly terrify me what they will really think when I do strip off, maybe they'll act like they don't care but really be thinking how disgusting it is.. Shallow of me maybe to care so much about what someone else thinks, but I want to feel confident, and sexy in front of another person with no clothes on. Part of me thinks well there are probably a ton of other 25 year olds with flatter stomachs than mine, so why would anyone choose me over them? Hit me over the head with the book of reality if you like, I know it's the whole package that counts, but I wouldn't want one part of it, the part I hate the most to be a deal breaker or even slightly off putting.. I am quite happy with the rest of me, just not my mummy tummy! Maybe I just need to get it over with once and then it'll be fine..but I almost feel like I have to disclose it before I plan to get naked with someone else so they don't have any nasty surprises... Haha. It is nice to hear that a lot of you don't mind, but when faced with the reality of one is it a different story? Is there ever a moment you think that's rather not sexy? *dreaming of killer abs* - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Masley, there is NEVER a moment where we think it's rather not sexy. Constant dreaming and chasing of "killer abs" that you never quite reach, the constant stressed hunt for something unimportant and the older you get ever harder to achieve body ideal, the need to hide part of your body, not THAT'S not sexy! A woman doesn't even have to say it, you can tell immediately when she is inhibited, unhappy with herself over a few stretch marks, because she got no "killer abs". She has a very unsexy vibe about her, not because she got stretch marks but because she is so inhibited! The solution is to let go of that silly ideal and become relaxed with yourself, and like a flower your petals start opening and you become irresistible. You are NOT disgusting, no part of you, no marks, no stomach, no nothing! We're not just saying that to make you feel better but because it's true. I suppose tell your future possible partner that you do have stretch marks if you're really not comfortable with it and can't get over it and see his reaction. And if he is really shallow enough to indicate disgust, get rid of him right away, he's a moron not worthy of you.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Chelle63' Quoting 'lookingforfun169' 100% behind you on that one chilln. I love it, its the mark of a real woman us females without kids don't count, apparently we're not 'real women'. *eyeroll*
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RHP User
13 years ago
You go girl!
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RHP User
13 years ago
wow... i can't believe the amazing responses from everyone, this was the first that i raised ...l thanks to everyone for contributing... i know there are people out there that think that i was only trying to get laid by writing what i did! but aren't we all on here for similar reasons ( not that i should have to explain myself, but not one person has messaged me because my post nor have i messaged or sent one flirt to anyone since i have been on this site) but i have read through every message at least 5 times and whether or not you think i am genuine take a good look at the good that has come from all the posts ( i may have started this but the content is from every one, and the content is brilliant)
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RHP User
13 years ago
how sweet just_chilln_n, think you just got brownie points from every mother out there. lol ;P"your body is not ruined, you are a goddamn tiger that's earned her stripes"
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just chill n very well said Women with stretchmarks and the like should be proud and comfortable with them, they are gorgeous! Women are good and all bodies are nice! Women be proud and comfotable, men find the confidence attractive!
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RHP User
13 years ago
This is a really good thread and interesting to read peoples own assessments. In an interesting turn it is Mr Shyloving2 that first had the stretch marks. Through years of weightlifting his body grew to a point beyond its design and, as a result, he developed scaring on his arms, legs and belly. He was embarrassed by it to a degree but as I told him, anyone that can lift half a car will show some signs - LOL. Now, having had 3 children together, we are the same.... He just calls me a copy-cat... At the end of the day I have never met a person totally happy (100%) with the way they look. No matter how incredible they are to others, there is always an element they wish to improve. No one is perfect in every way... Just listen to the positive things people say and take it for what it is worth. Without inner happiness there is no outer happiness to give...
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RHP User
13 years ago
What mum wouldnt agree lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
hi girls I agree totally my wife has baby belly but I love it and look at the end result go girls
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sammilling
13 years ago
my wife has had 4 kids and have all the marks to show for it. But that why i love her for who she is not what she looks like, all women need to be accepted for who they are not how they look
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RHP User
13 years ago
I thought I would throw my 2 cents in and see where it landed me. Not all men are shallow, not all men care about the belly and not all men understand. I like running my hands over the bumps and scars of childbirth to show that I don't care about those bits of a woman. Damn society to hell for putting the idea out there that women NEED to look a certain way. If we were meant to all be the same, we would have been born like it. Anyway dragging on a bit and slightly off topic. Don't be so worried about your bellies women when there are other things to focus on. Have a good day people.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Lets see the sort of trouble this gets me into.I "prefer" smooth skin, without stretchmarks, etc.So of course I would find women without such marks more appealing.... and I expect if people were genuinely honest with themselves, the majority would say the same.IE..... two identical women, side by side.... one has obvious stretch marks... the other does not.HOWEVER........ because we do not make such ridiculous choices, they are irrelevant.It is a person that I am attracted to.And if those elements that determine a persons attractively to me... mean that the person also has marks, blemishes and "flaws".... then they are part of the package of that person.DG
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RHP User
13 years ago
Baby bellys and stretch marks r life life is real and real is so hot an sexy- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Not surprised at the OP, but rather the reactions to it! I totally agree with the OP, and have never thought any different, so I'm surprised by the number of ladies posting their congratulations to something that I've always thought was the norm! Maybe I've lived a sheltered life... maybe us blokes just don't say it enough... who kbows!- Posted from rhpmobile
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yankmychain56
13 years ago
I would say the media and the porn industry is to blame for all our perceptions of what a woman should look like or how she should be in bed.When my ex was pregnant, i would rub her belly every night with all kinds of creams so she wouldnt get stretch marks but she did anyway. While she hated it i still thought she was beautiful.She even had some on her boobs because she breast fed and they were HUGE (drool).Some women are so sexy you dont even notice the stretch marks anyway
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RHP User
13 years ago
These days but am still very self conscious of my baby belly & it really frustrates me because I know I would be a lot more adventurous & enjoy a greater sex life if I wasn't constantly worrying about my appearance in the the back of my mind, it took me 3 years after I split from my husband to finally get the courage to put myself back out their because I just felt soooo unattractive & embarrassed about my body :'( - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'lookingforfun169'100% behind you on that one chilln. I love it, its the mark of a real woman Not all woman can have or choose to have kiddies... to say 'its the mark of a real woman'..... leaves me wondering what that makes me.... not so real?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'GMerst25'A lot of us gents have been saying this all along or didn't think this was an issue. Blemishes? Who cares? Pretty much, if you haven't got a few marks on you by now, you haven't been using it enough/the right way!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well said, spot on, a nice soft'n'streched tummy is part of a woman's character & shouldn't be embarrassed by it, it's reality after all & proof that woman are the true gods cos who else can bring life into this world, shit it's not us blokes that's for sure - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thats gold!
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