Baby its the way you make me feel!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  We haven't reached that stage yet but look forward to it .....

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Its how comfortable "you are" to watch your wife having sex with another man for the first time. You will either like the thought of it or you will have reservations about it, and if you do, you just don't go there until you're cool with it. I personally, enjoy watching my wife being intimate with a guy she finds suits her style. The look on their faces as they're enjoying each other is priceless and such a turn on for me. Enjoy yourselves and the journey...

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Hygiene and cleanliness before during and after their encounter. I'm not in a couple but I have a group thing on the go and seeing my friend passed around and then her expecting me to touch her straight after makes me feel a bit yuk. Don't hate me, just my opinion.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  The first time I was excited, among other things about that fact that we had actually got to that point; after months and a couple of ‘dud’ experiences. It was with a single guy who had managed to get our attention. He was really nice but so excited that it didn’t last long and it was only doggy style. So it was less intimate than it could have been and not threatening at all. I had to do most of the work myself LOL! We do both like watching our partner and the person/people we are with enjoying themselves. We have found that it is important to check in with your partner, if everyone is having fun then nobody’s nose is likely to get out of joint.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  doesn't sound like you are enjoying that group thing much.Perhaps you need to tell your friend how you feel...sorry if this is self evident but this should be about pleasure,your's,her's,their's.x R

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Its not so much seeing her being played with and enjoying herself, I love that. But it's the idea of just me and her playing within a short time that gets me feeling a bit weird. Just gotta deal with it I guess

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  i would feel the same Tortured..im very fussy about hygiene..couldnt do the group thing :/

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Hi there

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'Torturedcliche'Its not so much seeing her being played with and enjoying herself, I love that. But it's the idea of just me and her playing within a short time that gets me feeling a bit weird. Just gotta deal with it I guess Hey TC, how ya doin'.   Might I suggest starting your afterlood wet!!!!!   Take her and play in the shower for a while......   Sally and I do it after a hot night out.......we have a little ritual.....when we get home we wash the night away, lather each other up and have the most amazing sex before we sleep it all off.... Hot Hot Hot   .im gonna end there mate, or typing's gonna get sloppy..lol   Troy

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  For me (Troy) the first time was pretty hard..long time ago but I remember it well. I'm a scorpio so everyone exspects with me its mostly about sex, so all should be good....but, some of my traits is also strong emotions towards jealousy, selfishness, obsessive and possessive ,grudges and so on. As well as some good ones like loyal, passionate, observant etc.   The way I dealt with it was to turn the negative traits into positive ones. So how did I do that? Give you an example. Selfishness,.... keep her to myself, is what I wanted to say to myself......what I did say is "I love to tease and give as much pleasure as I can, and I will be selfish about it and please myself by giving. So I will selfishly give as much pleasure to her, by giving her another man to add the altimate pleasure and allow it to continue over and over. I selfishly get what I want this way!!! and low and behold, she gets satisfaction plus.   I than worked through each one, truth be known,,,jealousy being the hardest one, finally I managed to be able to see that if I was jealous that another man could excite and pleasure my wife, that this actually meant that I truelly cared for her and was able to use that emotion to make sure no other man can actually make her feel the way I do. and, being a scorpio used that to my advantage and well, let me just say it as it is,,,,,,,fuck her ass off with passion and love, everyday and after every encounter.   We've now been together for 25 yrs and have just renewed our vows, after swinging for years. Oh and btw we both lost our viginity together in high school, so it was bloody hard, trust me. The only sex partner we have ever had is ourselves,,,,,,,,, and our playmates together.   Long winded but thats me...lol.........but this is a subject close to home so thanks OP,,,good one   Troy

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