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Bad Boys Vs Good Guys
January 03 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Don't you know yet, hanvn't you worked it out!!! the bad guys will fuck you and kick you to the kerb, The good guys will fuck you just the same, but next day will call you and say "hope you had a great night, wanna do coffee would be great to see you again" at the end of the day what do you want? how do want to be treated? whats your fantasy? from a guy who hung with the bad guys, and thought this is just so wrong!!Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks Nev, I see your point (actually I've experienced it!). What do I want...LOL ! That's another question I've been asked a few times. It's more about what I want right NOW. I know what I want long term. I just don't think I can get it right now. Although I've actually been asking myself if it's more about the fact that I believe I don't DESERVE it right now ! You know the drill. Naughty girl thinks 'cause she's been BAD, she deserves to be punished so instinctively seeks out MR BAD ! (BAD in my book will NEVER equal abusive !! ) Or... Ms Risk Taker wants that extra thrill in life so wants to play with the tough guys ! Or she wants to prove to the tough guys that women can play hard too ? There is something about the thrill I can't quite figure out. (yes...I also abseil, rock climb, drive fast, kick box anything rather than sit at home and knit !!) xxx Ms Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
Then you're a bad girl turned on by very bad boys. ...and you've got all bases covered with a supply of good guys on standby. With so much hot stuff going on I would not be surprised if you were smoking. No silly... not inhaling... just down there! ...and plenty of puffing from all the exercise.
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RHP User
16 years ago
It is true, good guys do finish last here! But at least we can hold our heads up with a smattering of dignity I suppose. I tried being an arsehole on another site and failed miserably, got told I have too much of a romantic streak in me to be a total dickhead lol One thing that does get me though is this: many women on this site have said they prefer the "bad boys". Well good, go for it, just don't then bitch about the guy not calling the next day, not turning up for a date, playing around. Hello, they are bad boys remember, they do things like that ...
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RHP User
16 years ago
i should add, i have seen this treatment of a girl go on for a week, 2 weeks a month, 2 months depending on how good a fuck she was considered to be, (not by me, i was just in the circle at the time) have seen these same women, at the pub with us begging to get back into the fold," what is wrong with me" "why doesn't he want me"the cryring and begging, and trust me these were really nice girls, any of which i would have been proud to call my girlfriend. but what can you do!! and i'am not talking kids here, mid 30's guys with mid 20's girls.So Saturn what are after, can you play the bad boy game and not get hurt! Christ i hope so.Cheers Nev.......Bad boys....be prepared to play them at their game!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I swear to you that we, yes a couple I know, have a preference for nice/ good guys. Not so easy to tell the difference all the time though. Some are more sneaky than others. Hugs... Mrs P'
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RHP User
16 years ago
yeah i know what you mean, its that primeval urge, lets get it on, but i didn't see your reply post ....cause i was writing another addendum....man why do i always think of something else i should have added immediately after i press the reply button!!!.doh I know, won't matter what what i say ....i have seen it all before....just play the pricks at their game....no attachment now ....ok lovely lady....right!!!...lol....have fun....guard your heart with your life! " its just about the sex"and remember these guys flippantly use terms like"shooting fish in a barel " make sure you get your cut.....okIts about time the sistas knew what thet were playing with sometimes.....sorry guys!Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
Nev, yet again you and I seem to be on the same wavelength. I agree with everything you have said, it does seem some women are asking to have their hearts broken, or at least end up becoming pissed off with men in general. Mrs P, thank you for that but I do have a question. Do many of the nice guys take up your offer? I must admit I am not looking for a couple - remember my romantic streak lol Just curious, one persons idea of what makes up a nice guy probably differs from the next.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Noone we have spent time on getting to know has said no lolol... our 'numbers' are not high though
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've done the bad guys... I learned at least 20 years ago that they weren't worth my time! Mr P' has been my man for over 20 years now... Mrs P'
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lovely to see some more of you, Mr P thinkin you is a lucky guy, one very special lady you has their!Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
Is is possible for the good guys to play BAD ? Perhaps there's the genuine guys out there who are as in to risk taking as I am and who know I lke to push the boundaries... AND just perhaps we could have fun together but do it in a respectful, caring, and considerate way. Is that possible???? I just think I'm being delusional. Perhaps it's the Mango I just ate...it's making me rethink my soft, sweet side... I just find it hard to find the really good guys who are a little dysfunctional and crazy like I am. Ohhhh one more thing... Nev, I do NOT believe it's possible for women to play the bad boys game as well as they do. I know I'm tough, strong, and assertive but I still have a large amount of vulnerability in the form of oestragen ! I WILL get hurt. I have been hurt. I"m just unsure what the answer is. Hugs... in sweet, sticky, mango delight... Ms Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm in agreement with Nev and Mooka. For the first 6 months of 2009, I played hard. I had to separate my heart from my pussy (blunt, but true)...not always successfully I have to say. But I learned..I learned what I liked, what I didn't like, what I would put up with, what I wouldn't put up with. I learned something new with every encounter...and it was thrilling! I also learned to respect myself and I learned what I was worth. Yeah...I missed the hugs, the familar phone call , the stability etc of a Mr Nice Guy. But if anything, not having it meant that I really did want that over a random sexual encounter. But I had to find it out for myself. Now I'm in a position to have a nice guy back in my life...but this time, with variations on vanilla :D Take care Jxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
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TimidButCurious
16 years ago
There has always been a 4 letter word that has followed me around since I can remember, that word was (and I think still is)... "nice". I am a nice girl looking for a nice guy. Maybe I'm too vanilla, but I don't get the hole "bad boy" thing, it's all hard enough let alonge being treated like crap afterwards - am I missing something??? Nice boys can be great in bed too you know I want Miss Honey's little Cupid to fly to Sydney and aim a few arrows my way. I'm sure Cupid only sends nice boys. (Soooo happy for you by the way Miss Honey, I wish you and the headmaster all the very best.) Ms Saturn, maybe in 2010 you can push your boundaries by trying one of the said nice boys you have in your rolodex already, doesn't mean that they expect to settle down with you - and absolutely you may find that they are a "tiger/bad boy" in the bedroom AND... you still get that lovely message/support/friendship afterwards that Nev mentioned - Win/Win. I get the whole "don't deserve it" thing - but of course you always deserve to be treated well. Hope your 2010 brings you what you desire. xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
But the guys like you and me, hold women up to be very special creatures, far far more than just a peice of meat to be taken advantage of in any way, at any cost to these very special creatures. These very same women who are the creatures of our desire, who nourish our soul, who bear our children, who we hold to be our equal in ever way, and who we would gladly give our lives for in an instant to protect....... My friend it is the getting of wisdom, you know it ...i know it....we hope there are a few more coming up from the ranks below! because as we all know the chivalrous guy will allways finish below the wolf......or....meh...thats just chicks.....sorry girls but you just know it too and aint a damn thing we can do about it!Cheers Nev & Mooka.... but of couse Mooka can allways recant any of this at anytime!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Alright, first I'll admit that I'm a good guy....with a bad boy streak in the bedroom. I have a set of handcuffs, and spank ties, and I have used them to subdue a worked up nymph while I decided to take a shower. But I will remove them, I woul have normally cooked dinner first, and will give a courtesy call or message in the morning. Now to the Bad Boys. They are probably reading this, calling their mates if they have any, as usually they have fucked their mates girls too and alienated themselves. They're reading this because they prey on the lonely hearts that have no reservations hooking up with someone from the net, that they will never have to call again once they get their end in. My sister went for a Bad Boy. She now has an interim VRO against him, which he has challenged...and I cannot say anything more about it as he is being investigated by the Online Division of the Federal Police. But this has gone on for months now!!! Here's the clincher, HE IS ON THIS SITE!!! He does this, exactly what you are seeking and he gets off on trying to destroy the lives of the people that turn him down. All because they say enough! Be wary ladies, there's a reason they're bad boys. Go there if you must, but be careful. Cheers, Michael
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RHP User
16 years ago
How about the good guys PLAY bad ?That may need some explaining Saturn. I assume you are talking in bed.If that is the case, just because someone is a good /nice guy doesn't mean that they don't push boundaries sexually. Difference may be that they dont necessarily push the woman into something they dont want like the bad boys will, instead playing within the limits that both are happy with. If anything the good guy will do things that may be outside his nature if the female wants it. The bad boy is more likely to not do what the female wants just to spite her, besides, he is only out to please himself. I've done things to women that outside of the bedroom I wouldn't even contemplate, however it was what they asked for...I don't have to understand why they like it, they just do. Difference is I wouldn't go doing the same to someone I just met who might otherwise end up having me locked in a cell at the local cop shop.
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RHP User
16 years ago
ya really need a box of mangoes ta play with, and bananas, and carrots, and ice...mmm...lots of ice...giggles....now where's that bloody trish when ya need her...grins....nah seriously, one day you will wake up with that hot sexy, beefcake, kendoll, six-pack guy...lol...beside you and you will take a "professional" look at yaself and decide you're not a "cat in the dark"...how am i doing..???ya got brains, wit, style, great butt...mmmm....keep on going wif ya libido and have as much fun as ya possibly can...woohooo....ya preferences will change...i guarantee it....and then ya will have a whole swag of "nice"...are they really??...guys ta choose from....cheersjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't have the patience or tollerance any more to deal with their crap! I spent 8 years trying to have a relationship with a "bad boy" so I wouldn't even consider going there again....even just for sex. As for bad boys pretending to be nice guys....you've got to watch out for them too, had always thought I was good at reading people but I let one get through the radar a couple of years ago, left me feeling a little frazzled but you live and learn....I hope :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I just think you're just romanticing a concept to excuse the fact that you are playing vulnerable guys on a string because they make YOU feel good... but I could be wrong. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hard to know who to feel less sympathy for in this catalogue of woe. The moronic muscle men who play the field with no regard to the feelings of anyone or anything except the nerves in their cock? The poor deluded woman who regards these people as "lions" and strangely believes that they offer something "different" when all they offer is a mechanical recreation of what they've already done a hundred times with other women, like actors reciting a script every night? The sad tragics who still hang around this woman in the hope that she will one day choose them rather than moving on and finding someone more deserving of their attentions? Dreadful, quite dreadful.
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RHP User
16 years ago
The notion of "don't deserve it" is an interesting one… conjures up a vision of 50 million naughty reasons why not… when it comes to bad girls. Bad as in 'rotten to the core' or just pushing the envelope of acceptability. Some people are still horrified by the thought or oral… dirty, disgusting only a slut would do that. But surely nice girls can do oral too? Bad as 'use and abuse' is another thing. Being whipped might seem like abuse to one mind yet an alternate lifestyle to another… though the circumstances do vary greatly. Sex for sex sake does not depend entirely on whether the guy is good or bad. Good in bed is important, but of a bad character may be irrelevant. Bad guys are less likely to cling… so sex for the moment with no strings attached seems the thing a bad boy would seek, whilst a good boy is more likely to be into relationships and making them work. Its heart breaking to see a good girl go really bad and from then on her life go down the gurgler. Its like playing with fire, can one do so without getting burnt?
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RHP User
16 years ago
FFS...I may be smart but I feel like the dumbest person on here. Yep. the BAD boys are not worth it! They fuck with my head and I lose. Even writing this post has had a strange effect. Firstly, there's the new "BAD boys" its attracted who want to come and fuck me. Then there's the existing "good guys" who want to come and fuck me to prove they can be BAD ! I'm not complaining... seriously I find it amusing. Stalky may be right... perhaps I like it this way ? Perhaps I am the PLAYER amongst all this? Perhaps this is exactly how I get my thrills ? Nothing wrong with that if there is ! Now all I'm confused about is whether the good guys are actually bad ? How do I tell the difference between playful bad and bad bad ! Two scenarios to ponder... both happened this morning: 1. Bad Boy starts online chat after 4 weeks of no chatting... wants to come over, "no" I say, but I allow him to convince me..."ok" I say, "but I'm not going to fuck u". He rocks up at my office... strips naked even though I tell him not to, and starts to get frisky. He's never done this before (actually no ones done this at my office FFS!). He starts getting TOO frisky... and I (politely) tell him to leave my office ! Which thankfully he does as I starting to worry where it may lead... 2. Good guy who I'd never met before rocks up AT MY OFFICE uninvited (yep it would have been very funny if they'd arrived together). I'm concerned how he tracked me down. I was busy with clients so couldn't see him but he persisted ! He went away for 3 hours ! then drove back. I was completely surprised (and impressed by his persistence)... a little concerned he may be a stalker ! He wants to bend me over my desk and I say "no". We have a nice chat and after I stand my ground (I am actually at WORK today and trying to earn money), he leaves. My question is... is no.1 a bad boy or is he good because he left when I asked him to ? Is no.2 a good guy or really BAD because he rocked up uninvited ! And (3) am I just the player amongst all the pigeons !! xxx Ms Saturn (still horny and unsatisfied but smiling)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Saturn, you need a good boy who is bad when you want it! drop me a message
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RHP User
16 years ago
I would like to have been one of your clients... that would have brightened up my whole voyeuristic day, if you had just kept saying yes to them both. Does that make me a bad boy too? Thinking about nooky at the workplace.... I wonder if a couple have tried it in a oversized coffin at a funeral parlour? Now that would be a special religious event, as the mourners would think they had found proof of the resurrection. Either that or you're about to bury some poor bugger alive. When people are trapped in lifts... is the screaming due to claustrophobia or an unwelcome amorous advance? I've always wondered about women who drive topless for the thrill. How else can you explain accidents on a straight road? I wonder how many artist's nude models get laid on the job? Did anyone keep statistics on romances in photographic darkrooms? Then there's the whole dogging practice... how many get caught at that? Well at least it goes to show your were a good girl on this occasion. But I'm beginning to doubt how you define good and bad boys?
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have to say, I don't think either of these chumps displayed any redeeming virtues. Since when does someone turn up at your place of work unannounced expecting sexual favours, potentially putting your livelyhood at risk. This stuff may be good in a fantasy or a porno, but in real life....just dumb, uncaring and displays a total lack of respect.If i was you Saturn i would be extremely concerrned as to how bad boy No2 knows so much about you!Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
Saturn, I won't comment on the two idiots who arrived at your place of work, young Nev did a good enough job of that. What I am amazed with is evidently how much information you tell people you don't know! I must be stupid, I rarely ask personal questions like where they work, their address etc, if they want to tell me fine, BUT I won't ask. Seriously you are playing a very dangerous game giving out too much info, not everyone is nice on this site nor do they all have good intentions. Thus endth the sermon ...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ok - so all this talk about niceguys made my spidey senses prick up and pay attention. Many guys will say that they are the "nice guy" just to get into a womans pants. But they soon show themselves as for what they really are. When that happens they screw it up for the rest of us that are genuinely the nice guys and make you gals all the more suspicious. I believe in being myself as much as I can with everyone possible. I wish other guys did the same. Me - I've offered the shoulder to friends who need it, helped them out when really I'd love to nail them to the bed. But that's what nice guys do. They are more respectful of the fairer sex that the bad boys. But they often don't score as well because many gals believe they want the bad boy and not the niceguy. To me being a gentleman such as others in this thread suggest comes naturally and is what is right... I don't know any other way. Anyway - not sure if that helps or not but hey - it's my two electrons worth BTW - Ms Saturn - love the photo... can I come visit you in Melbourne? please? pretty please? ;-) BTW2 - I've got a trademark on the Niceguy term so you'll all owe me royalties every time you type or utter the term ;-) Wayne ps - I get to wear the tshirt now.. ;-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
You know Ms Saturn niceguys can be lions as well Trust me... As the saying goes "its the quiet ones you need to look out for" and it is so true... Oh and Wayne...niceguy...just how are you going to collect on those royalties????? And i am curious to know what your t-shirt says xxxpandaxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's actually quite easy to discover all sorts of things about fellow rhp_ers without their consent ! I have another "friend" who tracked down my ABN and home address in addition to my work address. Luckily, he IS one of the nice guys and just wanted to show me how easy it is to find me. That's one reason I'm VERY VERY cautious in disclosing my name and occupation. Anyone in a private business is easy to identify and track down. It just takes a few brain cells and Google ! The balance is keeping enough private but risking enough to potentially find Mr Niceguy. FYI: I have only given my work location out to a handful of guys and I always ensure I have enough info about them BEFORE I disclose details about myself. AND I verify their info !!! The BAD boys usually don't get my address !! But my radar seems to have malfunctioned on the BAD versus GOOD button ! xx Ms Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
Perhaps we could all get in the chat room and do a group therapy session with me. Or perhaps an "intervention" is required to "save" the vulnerable Ms Saturn from the clutches of BAD BOYS ! Niceguy... you can visit me any day. You are one of the few nice guys I want to play BAD with !! Come on... I dare you...double dare..fly down this week and show me how naughty you really are and I'll buy you a new t-shirt ! Mooka... I think my previous response says how easy it is to track me down. Trust me, I am VERY cautious. Thanks for caring. Nev... your words of wisdom are appreciated. You are right. They are both BAD boys. I could actually see a potential non-consensual sex situation occuring... glad it didn't. I was in the office alone all day..still am alone at office at 10.30pm...hopefully no other rhp nuts are waiting outside ! Eunuch... yes...you can watch ! That turns me on ! Actually...are you outside my office now? It's dark outside and I don't have any blinds on the windows. If you were there I'd get some of my toys out of my filing cabinet and put on a show... Aussie29Male...mmmm... perhaps you can catch the plane down with Niceguy ! Your photo sends shivers down my spine and down down down ever soooo low. xxx Ms Saturn (I get a little strange after nearly 14 hours at work and no food all day... or sex !)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hmm MsSaturn... I love the dare... would love to accept it but not this week. I promise real soon though I'll come visit ;-) I have a dare for you... a private one. I suspect you are revealing too much about yourself and want to give you a slap up side the head (nicely of course). I kinda know a bit about investigative stuff over the internet (not saying any more than that).... but I disagree it's so easy to find out info. Sure with enough tips you can find whatever you want, but I have a challenge for you... I challenge you to give me MY ABN by the end of today. Email it to me privately of course (NOT via post back to the forum) along with my home address, shoe size and dinner preferences ;-) If you get all those right... then a special surprise will await you... ;-) Given you and I have chatted a little already.. you have a head start on the rest as I've revealed a specific detail to ya... do you accept? :-) Pandateddy (if that is indeed your real name...) I agree it is the quiet ones you need to watch for :-) As for royalties.. I have my ways of collecting.... as for the t-shirt... well to protect the lady I won't reveal it in public. So far I count Niceguy mentioned 38 times in this thread... there - that should cover it... ok - which lovely lady wants to pay up ;-) Yes - I'm in a particularly frisky mood this morning... Enjoy the day people Wayne
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